my 'im not the NWOTW but i still have a question' question

If you were to in the midst of planning now, and knew what you knew,
-would your BP be the same
- guest list have major changes ie great frineds now you didnt have then or people that burned you and you are upset they were there

etc

Re: my 'im not the MWOTW but i still have a question' question

BP would be exactly the same
Guest List would be exactly the same maybe 2 or 3 added to it...

the only change is that i would have hired a DOC

Re: my 'im not the MWOTW but i still have a question' question

There would definitely be one extra person added to my BP.

No major guest list changes.

Re: my 'im not the NWOTW but i still have a question' question

1 person wouldn't be in my bp

2 people wouldn't be invited

Re: my 'im not the NWOTW but i still have a question' question

There would def. be a switcheroo or two in my BP. I would've made my sister my MOH, without a doubt!

As for invites, no I would've still invited everyone I did.

Re: my 'im not the NWOTW but i still have a question' question

BP : same

guestlist: add a few more people

Re: my 'im not the NWOTW but i still have a question' question

i feel like i would have a complete re-worked BP... but thats because i have weird friendships

Re: my 'im not the NWOTW but i still have a question' question

Guest list would have changed, we would have added some people that we weren't able to invite and not have listened to MIL with

'well, they invited DH to their sons Bar Mitzvah, so you have to invite them' (ummm, that was almost 20 years ago )

Bridal party, would have left out the BM who wound up dropping anyway, and would have added someone who became a close friend right around the time of the weddin

Re: my 'im not the NWOTW but i still have a question' question

No, I would have kept things the same. Guest list and BP.

Re: my 'im not the NWOTW but i still have a question' question

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Posted by julesrbf

No, I would have kept things the same. Guest list and BP.

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Ditto

Re: my 'im not the NWOTW but i still have a question' question

BP would have 1 more girl

guest list would def change!

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Posted by julesrbf

No, I would have kept things the same. Guest list and BP.

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me too!!

Re: my 'im not the NWOTW but i still have a question' question

BP would have been changed. I would have left my PITA cousin and her husband out. I also would have had DH add my MOH's boyfriend as we have gotten really close in the last year and I'm sure they will be getting married in the future.

Guest list would have included some more people, especially a few LIW girls

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I would have a MOH and a BM instead of 9 people in my bridal party. I would limit the guest list to close friends and family with a max of 150 guests. Dh really wanted a huge wedding and while the day was beautiful he has hardly talked to MOST of his guests since the wedding. WHY I did not out my foot down I still do not know.

Re: my 'im not the NWOTW but i still have a question' question

i think i would have kept everything the same basically

Re: my 'im not the NWOTW but i still have a question' question

BP would def be differnt...

and the only changes with my guest list would prob be all the girlies ive met from this site!! wish i knew all of you before my wedding!!

Re: my 'im not the NWOTW but i still have a question' question

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Posted by APastries2010

If you were to in the midst of planning now, and knew what you knew,
-would your BP be the same
- guest list have major changes ie great frineds now you didnt have then or people that burned you and you are upset they were there

etc

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No my BP would be diff... I would have put someone else as MOH (simply bc im closer to that person) and i DEF would have had at least 1 more girl who i became really close with... but as time goes on, im sure my grp of friends will change yet again... rel's change... thats life

my guest list would have remained the same... no major changes there...

Re: my 'im not the NWOTW but i still have a question' question

Both would have stayed the same.

Re: my 'im not the NWOTW but i still have a question' question

Good question...my guest list would have changed only because i would have added quite a few LIW ladies. My bridal party DEFINITELY owuld have changed!

Re: my 'im not the NWOTW but i still have a question' question

I would have had the exact same BP and the gustlist would have had like 15 extra people on it.