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I'm a jerk and my husband is amazing.
mybabylovesmoi
Posted: Oct 07, 2011 12:46 PM+

Posted: Oct 07, 2011 12:46 PM
I'm a jerk and my husband is amazing.
So hubby and I were walking to work this morning and started to have a stupid argument about something trivial. I was grouchy already and hormonal and finally I said 'omg, shut the F up!'
A huge no, no with us. I've only said 'shut the h ell up' one other time to him, ever (also during pregnancy
) and I know how offended he gets. After I said it this time I just stormed ahead of him and he didn't say anything to me.When I got to work I felt really bad so I went to him and I apologized but he looked mad and didn't want to talk to me
Around 11:30 I saw him leaving with two coworkers for lunch. He always gets cuban food with them on fridays and always invites me even though I say 'no' because it's his boys time. I was really hurt he didn't invite me or ask me if I wanted something
Anyway, I was just about to go get something to eat right now and he comes by and drops some food on my desk. Now I'm tearing up while eating my ropa vieja, yellow rice and black beans.
I'm telling you, I'm really hormonal. But it totally reminds me what a great guy I married. No matter how jerky I am, he can never completely turn his back on me...or let me go hungry.
I have to be extra sweet to him this weekend.
rosatemp
Posted: Oct 07, 2011 12:50 PM+

Posted: Oct 07, 2011 12:50 PM
Re: I'm a jerk and my husband is amazing.
awww anney dont be so hard on yourself he knows its the hormones hun...like you said make it up to him this weekend...it will all be fine
StaceyWill
Posted: Oct 07, 2011 12:51 PM+

Posted: Oct 07, 2011 12:51 PM
Re: I'm a jerk and my husband is amazing.
Awwwww- he's so sweeet!
mariedsgn
Posted: Oct 07, 2011 12:52 PM+

Posted: Oct 07, 2011 12:52 PM
Re: I'm a jerk and my husband is amazing.
aw!!!! I am sure that he understands that this is all hormonal for you!sounds like you have a great DH!!
Cataverri
Posted: Oct 07, 2011 12:52 PM+

Posted: Oct 07, 2011 12:52 PM
Re: I'm a jerk and my husband is amazing.
Awww this story made me want to cry but also put a huge smile on my face. I think he just understands that you very hormonal right now.
to him for briging you food. Enjoy the ropa vieja I made it last weekend...yummy!!!!!!!!!!
MrsTarricone2B
Posted: Oct 07, 2011 01:00 PM+

Posted: Oct 07, 2011 01:00 PM
Re: I'm a jerk and my husband is amazing.
Awwww Anney don't feel bad, it's just your hormones. I'm sure your hubby totally understands - I'm glad he brought you a yummy lunch. You have a good man
mybabylovesmoi
Posted: Oct 07, 2011 01:04 PM+

Posted: Oct 07, 2011 01:04 PM
Re: I'm a jerk and my husband is amazing.
Posted by Cataverri
Awww this story made me want to cry but also put a huge smile on my face. I think he just understands that you very hormonal right now.![]()
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to him for briging you food. Enjoy the ropa vieja I made it last weekend...yummy!!!!!!!!!!
I love ropa vieja! He knows it's my favorite
VCanizalez
Posted: Oct 07, 2011 01:05 PM+

Posted: Oct 07, 2011 01:05 PM
Re: I'm a jerk and my husband is amazing.
Awww Anney its ok chica!!U are so sweettt and a great woman and I AM SURE HE KNOWS THAt!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Marco sounds like Luis... IT dont matter if I flip out, he is always there too...
He understands.. and he is a Good man =-)
AwaitingAugust
Posted: Oct 07, 2011 02:46 PM+

Posted: Oct 07, 2011 02:46 PM
Re: I'm a jerk and my husband is amazing.
aww, that's so nice of him ....and don't worry, you're not a jerk at all ... just hormonal, as you said
chreesta
Posted: Oct 07, 2011 04:19 PM+

Posted: Oct 07, 2011 04:19 PM
Re: I'm a jerk and my husband is amazing.
Posted by mariedsgn
aw!!!! I am sure that he understands that this is all hormonal for you!
sounds like you have a great DH!!![]()
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Agreed
evita2781
Posted: Oct 09, 2011 11:06 PM+

Posted: Oct 09, 2011 11:06 PM
Re: I'm a jerk and my husband is amazing.
aww i'm sure he understands that's it's hormonal and he was probably just taken a back from it. he's a really great guy and you're an awesome girl and i saw the love b/w the 2 of u guys at v's wedding. things like this happens but in the end, everything will be ok
quirkybride
Posted: Oct 10, 2011 11:38 AM+

Posted: Oct 10, 2011 11:38 AM
Re: I'm a jerk and my husband is amazing.
I think most people lose it sometimes, tell him you're sorry. It'll be ok.
Moonmist09
Posted: Oct 11, 2011 11:00 AM+

Posted: Oct 11, 2011 11:00 AM
Re: I'm a jerk and my husband is amazing.
i'm not going to say its ok but your hormonal and i'm sure your DH understands this.but super sweet that he brought you back lunch!
mybabylovesmoi
Posted: Oct 11, 2011 12:37 PM+

Posted: Oct 11, 2011 12:37 PM
Re: I'm a jerk and my husband is amazing.
thanks girls, I am definitely going to try my best to just bite my tongue. I know that was not okay and if he ever said that to me i'd be pi$$ed for days not a few hours. that's why I lover him
And I was very nice to him this weekend. I even rubbed his feet after he did yard work
he was like WHA?????!!!! he knows i hate feet
VCanizalez
Posted: Oct 11, 2011 12:55 PM+

Posted: Oct 11, 2011 12:55 PM
Re: I'm a jerk and my husband is amazing.
Posted by mybabylovesmoi
thanks girls, I am definitely going to try my best to just bite my tongue. I know that was not okay and if he ever said that to me i'd be pi$$ed for days not a few hours. that's why I lover him![]()
And I was very nice to him this weekend. I even rubbed his feet after he did yard work![]()
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he was like WHA?????!!!! he knows i hate feet![]()
BUT he appreciate what u did!!!
and I am glad he understood =-)
So sweet of Marco!!!!!!
NOW we have to get PUPUSAS
Ill let u knwo when we go to NJ, soon ptoblably... a weekend.
mybabylovesmoi
Posted: Oct 12, 2011 12:53 PM+

Posted: Oct 12, 2011 12:53 PM
Re: I'm a jerk and my husband is amazing.
Posted by VCanizalez
Posted by mybabylovesmoi
thanks girls, I am definitely going to try my best to just bite my tongue. I know that was not okay and if he ever said that to me i'd be pi$$ed for days not a few hours. that's why I lover him![]()
And I was very nice to him this weekend. I even rubbed his feet after he did yard work![]()
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he was like WHA?????!!!! he knows i hate feet![]()
BUT he appreciate what u did!!!
and I am glad he understood =-)
So sweet of Marco!!!!!!
NOW we have to get PUPUSAS
Ill let u knwo when we go to NJ, soon ptoblably... a weekend.![]()
yup, let me know :)
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