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ohh boyyy... 5 days thats crazy... id be annoyed too!
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FH is having his two days before. And it's overnight. Yes, there was a lot of arguing about this one. And I came to realize that his happiness is important to me. Much more so than having 'help' the few days before.
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WOW does he know my FH LOL. My FH wants to do his bachelor party the weekend before and then had a big fight with me because he wanted the RD the ight before the wedding meawhile I know how his friends drink and they would just be hungover morning of the wedding (so I called the church and changed the RD lol). Guys don't understand all the things that go into a wedding that last week!
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wait, like an overnight?
I don't see a huge deal with a night the weekend before the wedding.
but if u mean they're going away 5 days before the wedding I'd be annoyed.
I don't see a huge deal with a night the weekend before the wedding.
but if u mean they're going away 5 days before the wedding I'd be annoyed.
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they just dont get it!
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to play devils advocate.. and I know you're upset so this probably won't help.
but my wedding is in 26 days, and everything needs to be done at least 3 weeks in advance..
besides like getting my nails done and dropping off stuff at my RH, there really doesn't seem like there will be much to do.
All my final appointments are done already, and everything is paid off. After I finish the seating this week, there really isn't much left to do.
but my wedding is in 26 days, and everything needs to be done at least 3 weeks in advance..
besides like getting my nails done and dropping off stuff at my RH, there really doesn't seem like there will be much to do.
All my final appointments are done already, and everything is paid off. After I finish the seating this week, there really isn't much left to do.
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can u ask him to make it friday night, sat night, home sunday morning so he can recover.. then dedicate the week to wedding stuff?
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Don't cry! Try to relax. Sit down and think what needs to be done those days. Do you need FH to do any of it, or do you really just want him around for emotional support? Can other people help you, like your mom or your BMs?
I was really upset too. We were both very upset about it for a few days but I thought about it, then we spoke calmly and rationaly about it. He told me how he felt about it. For him it was them or never, because his brother and dad are OOT and will only be able to make the trip that week. He always wanted a surprise party, and this whole thing is going to be a surprise. He doesn't know where he is going, just when and for how long. I was so upset but I couldn't take his bachelor party away from him just because I'm anxious. He is coming back Thursday morning. We get married Friday evening. We have to go to The Vineyards Thursday to drop off our stuff and hopefully go over things one last time. I told him what I needed him to do was find out what time we needed to be there and make sure he was back in time to get home, get our stuff and me, pick up his tux, and stop at the hotel first.
Once you each explain your feelings and what you need to feel comfortable I'm sure you can come to a compromise.
I was really upset too. We were both very upset about it for a few days but I thought about it, then we spoke calmly and rationaly about it. He told me how he felt about it. For him it was them or never, because his brother and dad are OOT and will only be able to make the trip that week. He always wanted a surprise party, and this whole thing is going to be a surprise. He doesn't know where he is going, just when and for how long. I was so upset but I couldn't take his bachelor party away from him just because I'm anxious. He is coming back Thursday morning. We get married Friday evening. We have to go to The Vineyards Thursday to drop off our stuff and hopefully go over things one last time. I told him what I needed him to do was find out what time we needed to be there and make sure he was back in time to get home, get our stuff and me, pick up his tux, and stop at the hotel first.
Once you each explain your feelings and what you need to feel comfortable I'm sure you can come to a compromise.
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he told me he's not in charge and its not his thing to arrange and he wants nothing to do with it. he also told me he doesn't care and called me a bridezilla and told me i can't control everything.
i'm graduating in may with my masters (1 week before his bach party) so for the entire first 20 days of May I am not doing anything wedding related as I will be finishing my 30 page thesis!
I'm getting my masters degree also, and I'm getting married right in the middle of my last semester... I graduate in May also.. my wedding is in 26 days. So I understand what you mean, but I've been able to get everything done.. plus you should get to have a spring break too where u can plan all your final appointments. Or dedicate one weekend.. that's what FH & I did. We dedicated 1 whole weekend to all the final appointments, did them consecutively, and just got it done.
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