Smoking..a lil long.

I know I havent been around much - but i thought you girls could help :)

DH was a smoker when we first start dating & although I hate it, I didnt mind.

He decided to quit almost 3 years ago and did it cold turkey. I know he has not completely gone without a cigarette in the 3 years, but he's not a chain smoker anymore...or atleast i dont think.

Now that I'm not around the smoking anymore, it bothers me to hell!! And in the last few months I've caught him red handed buying packs of cigarettes but he still denies he's smoking again or that they were for him.

I dont smell it on him, and he's not smoking at home - but im still concerned.

This morning he posted a pic of himself on FB with a cigarette in his mouth and its erkkking me. He told me he bummed the cig from someone....I want to confront him about the whole smoking thing, but dont know how (and not today - cause its his bday)

Any input, help?

Re: Smoking..a lil long.

maybe you can come to some sort of arrangement where he can smoke if he wants to once in a while (but with a certain limit). That way, he won't feel the need to go behind your back and 'cheat' on you with smoking.