Lately my FH has been a psycho maniac.. and flips out about the smallest and dumbest things. Now, let me give you a small background about him.. HE'S A HIPPY (wannabe lol)..and is very chill, relaxed..passive.. I can go on and on and on..
For the last 2 months.. he has NOT been himself at all.. he yells and flips out like I've never seen before.. which makes me yell and flip out back (hey, I'm from Brooklyn..sleep with your eyes open FH).
So my question is.. Is this normal? Do most FH's act like this before wedding.. and become groomzillas? lol
The reason I'm asking is because my friend, who's getting married before me.. said that her FH is acting EXACTLY the same way.. so I'm thinking that maybe I won't have to stab my FH in his sleep with a pencil eraser.. maybe he's just going thru some wedding related stress?
Thanks
Soon2BMrsAlini
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Re: Your groom-to-be's attitude..
Posted by JulianaK46
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Posted by AdriandSteve
FH doesn't get mad over ANYTHING which is annoying but he hasn't changed. I think the stress of the wedding and idea of marriage might finally be sinking in to your FH.
and if you're paying for your wedding, the MONEY!!! that is my FH's biggest issue with me, but whatever. he thinks that 'paying for the wedding' only includes money for the hall. he just doesn't get that there's EVERYTHING ELSE!!!!! so although i haven't given him $ for 2 months towards THE HALL, i still spent it on wedding-related stuff and he doesn't get that. my dress doesn't count, invites don't count.... talk about ANNOYINGGGGG!!!!
Mine thought the same... until I made him a list :)
yeah, tried that. unfortunately he breaks out the list of all the money i DIDN'T put toward the hall and all the money he did. ugh, so frustrating!
Soon2BMrsAlini
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Re: Your groom-to-be's attitude..
Posted by jhines4684
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Posted by AdriandSteve
FH doesn't get mad over ANYTHING which is annoying but he hasn't changed. I think the stress of the wedding and idea of marriage might finally be sinking in to your FH.
and if you're paying for your wedding, the MONEY!!! that is my FH's biggest issue with me, but whatever. he thinks that 'paying for the wedding' only includes money for the hall. he just doesn't get that there's EVERYTHING ELSE!!!!! so although i haven't given him $ for 2 months towards THE HALL, i still spent it on wedding-related stuff and he doesn't get that. my dress doesn't count, invites don't count.... talk about ANNOYINGGGGG!!!!
Yea, he didn't realize a Veil can cost so much, or a tiara, or shoes. he's like, 'do you have to have that tiara?'.
YES. If it calls to me, it's meant to be!!!! (
the tiara was $200, it had red rhinestones. I bought it has Macy's during a trunk show and I got 30% off, plus an extra $15 for using the card.
I spent $213 for a veil and tiara....most girls would think that's cheap!!!!
that is an awesome price!! i'm even cutting out the veil and tiara!!! i didn't really want a tiara and i figured no church, no veil. i'm cutting costs left and right and G-D FORBID he realizes that!!
