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HopelessRomantic Posted: Sep 17, 2010 01:25 AM

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LaBellaVita622 Posted: Sep 17, 2010 01:35 AM

Re: How long have you and FH done the silent treatment jig?

not that long we defnitely never go to sleep mad..I would say not even an hour? lol we're losers

DCgirl82 Posted: Sep 17, 2010 01:37 AM

Re: How long have you and FH done the silent treatment jig?

We don't.. we talk it out or just cool off for a bit but we always sit and talk.. we hate fighting

Tromsugar2b Posted: Sep 17, 2010 01:41 AM

Re: How long have you and FH done the silent treatment jig?

a few days tops...

KarynK Posted: Sep 17, 2010 06:11 AM

Re: How long have you and FH done the silent treatment jig?

Never I know, but it's true. Unbelievably we do not fight. We may disagreements, but in 5 years not one full blown fight. FI is 42, I am 35. Both of our previous relationships were not healthy ones, so we don't fight. We maybe had one argument, but that was over directions, lol.
I also 'choose' my battles. Stupid stuff is not worth fighting over.

adelya21 Posted: Sep 17, 2010 06:51 AM

Re: How long have you and FH done the silent treatment jig?

an hour the most lol if we have to argue we argue.

xoabxo Posted: Sep 17, 2010 06:52 AM

Re: How long have you and FH done the silent treatment jig?

half hour to an hour at the most that's if I can occupy myself for that long I am terrible at being quite and not talking to FH. I rather just talk it out immediately and get it over with.

Like Gina said i don't like to go to bed mad FH could go to bed mad if i let him but i will wake him up after a little and tell him i want to talk

Soon2BMrsJoeBear Posted: Sep 17, 2010 07:00 AM

Re: How long have you and FH done the silent treatment jig?

Posted by xoabxo

half hour to an hour at the most that's if I can occupy myself for that long I am terrible at being quite and not talking to FH. I rather just talk it out immediately and get it over with.

Like Gina said i don't like to go to bed mad FH could go to bed mad if i let him but i will wake him up after a little and tell him i want to talk

SAME!

jesstangney Posted: Sep 17, 2010 07:00 AM

Re: How long have you and FH done the silent treatment jig?

a night into the morning - ie - Monday, lol. When you live in a 1 bedroom apt and there is no way to 'escape' the other, silent treatment is the only option you have... I guess it's not really silent treatment, it's getting space to cool off so that you don't say something you might regret.... It's HEALTHY to argue and have disagreements, otherwise you end up ignoring things for so long that one day it all just explodes! I'd rather discuss things, have an argument and never have to deal with that issue again.

FutureJOC Posted: Sep 17, 2010 07:03 AM

Re: How long have you and FH done the silent treatment jig?

it usually doesn't last that long and it's more me giving it t him than him to me. We have an agreement to never go to bed angry at each other so it would never last longer than a day

angelscri Posted: Sep 17, 2010 08:23 AM

Re: How long have you and FH done the silent treatment jig?

a few days

futurestevens Posted: Sep 17, 2010 08:27 AM

Re: How long have you and FH done the silent treatment jig?

Posted by jesstangney

a night into the morning - ie - Monday, lol. When you live in a 1 bedroom apt and there is no way to 'escape' the other, silent treatment is the only option you have... I guess it's not really silent treatment, it's getting space to cool off so that you don't say something you might regret.... It's HEALTHY to argue and have disagreements, otherwise you end up ignoring things for so long that one day it all just explodes! I'd rather discuss things, have an argument and never have to deal with that issue again.

haha i hear you - i live in a bedroom as well, so sometimes we just need to go our separate ways (all 30 feet lol) and cool off. never lasts more than a couple hours though.

leesah85 Posted: Sep 17, 2010 09:30 AM

Re: How long have you and FH done the silent treatment jig?

never more than like 5 hours.

JennylovesStephen Posted: Sep 17, 2010 09:56 AM

Re: How long have you and FH done the silent treatment jig?

Maybe a minute or 2 before one of us starts talking When we get into an argument we never really stay mad at each other we get over it n move on

But we dont live together so IDK if that will change LOL

Notwedyet08 Posted: Sep 17, 2010 10:08 AM

Re: How long have you and FH done the silent treatment jig?

at most a day and usually only a work day when we don't have to see each other. If it were the weekend; we maybe would be mad at each other and limit our conversations but still no longer than a day.

BlushandBashful Posted: Sep 17, 2010 10:09 AM

Re: How long have you and FH done the silent treatment jig?

Eh, I'm way too confrontational to give FH the silent treatment. He knows IMMEDIATELY when I am pissed off. I just can't ignore it or pretend to ignore it. Helps us get over things faster that way.

ANDREA0316 Posted: Sep 17, 2010 10:39 AM

Re: How long have you and FH done the silent treatment jig?

Probably for a couple hours ...A few times it was an overnight but that was prob cause of a big fight and we needed the space.... But I usually start yelling cause not talking about things p*sses me off more! Lol... Or he usually pretends it didnt happen and comes and asks me something stupid like you hungry? LOL
I think its all relative to the severity of the argument really. And the longer you are together and live together the more you both learn each others way of handling things and sort of adapt...hope that makes sense..LOL