XOXO

ness83 Posted: Feb 23, 2011 09:13 PM

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SoInLove916 Posted: Feb 23, 2011 09:18 PM

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I totally see where you are coming from, if you wanted her to go to your wedding, you would have invited her in the first place.
If i were her I wouldn't want to go knowing that I wasnt invited...
Thats just me.
But if you and your fh dont want her there, than thats that! Your friend should understand that!

ness83 Posted: Feb 23, 2011 09:20 PM

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SoInLove916 Posted: Feb 23, 2011 09:24 PM

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I guess it wouldnt bother some people, but it would bother me. People can be strange!I hope everything works out for you! let us know how it goes!!!

merbride Posted: Feb 23, 2011 09:36 PM

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you are def not wrong! she should respect how you feel and not bring that girl!

Im getting Married Posted: Feb 23, 2011 09:39 PM

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I'm having a small wedding so we will be spending time will all our guests I would definately stick to your guns and tell her this other girl is not invited. You just have to be prepared for the original friend to back out as well.

jgold910 Posted: Feb 23, 2011 09:45 PM

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I never heard of people bringing 'friends' as a +1 Definitely stick to your guns especially since she wasn't initially invited with a plus one!

Tomsbride Posted: Feb 23, 2011 09:54 PM

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I don't really think your friend did anything wrong. You told her she could bring a guest and I'm guessing she's not dating anyone so she invited a friend.

Now, do you not want her to bring this girl because you have bad blood or just because you didn't invite her orginally. Is there a reason you really don't want her there that your friend should have known about? If not, I don't think it's really right for her to have to univite the girl.

Of course, at the end of the day it's you wedding but I don't see it being a big deal if you don't have a problem with her.

CantWait2Wed Posted: Feb 23, 2011 10:31 PM

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I get what you are saying but you have to let this roll of your shoulders. Is it worth the stress? Is this one person going to do something to ruin your day?

FutureMrsDe Posted: Feb 23, 2011 11:15 PM

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I dont understand why people want to bring guests and not dates to weddings. unless you seriously dont know anyone else there, why would you bring someone else for the couple to pay for! people who have not been married dont seem to get it. i totally understand you not wanting someone you dont like to come to your wedding.

Fallinlove1013 Posted: Feb 23, 2011 11:19 PM

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ur not wrong!!

kshea23 Posted: Feb 23, 2011 11:19 PM

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Posted by jgold910

I never heard of people bringing 'friends' as a +1 Definitely stick to your guns especially since she wasn't initially invited with a plus one!

this!

Your doing your friend a favor by letting her bring a date, and really it should be a date- not a friend.

JessNicole7EM Posted: Feb 23, 2011 11:26 PM

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Posted by jgold910

I never heard of people bringing 'friends' as a +1 Definitely stick to your guns especially since she wasn't initially invited with a plus one!

I had 2 people bring 'friends'

BUT DH's brother wanted to bring this girl I absolutely loathe... as a 'friend' not even a date.

We told him flat out she was not welcome. he uninvited her.

Soon2bMrsB91511 Posted: Feb 23, 2011 11:43 PM

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Not to sound like a b*tch, but *** is wrong with people ?!

If your friend can't realize that +1 OBV means date, then that's a problem.

You can't being your 'girl friend'. It's not a club, its a wedding. Bringing a 'friend' is totally abusing your +1 privilege.

Ew, I'm sorry you're dealing with this BS. But, you gotta put your foot down and make it clear that, no, she cannot bring get friend.

If it were me, id make it VERY clear that this topic is no longer up for discussion. Done!

jgold910 Posted: Feb 23, 2011 11:43 PM

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Posted by JessNicole7EM

Posted by jgold910

I never heard of people bringing 'friends' as a +1 Definitely stick to your guns especially since she wasn't initially invited with a plus one!

I had 2 people bring 'friends'

BUT DH's brother wanted to bring this girl I absolutely loathe... as a 'friend' not even a date.

We told him flat out she was not welcome. he uninvited her.

good stuff - I didn't invite anyone with a +1 unless I knew they were in a serious relationship - this would have prevented all of this heartache!

nafnyc Posted: Feb 23, 2011 11:56 PM

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waht kind of friend is she if she insists on bringing someone you dont like?

ness83 Posted: Feb 24, 2011 09:31 AM

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SoonToBeMrsCali Posted: Feb 24, 2011 09:41 AM

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Posted by nafnyc

waht kind of friend is she if she insists on bringing someone you dont like?

This exactly...

Put your foot down.. you didn't invite her in the first place for a reason.

Mel-N-Az 2011 Posted: Feb 24, 2011 09:41 AM

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I think you are 100% right. It's your wedding and you should only have people you want there. Your friend needs to respect your decision. End of story!

anjelagain Posted: Feb 24, 2011 09:43 AM

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I didnt read this whole thing, but is this girl serious?? First of all i think its SO rude to bring a guest, knowing how much work andmoney goes into feeding and seating guests...

Maybe im mean, but i would just say to her the guest is for a date only, not so u can bring a friend tell her that you dont have room at tables etc. UGH!!!