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well if you mean staring with their tongue hanging out... yeah i agree that is rude...but i think its human nature to notice good looking guy/girl. i think a sidewards glance is no big deal...

i'm a little guilty of it myself .. i am a sucker for a guy with nice biceps

i people-watch...so i can't get mad at him for doing the same. but i think it would bother me if he was constantly talking about how 'hot' random girls on the street were or something like that.

a glance here and there is only natural i think. but it's disrespectful to be completely obvious about it when i'm standing next to him. that's the only thing that would really bother me. FH is good though, he's pretty subtle about it.

I honestly could care less. FH and I both have staring problems so we tend just to look at people anyway for no reason attractive or not. We people watch all the time. We even acknowledge attractive persons of the opposite sex and point them out to one another.

The more it is made taboo is the more he's going to want to do it. Many times when guys look it's because he can't help it. I know I wouldn't want him hawking me eveytime I looked either.

....that being said if he was like Dayuuum when a chick walked bye that would be over the top..lol

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Posted by empressdani

I honestly could care less. FH and I both have staring problems so we tend just to look at people anyway for no reason attractive or not. We people watch all the time. We even acknowledge attractive persons of the opposite sex and point them out to one another.

The more it is made taboo is the more he's going to want to do it. Many times when guys look it's because he can't help it. I know I wouldn't want him hawking me eveytime I looked either.

....that being said if he was like Dayuuum when a chick walked bye that would be over the top..lol

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I agreeI and its funny bc i do that with FH too, if I see real hott girls and he doesn't notice ill point it out to him. Of course its about respect, if he were to look at another girl while he was with me and make it obvious to her then i would get mad, but he never does that well he never likes to give any girl that satisfaction even when he was single so hes not the type to oogle and make it obvious to the girl. But I know him and exactly which girls he will think look good, so when i see one ill look at him right away and can tell if he finds them attractive and call him on it lol.

I also always like to ask him 'so you think that one is attractive' but i guess its how they handle it. I remember one time we were crossing the street and this gorgeous girl walks by us, she had an amazing body even i was like dayuuum look at her body, beautiful face and nicely dressed, as soon as Fh saw her he turned away and looked right at me and started talking to me about something and i was like OK you dont have to babble right now like you didnt notice her, but i appreciate him doing that.

Guys are gonna find other girls attractive, whether they tell you or not its human nature...just because you're in love doesn't mean all of a sudden nobody else is attractive.

Nah. I mean if he stops dead in his tracks while I'm in mid-conversation to literally drool at some girl, then yes, I'd be annoyed.
But he's engaged, not dead. He's a human being with attractions, so am I. I know he's not going to run after the girl and fall in love with her. And I know what he likes too and since he usually has his head in the clouds when we're out, I spot the girls he likes before he does. It's actually funny. And he gets a kick out of me getting googly-eyed at cute boys as well. When it comes down to it though, there's no one we'd actually want to be with than each other and that's all that matters to me.

I think it's natural when a guy looks at another girl and vice versa. I personlly dont have any problem with him looking at any other girls because sometimes If i see a nice guy I look at them too. He however bluntly claims to never look at any girls but I see him looking out of the corner of his eyes. He says he looks at everbody.

It doesnt bother me though. It's human nature.

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Posted by missliss

Nah. I mean if he stops dead in his tracks while I'm in mid-conversation to literally drool at some girl, then yes, I'd be annoyed.
But he's engaged, not dead. He's a human being with attractions, so am I. I know he's not going to run after the girl and fall in love with her. And I know what he likes too and since he usually has his head in the clouds when we're out, I spot the girls he likes before he does. It's actually funny. And he gets a kick out of me getting googly-eyed at cute boys as well. When it comes down to it though, there's no one we'd actually want to be with than each other and that's all that matters to me.

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you do exactly what i do, spot girls he would like before he does and then look at him...There are times though he gives it away bc what he does is start babbling on about nonsense and really talking quick and looking RIGHT at me, and im like hmmm ok i guess you thought that girl was cute lol. I dont know why he does that.

oh definitely!
haha i dont mind celebs...but a real person..like look but dont STARE!!!

edit: like i people watch too ( i saw u post that) but i watch women and men...if his eyes happen to be staring at a gorgeous woman dressed in lil nothings..than yeah ill be like ***! ahaha

but that is just me

Honestly, he really doesn't...... but, there WAS one time....

We were in the car w/ my parents, and there was a minivan with a mom in it, and he was STARING..... so, I turned to him and said, 'W T F are you looking at, you MILF hunting fatty?'

He swore he was admiring her Sirius radio.

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Posted by empressdani

I honestly could care less. FH and I both have staring problems so we tend just to look at people anyway for no reason attractive or not. We people watch all the time. We even acknowledge attractive persons of the opposite sex and point them out to one another.

The more it is made taboo is the more he's going to want to do it. Many times when guys look it's because he can't help it. I know I wouldn't want him hawking me eveytime I looked either.

....that being said if he was like Dayuuum when a chick walked bye that would be over the top..lol

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I agreeI and its funny bc i do that with FH too, if I see real hott girls and he doesn't notice ill point it out to him. Of course its about respect, if he were to look at another girl while he was with me and make it obvious to her then i would get mad, but he never does that well he never likes to give any girl that satisfaction even when he was single so hes not the type to oogle and make it obvious to the girl. But I know him and exactly which girls he will think look good, so when i see one ill look at him right away and can tell if he finds them attractive and call him on it lol.

I also always like to ask him 'so you think that one is attractive' but i guess its how they handle it. I remember one time we were crossing the street and this gorgeous girl walks by us, she had an amazing body even i was like dayuuum look at her body, beautiful face and nicely dressed, as soon as Fh saw her he turned away and looked right at me and started talking to me about something and i was like OK you dont have to babble right now like you didnt notice her, but i appreciate him doing that.

Guys are gonna find other girls attractive, whether they tell you or not its human nature...just because you're in love doesn't mean all of a sudden nobody else is attractive.

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haha FH is the same way. I mean I love to people watch no matter if they are attractive or not and I also try to guess what people are doing and where people are going sometimes so yes i ahve a staring problem haha. But it is easy to tell what girl FH will think is attractive and I can call him out on it sometimes. But he is never disrespectful to me if he does notice. But if i say a girl is pretty and he agrees I don't get mad. But I guess saying someone is pretty and dragging your mouth on the floor while drooling at a woman is another thing. But since FH and I have such great communication I am completely confident and secure with our relationship and dont care if FH find anothers woman attractive or glances at another woman!

actually we were at a wedding a few weeks ago and there was this girl next to him with her cooter hanging out of her mini dress when she sat down

so poor FH kept trying to just look at me. . . and i tried to ignore it but then he was like 'oh check out her bag that is nuts' it was like pink feathers and i looked at him and said 'ok great how about you DON'T look in that direction for the rest of the night'

he kept apologizing but i was laughing and i caught him a few more times . . . but seriously, even i was looking bc her dress was so short, i was just hoping that her brazilian was fresh. . .

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Posted by ant n tilde

actually we were at a wedding a few weeks ago and there was this girl next to him with her cooter hanging out of her mini dress when she sat down

so poor FH kept trying to just look at me. . . and i tried to ignore it but then he was like 'oh check out her bag that is nuts' it was like pink feathers and i looked at him and said 'ok great how about you DON'T look in that direction for the rest of the night'

he kept apologizing but i was laughing and i caught him a few more times . . . but seriously, even i was looking bc her dress was so short, i was just hoping that her brazilian was fresh. . .

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Nevermind her brazilian being fresh......

It doesn't bother me as long as it is just a quick glance or a quicke mention. I know he is human and looks at other girls, i know i look at other guys. i don't lust after them, but I wll say, He's cute. I often point girls out to FH, like, 'look she has a nice butt'