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pupidda122505 Posted: Feb 16, 2006 08:54 AM

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Mrs. Powell Posted: Feb 16, 2006 08:58 AM

Re: had a big fight with FH - my fault - how do i make it better?

First, I am so sorry to hear this. I give him some space to cool off and then I would apologize to him by stating what I have done wrong and I would try my best not to react like that again in the future. Good luck!!! I am sure he will be forgiving.

Love4Eva Posted: Feb 16, 2006 09:11 AM

Re: had a big fight with FH - my fault - how do i make it better?

Sorry to hear this, Santina

I would send him an email - or an e-card to apologize, and wait for him to call you - after he cools off. I hate how my FH always needs time to cool off - and I just want things to be settled right away - and thats how our fights get soo blown up - bc i dont leave him alone - and i wanna talk abt things. ..

Anyways, good luck! and im sure everything will be just fine in a little bit

sugarkube4 Posted: Feb 16, 2006 09:17 AM

Re: had a big fight with FH - my fault - how do i make it better?

I am sorry you and FH are fighting.. I hate that!! Try a little space and then maybe send a text message that says 'I'm Sorry' and if he responds you can be cute and text him back 'You still love me'? and that should cool things over!!!

ETAB Posted: Feb 16, 2006 10:18 AM

Re: had a big fight with FH - my fault - how do i make it better?

I am sorry I react the same way you do as well... I usually write him a text message or leave him a voice mail when I know he cannot answer....
I always say something like... 'Man what was up with you last night, you were acting crazy, yelling and giving me the silent treatment, I have to be honest with you it was a little scary... .... I am sorry baby... I love you!!!

That usually works!!!! good luck

pupidda122505 Posted: Feb 16, 2006 10:24 AM

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werock0709 Posted: Feb 16, 2006 10:42 AM

Re: had a big fight with FH - my fault - how do i make it better?

I'm just like you, in the sense that I over react over the stupidest, smallest things. We've had those arguments, and I always feel terrible after the fact. Theres NO reason to do this to our FI. I've dicovered that simply stating how you feel is best. Just ask them to listen, and hear you out, without interrupting, and it works. Glad your feeling better.

cantwait2bewed Posted: Feb 16, 2006 10:48 AM

Re: had a big fight with FH - my fault - how do i make it better?

Girlllllllll I am in the same situation right now. I threatned FH and called off the wedding the other day. I did it over something so stoopid. Of course the wedding isnt off. But now FH is so upset with me and he hasn't really been himself since Sunday. Right now i am just giving him his space to think. I have said sorry to him and have been giving him plenty of kisses and hugs to show him that I love him and that I still care.