XOXO

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Posted by ness83

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Posted by BlushandBashful

Maybe she really does have some stuff going on at home? I noticed in your response that you didn't ask her for any clarification on what she meant by that in her email? Maybe she really has some not so great things going on in her life right now? Just trying to give her the benefit of the doubt...

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Whatever is going on with her hasn't stopped her from going out to every other event our friends have just to the things I invite her to. In my original email to her I did acknowledge that I know they have a lot going on (I know some of what is going on with her) and asked them to make a choice. She chose not to answer me until I emailed her again but she's so busy she was posting crap all over facebook.

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i have learned in not so great ways, that talking to someone is sooooooo much better than email/text/computer anything. I almost lost my best friend over something so stupid that got out of hand because we were talking via chat on FB instead of just calling. when you write something on the computer (including these boards) some things can be interpreted in a VERY wrong way.

talk to her and make sure that she is honest and upfront w everything. dont get mad and listen, and make sure that she does the same to you. We are all adults