Errrrrrrrrr

I just need to vent...and i know theres no better place to do it but here.

I grew up in Queens in one of those lovely apartment buildings. Our downstairs neighbor was this lazy biotch who had kids just to keep those government checks coming...
We moved to LI 14 yrs ago and now with the grace of Facebook - my family has now been able to reconnect with this heffer. (lucky us)

My sister passed away 9 months ago today and this stupid biotch feels she has the right to post on her facebook on the 2nd of every month 'RIP KIANA, you are missed every day especially by your dad, friends & family'

Now for my vent: My sister's father is an @$$ who said some very very mean stuff about my mother and the rest of my family after my sister passed. He didnt even show up to his own daughter's burial!!!! He was never there for her. Her step father, my dad, raised her..provided for her..Treated her like she was his own!
So much so that she always wanted to change her last name.

Fast forward to the old neighbor: THIS STUPID BIOTCH DOESNT KNOW MY SISTERS DEAD BEAT FATHER FROM A HOLE IN THE WALL!!!! So how the hell does she get off saying that my sister's father misses her??? And why on earth would she make it seem as if my mom, my dad, my other sister and me dont miss her at all?

My mom has blocked her completely on FB. I have her blocked so she cant see what i post. But even though she bugs the hell out of me...i feel like i have to keep an eye on her and must keep her as a friend.



I'm done. Thanks for listening.

Re: Errrrrrrrrr

awww first of all, sorry for you loss, i know it must be hard on the anniversaries...

this person really should mind her own buisness, if she misses your sister thats one thing, but to make it like only certain people miss her is rediculous!!

the important thing is that your sister knows who the important people were in her life...she knows you and her step fathre were the ones who were always there for her...

feel better sweeti!!!
lots of hugs for you!!!

Re: Errrrrrrrrr

I'm so sorry you have to go through this Megan. I hate when people outside of a family feel the need to 'grieve' publicly.

Re: Errrrrrrrrr

ugh...hugs to you hunny!

Re: Errrrrrrrrr

that is so awful you have to have that reminder from her. .I mean I know of course you will never forget but to have someone else deal with it in that manner seems awful. .

I pose this just as a question not bc I'm trying to give the crazy any credit - but do you think she could mean her step-dad when she says dad?

Re: Errrrrrrrrr

---

Posted by meara



I pose this just as a question not bc I'm trying to give the crazy any credit - but do you think she could mean her step-dad when she says dad?

---

i wish! each month she specifically says 'Her father, Donald....'

blah blah.

I would love to see her father's face if/when he ever sees my sister's grave marker...
it says Kiana A. her last name - my maiden name So in the end she got my father's name afterall...

Re: Errrrrrrrrr

---

Posted by LadyDuda81509

awww first of all, sorry for you loss, i know it must be hard on the anniversaries...

this person really should mind her own buisness, if she misses your sister thats one thing, but to make it like only certain people miss her is rediculous!!

the important thing is that your sister knows who the important people were in her life...she knows you and her step fathre were the ones who were always there for her...

feel better sweeti!!!
lots of hugs for you!!!

---

ITA

Re: Errrrrrrrrr

Megan this downright $ucks. Im sorry - I dont have any good words of advice except that you know who & what is in thr right here - just keep remembering that & know that some people just 'don't get it' when it comes to personal information....

Re: Errrrrrrrrr

Oh this is terrible.

First, I'm sorry for your loss.

Second... I think you need to delete and block this person. Cut her from your life and pretend she doesn't exist. It's only going to make up upset and it's not worth it. You and the ones involved know the truth. And to anyone else who knows the truth... well that means they know this woman is a fool.

Re: Errrrrrrrrr

Re: Errrrrrrrrr

---

Posted by Dreemer107

---

Posted by meara



I pose this just as a question not bc I'm trying to give the crazy any credit - but do you think she could mean her step-dad when she says dad?

---

i wish! each month she specifically says 'Her father, Donald....'

blah blah.

I would love to see her father's face if/when he ever sees my sister's grave marker...
it says Kiana A. her last name - my maiden name So in the end she got my father's name afterall...

---

hmm. . well just seems like the woman has nothing in her own life to hold on to. ..

I say just delete her from your FB - I get the wanting to watch her thing but seems like it's just giving her the opportunity to hurt you and you DEF don't need that!!!

Re: Errrrrrrrrr

OMG! First of all might i just say that i totally understand! Where i grew up there was this family across the street & one of the daughters literally used to stalk my entire family. Everytime we were outside or have people or BBQs over she would always try to weasel her way in or get an invite. Of course we had very large property so we were able to keep her out. lol Anyway years later my parents moved. We finally lost touch & BAM FB brings her back. Now one of my sisters felt badbecause supposedly she isnt doing well & maybe dying or something. So she accepted her friend request. Needless to say we all did after we heard such bad news from her. So of course she starts stalking our pages leaving a million comments trying to get our phone numbers etc. So we all finally blocked everything from her. She finally relaxed from the messages. So crazy!!!!

Anyway im sorry about your ordeal. Some people are just nuts.

Re: Errrrrrrrrr

I'm so sorry for your loss. I don't have any advice. Just wanted to leave some and

Re: Errrrrrrrrr

I'm sorry about your loss. That must have been really hard on your family. Can maybe someone in your family (who is facebook friends with this woman and doesn't have her blocked) suggest that she stop posting that? Can you talk to one of your family members and ask them to ask her to stop posting stuff about your sister's death or her biological father? Maybe that would help? Sorry I can't think of anything else.

Re: Errrrrrrrrr

first off i am so so very sorry for your loss...

second this biotch needs to mind her own..im sorry she did this and to me she had no right whatsover

just know you sis is with you always and looking down and this lady thinking simply..shut up!!!!!


as hard as it is dont et her get to you..shes just plain and simple not worth it