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Your guests vs your FH's

Original post by NYCGirl2008

How many of your guests are your hubby's friends and families and how many are yours? I have 240 guests, 180 are mine and only 60 are his. Is that messed up??? Should we invite more to make it even for him? It's feels odd.

laurak102476 Posted:

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We are keeping our wedding very small. I think we are having about 100 people, at most. I think it's pretty even, we both have very small families, and more friends.

Maria31 Posted:

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I have about 160 and FH has 70
He doesn't mind though. It is what it is...
Bride908 Posted:

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Ours a pretty much even. Im not sure who will have more in the turn out some people are asking how we will make the sides look even? Is anyone else worried about that. Im not really concerned but maybe I should be??

KK Holiday Posted:

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75% are mine and the rest are his. i didnt even notice until you said something.

i have a bigger family
CD516 Posted:

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I would say that out of our 165 guests in attendance, 50 were his and the rest were mine.

NapaValleyGirl Posted:

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My family has about 130 and FH 75. My parents are paying for the wedding and FH's family is small.
RisiLeigh Posted:

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Posted by NYCGirl2008

How many of your guests are your hubby's friends and families and how many are yours? I have 240 guests, 180 are mine and only 60 are his. Is that messed up??? Should we invite more to make it even for him? It's feels odd.



We have almost the same split. We invited 261 guests and nearly 180 of them are my side!!! FH's family can't believe we even know that many people
bluekat16 Posted:

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Ours is split equally for the most part...I think he'll have more people RSVP yes since the wedding is on LI and his ENTIRE family is on LI.

Lucky0510 Posted:

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about 75% of the guest list is from my side... I feel bad he doesn't have more family coming. but he is fine with it.
jessnstu08 Posted:

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I have much more family comming then FH ( he has a TINY family ) but he has WAY more friends/coworkers then me comming, so it is about an even split

LoriBeth2728 Posted:

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Our family is about 50/50, but more of his iwll be at the wedding. We only have a few of our friends invited, unfortunately.

autumnbride10 Posted:

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We actually have 30 people each....
cherish83 Posted:

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I'm inviting 133 and FH has 79
GinaZ Posted:

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we ended up about even. We both have big famlies and a lot fo our friends are both of our friends.

ttw910 Posted:

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I have more family, but he has a lot more friends, so it will be about even (i think).

Kerin2804 Posted:

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there are definitely more from my family than his.

MSeed Posted:

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Invitation-wise, FH and I are about even. I think he has 6 more ppl then me.

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