Tell the aunt you'd be happy to have them if she wants to pay for them
We didn't have them and as it turned out, the church had a LOT of fall decorations up when we got married. I think if we did have altar flowers, people may not have even noticed them.
ETA: I just looked at where you are getting married - it is so beautiful, I really don't think you need them
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That was something I saved money on by skipping.
tracie143
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I dont think I am gong to go nuts with this. I am going to get a few bows and call it a day
Soon2BMrsA
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I think if your church is really fancy then you dont need flowers and the flowers might even distract from the beauty of the church.. I have seen candle operas (sp?!) and I think those add a nice touch if you want something simple.
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I don't think you need to do anything, especially if you have an ornate church. I think a lot of flowers might even take away from it.
2003OCT10
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I wasn't going to have any... The week before the wedding a friend of the family made VERY SIMPLE white bows, and we put them on every other pew....
I dont think they are necessary!
HearzBellz
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We did not need them. Our church was very ornate. Actually the flowers were not noticible in any of our photographs
JanuaryBride06
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Posted by MonkeyLuv
I nominate all of you to tell my FH's aunt that I'm not getting flowers for the church!
I'll tell her
hbradio
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My church is not fancy at all and I had no decorations besides the pew bows.
Aga
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we didnt decorate the church at all, I liked its simplicity... honestly, I dont think a lot of people pay attention to it anyway...
PegaLega
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Our church is beautiful on the inside-flowers or not-we are going to do very minimal flowers if any at all