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How much did you tip maitre d'?
magbride Posted: Oct 31, 2007 11:32 PM+
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How much did you tip maitre d'?

per person?
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dancerandchef Posted: Nov 01, 2007 12:04 AM+
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Re: How much did you tip maitre d'?

We ended up giving our maitre d' $400. How you figure it out is to tip them between $2 to $3 dollars. You figure how many guests, bride and groom. Muplity that number by 2 or 3 and you will get the number that you will need to tip. We gave extra because our maitre d' was excellent!!

~dancer and chef~
charlotte and michael
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nycgirl79 Posted: Nov 01, 2007 12:30 AM+
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Re: How much did you tip maitre d'?

Most RH's 'suggest' between $3-$5 pp.
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thelastresort Posted: Nov 01, 2007 12:44 AM+
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Re: How much did you tip maitre d'?

I'm giving $1K. I feel like that is somewhere in the middle.
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PegaLega Posted: Nov 01, 2007 01:17 AM+
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Re: How much did you tip maitre d'?


Posted by dancerandchef

We ended up giving our maitre d' $400. How you figure it out is to tip them between $2 to $3 dollars. You figure how many guests, bride and groom. Muplity that number by 2 or 3 and you will get the number that you will need to tip. We gave extra because our maitre d' was excellent!!

~dancer and chef~
charlotte and michael



I think we did $300~after all the money we gave out for the RH I refused to go crazy
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HelenZ Posted: Nov 01, 2007 04:07 AM+
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Re: How much did you tip maitre d'?

I had put $400 in a tip envelope for the maitre d beforehand, but DH insisted on giving him another $200 b/c he was so attentive to us the whole night.

ETA- if you worked it out pp it was $4
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AllJoy Posted: Nov 01, 2007 08:00 AM+
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Re: How much did you tip maitre d'?


Posted by thelastresort

I'm giving $1K. I feel like that is somewhere in the middle.



Wow, lucky him/her
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micknjohn Posted: Nov 01, 2007 08:48 AM+
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Re: How much did you tip maitre d'?

we gave $5 per person
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DeannaNDave07 Posted: Nov 01, 2007 08:49 AM+
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Re: How much did you tip maitre d'?

we are going to put $500 in the envelope.. and based on how he does... we will add or just leave as is..

we are not sealing any envelopes!!
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soon2bmrsdunn Posted: Nov 01, 2007 09:00 AM+
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Re: How much did you tip maitre d'?

Since our RH said that the MD's tip goes to the MD only we gave $2 per person, $400, and then she did such an amazing job that I added more to the envelope at the end of the night. But I think $400 is extremely generous for one night of work!
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TreAnt425 Posted: Nov 01, 2007 09:12 AM+
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Re: How much did you tip maitre d'?

We gave $400 and had under 200 people - so it worked out to be a little over $2 pp
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rkl1130 Posted: Nov 01, 2007 09:18 AM+
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Re: How much did you tip maitre d'?

We gave ours $300, but he totally made out because my dad and FIL also tipped him at least $150 each as well.
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magbride Posted: Nov 01, 2007 10:29 AM+
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Re: How much did you tip maitre d'?

Thanks ladies! Our hall said $4-6 pp, while our DOC said $2-6. I think we've decided to give around $3.50. It works out $700
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LuckySevens Posted: Nov 01, 2007 01:31 PM+
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Re: How much did you tip maitre d'?

We gave $5/pp.
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AMANDA2378 Posted: Nov 01, 2007 01:34 PM+
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Re: How much did you tip maitre d'?

how do you know how many ppl you will have to tip?
my hall suggested 3-5 per person (waiters, cooks, help, matra, etc....)


i guess you should call before hand and get an idea of how many ppl so you can give the right amount?
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acsm Posted: Nov 01, 2007 01:38 PM+
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Re: How much did you tip maitre d'?


Posted by DeannaNDave07

we are going to put $500 in the envelope.. and based on how he does... we will add or just leave as is..

we are not sealing any envelopes!!




thats what we did- didnt seal any tips til we handed them off!!

think we did $400 or $500 cant remember.. then there were a bunch other we had to tip as well...
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Trishthedish Posted: Nov 01, 2007 03:06 PM+
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Re: How much did you tip maitre d'?

We had about 187 people and tipped our maitre'd $1,000.

Our Maitre'd and bridal attendants went above and beyond.
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jenn122397 Posted: Nov 01, 2007 03:07 PM+
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Re: How much did you tip maitre d'?

i was told it is customary to tip between $3-4 per person. You should also base your tip on teh srevice you get that night.
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Summer07Bride Posted: Nov 01, 2007 06:30 PM+
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Re: How much did you tip maitre d'?

~$4 per person - right in the middle
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Summer07Bride Posted: Nov 01, 2007 06:31 PM+
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Re: How much did you tip maitre d'?


Posted by AMANDA2378

how do you know how many ppl you will have to tip?
my hall suggested 3-5 per person (waiters, cooks, help, matra, etc....)


i guess you should call before hand and get an idea of how many ppl so you can give the right amount?



They mean per guest not per staff.
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