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joint accounts and gifts
JenBill61210
Posted: Sep 23, 2010 04:55 PM+

Posted: Sep 23, 2010 04:55 PM
joint accounts and gifts
i was just thinking about this... how do you buy something for your DH for birthdays/holidays, etc. without him knowing if you have a joint account? We both keep track of the purchases and balance the checkbook. Just wanted to get some ideas!
MrsC2010
Posted: Sep 23, 2010 04:57 PM+

Posted: Sep 23, 2010 04:57 PM
Re: joint accounts and gifts
this is why we have our own accounts in addition to our joint account.
rdubs
Posted: Sep 23, 2010 06:25 PM+

Posted: Sep 23, 2010 06:25 PM
Re: joint accounts and gifts
Posted by MrsC2010
this is why we have our own accounts in addition to our joint account.
Same! But I'm in control of joint acct so he probably wouldn't notice anyways.
geegee827
Posted: Sep 23, 2010 07:53 PM+

Posted: Sep 23, 2010 07:53 PM
Re: joint accounts and gifts
Posted by MrsC2010
this is why we have our own accounts in addition to our joint account.
same here. Our joint account is only for 'joint' stuff. We each maintain our own separate accounts.
MikesBride2B
Posted: Sep 23, 2010 09:40 PM+

Posted: Sep 23, 2010 09:40 PM
Re: joint accounts and gifts
Posted by geegee827
Posted by MrsC2010
this is why we have our own accounts in addition to our joint account.
same here. Our joint account is only for 'joint' stuff. We each maintain our own separate accounts.
Us too. This way DH can make his stupid man purchases and I don't have to get angry that he spent joint money on it. Also it means I can buy all the shoes I want and he can't yell at me for it
gina409
Posted: Sep 23, 2010 10:33 PM+

Posted: Sep 23, 2010 10:33 PM
Re: joint accounts and gifts
pay with cash!!!and last year i didnt want any thing to come up on the cc bill so he would know where i shopped so i bought a visa gift card and bought it that way
eternitybride
Posted: Sep 24, 2010 09:55 AM+

Posted: Sep 24, 2010 09:55 AM
Re: joint accounts and gifts
we have 3 accounts, one personal each, one joint (well, 6 if you count savings lol).but I would recommend paying with cash as girls have said
Rosalind_75
Posted: Sep 24, 2010 10:01 AM+

Posted: Sep 24, 2010 10:01 AM
Re: joint accounts and gifts
Posted by geegee827
Our joint account is only for 'joint' stuff. We each maintain our own separate accounts.
SAME HERE
mrsdraskin2009
Posted: Sep 24, 2010 10:46 AM+

Posted: Sep 24, 2010 10:46 AM
Re: joint accounts and gifts
He has NO online access to our accounts. He doesn't care and I don't mind. When he buys for me he takes out cash, in small increments, so I never really see something big come out.
halfbaked
Posted: Sep 24, 2010 10:47 AM+

Posted: Sep 24, 2010 10:47 AM
Re: joint accounts and gifts
Posted by rdubs
Posted by MrsC2010
this is why we have our own accounts in addition to our joint account.
Same! But I'm in control of joint acct so he probably wouldn't notice anyways.
Ditto.
JenBill61210
Posted: Sep 24, 2010 04:01 PM+

Posted: Sep 24, 2010 04:01 PM
Re: joint accounts and gifts
thanks girls. i would take out cash of the account but was just afraid he would notice and say something.. oh well i have until december so i still have time but i guess i'll figure it out!!
stinenandy2010
Posted: Sep 24, 2010 04:05 PM+

Posted: Sep 24, 2010 04:05 PM
Re: joint accounts and gifts
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