So the question for today is: What is your FH's best trait when it comes to your relationship and what's the trait you merely tolerate?
Fh's best trait is he is never serious & always makes me laugh. I tend to be serious about things and he can always make me realize things aren't always so serious & to relax a bit.
His worst trait is he doesn't listen. Like I can tell him something and then 5 minutes later he asks me again the same question. I have got to the point where I just say, 'sorry i already answered that question' haha drives me freakin nuts!!!
dariamarie2
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FH's best trait is he is willing to do anything to make me happy. He is one of the most selfless people I have ever met. He works crazy amounts of overtime to make projects at our home possible/to pay for certain vendors we want for the wedding.
FH's worst trait is that when I talk he'll hear everything I say but doesn't always acknowledge me. It is one of the most obnoxious things in the world. He has been working on it ....but it's still a work in progress!!
melhunny46
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My FH's best trait is that he is very caring towards me and always makes sure that I am happy. He will go out of his way to make me happy.
FH's worst trait is that he is not really good with managing money. I tolerate it by taking over managing the bills and stuff. I guess his parents never taught him how to do this. SO I have taken over in that aspect, but he doesn't mind. He actually feels better now that he doesn't worry about where his money is going.
bridejackson22
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Fh best trait is he can always make me laugh and make me happy.
fh worst trait is when he gets annoyed at something he gets really snippy at me so I always have to remind him ummm hellooo your not mad at me so don't take it out on me. He's been getting better with that cause I just give him a look now.
Alimm729
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FH's best trait is that he's such a hard worker. He is always working at least two jobs, always doing whatever he has to do to provide for us. I work full time also, but he's just always going. And he's waaayyyy better with money than I am, I'm the spender, lol. So, he's in charge of all of that. lol.
The thing barely tolerate is nothing is ever put away. I find his socks all over the house, his shoes are sitting right NEXT to the closet door instead of in the closet, the butter, mayo, ketchup all sit out on the counter until I put them away. I don't understand why it's so hard to put things away! LOL!
FH's best quality is how smart and handy he is. I'm constantly amazed that when something is broke he knows how to fix it. Or how he manages all these spreadsheets to keep track of our spending and saving. He's just so good with that stuff.
His most obnoxious trait is definitely that he cannot multitask on anything. If he's playing a video game or focused on watching something on tv, he cannot hear me if i try to talk to him too. I constantly tell him that i live with 1345843 tabs open in my brain all the time and he just can't do more than one thing at a time.
Alimm729
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Posted by ReadyToBeAMrs
Posted by Alimm729
FH's best trait is that he's such a hard worker. He is always working at least two jobs, always doing whatever he has to do to provide for us. I work full time also, but he's just always going. And he's waaayyyy better with money than I am, I'm the spender, lol. So, he's in charge of all of that. lol.
The thing barely tolerate is nothing is ever put away. I find his socks all over the house, his shoes are sitting right NEXT to the closet door instead of in the closet, the butter, mayo, ketchup all sit out on the counter until I put them away. I don't understand why it's so hard to put things away! LOL!
Haha! That sounds just like my FH with the socks on the floor and the mayo on the counter!! I swear I tell him once a week that there's no cleaning fairy following him around putting things away and he has to do it himself lol
I know!! I started leaving his dirty socks on his pillow. LOL! He was like, what the.... One day I turned the corner towards the bathroom and almost slipped and fell on his socks! Since then I was like, if you don't want to put them in the hamper WHERE THEY BELONG, then I'm going to leave them where they don't belong either!! It's worked so far, but I think the kitchen will forever be me cleaning up after him!
coffeeisgreen
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His best trait...among many!...is that he always knows how to make me feel better even if it's him who is making me feel bad (though that's rare for him to be the cause but ya know).
His trait that I tolerate is his need to add to his massive DVD collection, many which take a long time to be opened. It's probably going to take up most of our living room when we get our own place.
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Posted by dariamarie2
FH's best trait is he is willing to do anything to make me happy. He is one of the most selfless people I have ever met. He works crazy amounts of overtime to make projects at our home possible/to pay for certain vendors we want for the wedding.
FH's worst trait is that when I talk he'll hear everything I say but doesn't always acknowledge me. It is one of the most obnoxious things in the world. He has been working on it ....but it's still a work in progress!!
I think it's a guy thing! I've definitely so many guys do that.
coffeeisgreen
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Posted by Alimm729
Posted by ReadyToBeAMrs
Posted by Alimm729
FH's best trait is that he's such a hard worker. He is always working at least two jobs, always doing whatever he has to do to provide for us. I work full time also, but he's just always going. And he's waaayyyy better with money than I am, I'm the spender, lol. So, he's in charge of all of that. lol.
The thing barely tolerate is nothing is ever put away. I find his socks all over the house, his shoes are sitting right NEXT to the closet door instead of in the closet, the butter, mayo, ketchup all sit out on the counter until I put them away. I don't understand why it's so hard to put things away! LOL!
Haha! That sounds just like my FH with the socks on the floor and the mayo on the counter!! I swear I tell him once a week that there's no cleaning fairy following him around putting things away and he has to do it himself lol
I know!! I started leaving his dirty socks on his pillow. LOL! He was like, what the.... One day I turned the corner towards the bathroom and almost slipped and fell on his socks! Since then I was like, if you don't want to put them in the hamper WHERE THEY BELONG, then I'm going to leave them where they don't belong either!! It's worked so far, but I think the kitchen will forever be me cleaning up after him!
Mine left his socks hanging neatly over the doorknob! I'm like all right, at least he attempted to put it somewhere?
simba301
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His best trait is how handy he is. I am always amazed at how he can fix almost anything.
I tolerate his messiness. He is very disorganized and is bad at picking up after himself. Luckily, he has a lot of wonderful qualities to make up for that! Lol
MrsDtoBe
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My FH best quality would have to be that he always knows how to make me laugh. In addition, he has proven that not all things from the olden days are dead - he still opens doors for me, surprises me pretty often with flowers or simple little things for no reason which I really love.
The thing that annoys me most is that he LOVES soda! He drinks it all the time and leaves the cans everywhere. It drives me nuts! Last week I lined up all of his cans with the one he just opened in the mix and told him if he wanted to drink it, he would have to sip each of the old ones to find the fresh one. He obviously didn't do it, but was so grossed out and annoyed that I haven't seen a can on the floor since
Angie2014
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FH's best trait would definitely be his calm demeanor. I tend to worry about EVERYTHING and I freak out a lot. He always keeps me calm. He is also the most organized person I have ever met (he may be a little OCD), so that is definitely a plus.
I tolerate his obsession with video games. He needs to get his video game fix daily, and he gets grumpy when he can't pass a level. It's cute when he gets games he thinks I may like, but I don't like it when I'm woken up by him cursing at Bowser in the middle of the night lol.
Diorprincess
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fh best trait is how great he treats me, he listens, he tries his hardest to make me happy and he doesn't try to change me. something all my ex's would do. he just lets me be me lol and I let him be him.
his worst trait is the video game obsession he has. he is always playing some game either a system, on his phone, a laptop. we'll be out in the city and he's sitting there playing a game on his phone. I tolerate it but it can be really annoying when I want to talk and he's just playing some game. and he's like I'm listening I'm listening...... he was never like that when we first started dating lol. he's like that's how comfortable I am with you...
luckyerialc
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Posted by MrsDtoBe
My FH best quality would have to be that he always knows how to make me laugh. In addition, he has proven that not all things from the olden days are dead - he still opens doors for me, surprises me pretty often with flowers or simple little things for no reason which I really love.
The thing that annoys me most is that he LOVES soda! He drinks it all the time and leaves the cans everywhere. It drives me nuts! Last week I lined up all of his cans with the one he just opened in the mix and told him if he wanted to drink it, he would have to sip each of the old ones to find the fresh one. He obviously didn't do it, but was so grossed out and annoyed that I haven't seen a can on the floor since
haha that's hilarious!
Terriechick
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Fh Best trait is definitly how smart and handy he is.. If he gets an idea in his head on how to create more space for us in uour apartment he does not procastinate on taking actuon and putting his ideas in motion.. The thing I tolerate is his snoring.. its not all the time but some nights if I do not fall asleep first I want to beat him!
emmac
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FH best trait is his patience, me I have none, I want everything done yesterday and am a bit of a spitfire at times, but he is so good with me...god bless him!
his worst trait is his indecisiveness, he has been looking for a new car for 1 year and still can't buy one. We left a deposit on a car and I got excited, the next day he went to get his money back because he just wasn't sure. me on the other hand pull in to a dealership in one car and drive off the same day in a new car. At this point I said you take my car I'm getting a new one lol...Men!!