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DILEMMA!- taking down soon
grkbarbie Posted: Apr 14, 2011 02:25 PM+
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DILEMMA!- taking down soon

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flibbertigibbet Posted: Apr 14, 2011 02:26 PM+
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Re: DILEMMA!- taking down soon

just say 'were trying to keep this a close small group.'
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grkbarbie Posted: Apr 14, 2011 02:27 PM+
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Re: DILEMMA!- taking down soon

that wont work becki. i dont want to hurt anyones feeelings. but ***. im entitled to say who i want and who i dont want coming!!!!! i just hate being the mean one
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cateydee Posted: Apr 14, 2011 02:28 PM+
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Posted by grkbarbie

i just hate being the mean one



you already are
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little j Posted: Apr 14, 2011 02:28 PM+
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Re: DILEMMA!- taking down soon

hmm. thats a toughie. does the other person really go everywhere his friend goes? i would take becki's advice...but id also present it as 'im thinking of doing this....'

so in case it sounds like your plan wont work, you can just cancel it and keep it a nice time for just the 2 of you
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grkbarbie Posted: Apr 14, 2011 02:28 PM+
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Re: DILEMMA!- taking down soon

jerk!
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MerSaysEh Posted: Apr 14, 2011 02:28 PM+
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Re: DILEMMA!- taking down soon

i love your dilemmas barb.

agree with beckster. say something like 'in order to keep the surprise as secret as possible and to make this weekend special we are keeping it to only those invited by us, please do us a favor and don't invite anyone else along. thanks'
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Rosalind_75 Posted: Apr 14, 2011 02:30 PM+
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Re: DILEMMA!- taking down soon

YOU SHOULD POST THIS ON LIF

does this person look like anyone/celeb
im trying to get an idea of of how bad this person can look that you would want to axe the surprise
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cateydee Posted: Apr 14, 2011 02:30 PM+
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Re: DILEMMA!- taking down soon


Posted by MerSaysEh

i love your dilemmas barb.

agree with beckster. say something like 'in order to keep the surprise as secret as possible and to make this weekend special we are keeping it to only those invited by us, please do us a favor and don't invite anyone else along. thanks'



that might work. and tell them not to tell anyone else either.

apparently i'm jerky and judgy today. sorry!!
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grkbarbie Posted: Apr 14, 2011 02:30 PM+
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MerSaysEh Posted: Apr 14, 2011 02:33 PM+
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Re: DILEMMA!- taking down soon

are they in love? why do they have to do everything together?

and pizza party at your house is different than a surprise in ac....you really dont think it will work?

i'll be the mean one for you. i'll tell them.
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grkbarbie Posted: Apr 14, 2011 02:33 PM+
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little j Posted: Apr 14, 2011 02:36 PM+
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Re: DILEMMA!- taking down soon

wow .... im curious....yet scared at the same time....
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MerSaysEh Posted: Apr 14, 2011 02:36 PM+
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that is an unfortunate looking individual.
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flibbertigibbet Posted: Apr 14, 2011 02:37 PM+
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Re: DILEMMA!- taking down soon

he's legit disgusting looking. just so you all know.


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AwaitingAugust Posted: Apr 14, 2011 02:38 PM+
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Re: DILEMMA!- taking down soon

i never got to read the original post so i'm not entirely sure what happened (i can sort of guess though) ... but i just wanted to say that all of the responses you have here are pretty awesome
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grkbarbie Posted: Apr 14, 2011 02:38 PM+
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Re: DILEMMA!- taking down soon

i feel like crying because he is soo nice and i am upset with myself for having these feeelings but im sorry im not dropping $3-400 on a weekend to be skeeeved out
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flibbertigibbet Posted: Apr 14, 2011 02:39 PM+
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Re: DILEMMA!- taking down soon

you can set him up with my SIL

although i wouldn't wish her upon even him.
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miamimerger Posted: Apr 14, 2011 02:51 PM+
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Re: DILEMMA!- taking down soon

wow now i'm curious!
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