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laulac98 Posted: May 19, 2011 10:29 AM+

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Posted: May 19, 2011 10:29 AM

What do you girls do

when you're in a funk? I've been feeling pretty crappy lately - a lot of things just aren't going well right now (work, family issues) and it's just making me so blah lately. DH has been so good with trying to help but I can't snap out of it. I hate this

AwaitingAugust Posted: May 19, 2011 10:37 AM+

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Posted: May 19, 2011 10:37 AM

Re: What do you girls do

sorry you're feeling funky

i wish i had an answer for you but i can't get out of funks unless the thing that made me feel funky is resolved.

IrinaBNY Posted: May 19, 2011 01:31 PM+

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Posted: May 19, 2011 01:31 PM

Re: What do you girls do

Vacation!!!

They always help me when I get in my blah moods

halfbaked Posted: May 19, 2011 01:36 PM+

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Posted: May 19, 2011 01:36 PM

Re: What do you girls do

Cry about it.

I know this is probably not the best outlet, but it makes me feel better anyway. I also smoke (another bad outlet), take the dogs out for a long walk, shop, or read.

ETA: Also, I just try to keep myself busy, my mind occupied. I try to make sure I have lots of plans for the weekend. Hope you feel better!

little j Posted: May 19, 2011 01:38 PM+

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Posted: May 19, 2011 01:38 PM

Re: What do you girls do

do somethign for you! mani/pedi? massage?

Linzee636 Posted: May 19, 2011 02:15 PM+

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Posted: May 19, 2011 02:15 PM

Re: What do you girls do

Posted by jilliibabii

Cry about it.

It's totally true... a lot of times I feel a lot better once I just let myself cry (even if it's just out of the stress of feeling stressed).

Definitely try to go for walks as well - would your DH walk with you? so many times DH has asked me to go for a walk, and i get annoyed at him asking me because all i want to do is sit and pout, but 9 times out of 10, i feel so much better after a walk. It just gives us time to b*llshit together and step away from life for a little bit.

When all else fails, I also look into therapy. It's helped me in the past so when I feel like I'm really down and I can't pull myself out, I will go that route. No shame in reaching out to professionals

laulac98 Posted: May 19, 2011 02:26 PM+

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Posted: May 19, 2011 02:26 PM

Re: What do you girls do

Thanks girls. DH called me before and is bringing home some Sprinkles Cupcakes for me so that definitely helped :) I'm very much focusing on our vacation next month so that'll help get through these next few weeks of work and then I'll have a whole week of r&r. I'm going to make myself go to the gym later (then negating everything with the Sprinkles lol) so hopefully I'll feel better soon.