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Moral Dilemma: TTD & Vintage Fur Stole

Chelechel1 Posted: Oct 10, 2011 07:57 PM+

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Posted: Oct 10, 2011 07:57 PM

Moral Dilemma: TTD & Vintage Fur Stole

I have a TTD next month and I'm expecting the weather to be cold (obviously). I have my grandmother's fur stole in our cedar closet in my basement.... It's SEAL fur though!!!!!

I don't know what to do....... do you think that it's bad to wear; or is it OK since it's from the 30's 40's and I'm not buying it brand new?????? I don't wear fur, I'm against it and I feel like a hypocryte if I wear it, yet I feel like it's just sitting there in the basement anyway.

What would you do???? It's BABY SEAL!!!!

Cookie De La Devine Posted: Oct 10, 2011 08:00 PM+

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Posted: Oct 10, 2011 08:00 PM

Re: Moral Dilemma: TTD & Vintage Fur Stole

Its vintage and a family heirloom wear it.

halfbaked Posted: Oct 11, 2011 09:12 AM+

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Posted: Oct 11, 2011 09:12 AM

Re: Moral Dilemma: TTD & Vintage Fur Stole

I wouldn't because the idea of wearing real fur skeeves me.

(Not that it should, I wear leather shoes, but whatever.) But don't feel guilty, it's not like you're out clubbing baby seals on the weekend..... are you?

evita2781 Posted: Oct 11, 2011 09:30 AM+

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Posted: Oct 11, 2011 09:30 AM

Re: Moral Dilemma: TTD & Vintage Fur Stole

hmm that's a tough one. i think the fur would look really awesome in the pictures and i would wear it just for that even though i'm against it...yea i prob sound like a hypocrite, but i think for this 1 time it's ok.

VCanizalez Posted: Oct 11, 2011 09:53 AM+

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Posted: Oct 11, 2011 09:53 AM

Re: Moral Dilemma: TTD & Vintage Fur Stole

I think if it is only for this time Wear it...
Im sure u will look cute =-) and it will look good =-)

AwaitingAugust Posted: Oct 11, 2011 10:02 AM+

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Posted: Oct 11, 2011 10:02 AM

Re: Moral Dilemma: TTD & Vintage Fur Stole

i think if it's giving you this moral dilemma right now, you should not wear it .... or maybe take it but only wear it for a few pics.

you don't want to wear it and regret it and feel bad every time you see any of your pictures....

Moonmist09 Posted: Oct 11, 2011 11:08 AM+

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Posted: Oct 11, 2011 11:08 AM

Re: Moral Dilemma: TTD & Vintage Fur Stole

Posted by evita2781

hmm that's a tough one. i think the fur would look really awesome in the pictures and i would wear it just for that even though i'm against it...yea i prob sound like a hypocrite, but i think for this 1 time it's ok.

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Chelechel1 Posted: Oct 12, 2011 05:08 PM+

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Posted: Oct 12, 2011 05:08 PM

Re: Moral Dilemma: TTD & Vintage Fur Stole

Posted by AwaitingAugust

i think if it's giving you this moral dilemma right now, you should not wear it .... or maybe take it but only wear it for a few pics.

you don't want to wear it and regret it and feel bad every time you see any of your pictures....

I was thinking the same thing... I will bring it with me maybe for a few pictures... Thanks girls!