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What would you do!? Spinoff from a 2010 thread
SummerBride10
Posted: Aug 18, 2010 05:08 PM+

Posted: Aug 18, 2010 05:08 PM
What would you do!? Spinoff from a 2010 thread
So one of the girls on the 2010 board posted a pic that one of her guests was wearing an all-white dress to her wedding.What you you do if you showed up at a wedding and an acquittance or a friend was wearing all white dress? Would you say anything?
I would be SO tempted to ask them what the heck they were thinking! I'm wondering if anyone else would have trouble keeping their mouth shut too!
VickiR510
Posted: Aug 18, 2010 05:11 PM+

VickiR510
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Posted: Aug 18, 2010 05:11 PM
Re: What would you do!? Spinoff from a 2010 thread
i have done that. But before the wedding I said. 'You're wearing white'? Are u serious?When she told me what she was wearing & after that she decided to wear a different dress. Umm u think? lolOH BTW No-one wore white to our wedding. But if they did i prob would have made a joke. Like I guess you wanted to look just liek me today huh?
AwaitingAugust
Posted: Aug 18, 2010 05:24 PM+

Posted: Aug 18, 2010 05:24 PM
Re: What would you do!? Spinoff from a 2010 thread
If i knew the person, i'd probably say something to her .... but i'd stay out of it if she were a complete stranger.I can't believe people are so stupid & vain that they'd go to a wedding wearing white!
daniellek730
Posted: Aug 18, 2010 05:36 PM+

Posted: Aug 18, 2010 05:36 PM
Re: What would you do!? Spinoff from a 2010 thread
Never underestimate the power of human stupidity. I think I would flip. The one day where it's YOUR day to shine and they would wear white, fcuking idiot. Give me the card and leave. No cake for you!!!
AwaitingAugust
Posted: Aug 18, 2010 05:50 PM+

Posted: Aug 18, 2010 05:50 PM
Re: What would you do!? Spinoff from a 2010 thread
Posted by daniellek730
fcuking idiot. Give me the card and leave. No cake for you!!!
StaceyWill
Posted: Aug 18, 2010 05:56 PM+

Posted: Aug 18, 2010 05:56 PM
Re: What would you do!? Spinoff from a 2010 thread
I don't think I'd say anything the day of, but if i knew beforehand that she was thinking of wearing white, I would say something. Someone actually wore a short white dress to my wedding but I didn't notice it until I looked at my proofs.
little j
Posted: Aug 18, 2010 06:08 PM+

Posted: Aug 18, 2010 06:08 PM
Re: What would you do!? Spinoff from a 2010 thread
Posted by StaceyWill
I don't think I'd say anything the day of, but if i knew beforehand that she was thinking of wearing white, I would say something..
ita! saying something that day isnt going to help at all. i think she would eventuallly figure out how stupid she looked w/o me saying anything
ddnsp618
Posted: Aug 18, 2010 08:57 PM+

Posted: Aug 18, 2010 08:57 PM
Re: What would you do!? Spinoff from a 2010 thread
i wouldn't say anything...everyone knows she isn't the bride...i think someone wore white to my wedding, but i don't remember, i was in my own world the whole day...someone could have came in my exact wedding gown and i wouldn't have given a care
regy_k
Posted: Aug 18, 2010 10:37 PM+

Posted: Aug 18, 2010 10:37 PM
Re: What would you do!? Spinoff from a 2010 thread
Posted by little j
Posted by StaceyWill
I don't think I'd say anything the day of, but if i knew beforehand that she was thinking of wearing white, I would say something..
ita! saying something that day isnt going to help at all. i think she would eventuallly figure out how stupid she looked w/o me saying anything
someone did come to urs in white. we were all snickering behind her back
and someone came to mine too, honestly I didnt care anymore by that point and will never say anything to her
who needs the drama after the fact, or during for that matter?
miamimerger
Posted: Aug 19, 2010 09:54 AM+

Posted: Aug 19, 2010 09:54 AM
Re: What would you do!? Spinoff from a 2010 thread
colleen, i just posted this on the 2010 board, but i figured i would share it on here too!i think i've shown this pic on the 2010 boards, but one of my former students got married last year, and look what her COUSIN wore. BTW, they bride's cousin was with her when she picked out her wedding dress!
AngnShaun
Posted: Aug 19, 2010 09:59 AM+

Posted: Aug 19, 2010 09:59 AM
Re: What would you do!? Spinoff from a 2010 thread
Posted by miamimerger
colleen, i just posted this on the 2010 board, but i figured i would share it on here too!
i think i've shown this pic on the 2010 boards, but one of my former students got married last year, and look what her COUSIN wore. BTW, they bride's cousin was with her when she picked out her wedding dress!
AngnShaun
Posted: Aug 19, 2010 10:00 AM+

Posted: Aug 19, 2010 10:00 AM
Re: What would you do!? Spinoff from a 2010 thread
Someone wore white to mine... i saw her at the CH... but i had no idea who she was im assuming from Shauns dads side since ive only met a handful of them
halfbaked
Posted: Aug 19, 2010 10:04 AM+

Posted: Aug 19, 2010 10:04 AM
Re: What would you do!? Spinoff from a 2010 thread
I would've said something. I have no qualms about speaking my mind.
LadyDuda81509
Posted: Aug 19, 2010 10:04 AM+

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Posted: Aug 19, 2010 10:04 AM
Re: What would you do!? Spinoff from a 2010 thread
it depends on how close i was with the person! if it was my best friend i would be like 'what are you nuts wearing a white dress to a wedding!!!'
halfbaked
Posted: Aug 19, 2010 10:04 AM+

Posted: Aug 19, 2010 10:04 AM
Re: What would you do!? Spinoff from a 2010 thread
Posted by AngnShaun
Posted by miamimerger
colleen, i just posted this on the 2010 board, but i figured i would share it on here too!
i think i've shown this pic on the 2010 boards, but one of my former students got married last year, and look what her COUSIN wore. BTW, they bride's cousin was with her when she picked out her wedding dress!![]()
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That's awful!!!!
Cacarina
Posted: Aug 19, 2010 10:09 AM+

Posted: Aug 19, 2010 10:09 AM
Re: What would you do!? Spinoff from a 2010 thread
Posted by miamimerger
colleen, i just posted this on the 2010 board, but i figured i would share it on here too!
i think i've shown this pic on the 2010 boards, but one of my former students got married last year, and look what her COUSIN wore. BTW, they bride's cousin was with her when she picked out her wedding dress!
That is actually quite hilarious. She wasn't a bridesmaid or anything? If she wasn't she just looks ridiculous and she should be embarassed.
But on a side note...I don't really see what the big deal is if someone wears a white dress to a wedding. The OP in on the 2010 board even admitted she didn't even notice her guest in white, so it really didn't affect her day at all. NO ONE is going to overshadow the bride...everyone knows who she is. That being said...I wouldn't do it myself.
miamimerger
Posted: Aug 19, 2010 10:14 AM+

Posted: Aug 19, 2010 10:14 AM
Re: What would you do!? Spinoff from a 2010 thread
Posted by Cacarina
Posted by miamimerger
colleen, i just posted this on the 2010 board, but i figured i would share it on here too!
i think i've shown this pic on the 2010 boards, but one of my former students got married last year, and look what her COUSIN wore. BTW, they bride's cousin was with her when she picked out her wedding dress!
That is actually quite hilarious. She wasn't a bridesmaid or anything? If she wasn't she just looks ridiculous and she should be embarassed.
But on a side note...I don't really see what the big deal is if someone wears a white dress to a wedding. The OP in on the 2010 board even admitted she didn't even notice her guest in white, so it really didn't affect her day at all. NO ONE is going to overshadow the bride...everyone knows who she is. That being said...I wouldn't do it myself.
No, she wasn't in the bridal party. The bride was annoyed but then let it roll off her shoulders. Everyone told this girl to change and she changed into shorts and a t-shirt someone had. Really weird.
Cacarina
Posted: Aug 19, 2010 10:21 AM+

Posted: Aug 19, 2010 10:21 AM
Re: What would you do!? Spinoff from a 2010 thread
Posted by miamimerger
Posted by Cacarina
Posted by miamimerger
colleen, i just posted this on the 2010 board, but i figured i would share it on here too!
i think i've shown this pic on the 2010 boards, but one of my former students got married last year, and look what her COUSIN wore. BTW, they bride's cousin was with her when she picked out her wedding dress!
That is actually quite hilarious. She wasn't a bridesmaid or anything? If she wasn't she just looks ridiculous and she should be embarassed.
But on a side note...I don't really see what the big deal is if someone wears a white dress to a wedding. The OP in on the 2010 board even admitted she didn't even notice her guest in white, so it really didn't affect her day at all. NO ONE is going to overshadow the bride...everyone knows who she is. That being said...I wouldn't do it myself.
No, she wasn't in the bridal party. The bride was annoyed but then let it roll off her shoulders. Everyone told this girl to change and she changed into shorts and a t-shirt someone had. Really weird.
WOW...what a weirdo.
ETA: In this particular case...I do see a problem. This girl clearly knew what she was doing when she wore that dress to the wedding. I would NOT be okay with that. I mean she matches right down to that red sash!
AngnShaun
Posted: Aug 19, 2010 10:25 AM+

Posted: Aug 19, 2010 10:25 AM
Re: What would you do!? Spinoff from a 2010 thread
Posted by Cacarina
Posted by miamimerger
Posted by Cacarina
Posted by miamimerger
colleen, i just posted this on the 2010 board, but i figured i would share it on here too!
i think i've shown this pic on the 2010 boards, but one of my former students got married last year, and look what her COUSIN wore. BTW, they bride's cousin was with her when she picked out her wedding dress!
That is actually quite hilarious. She wasn't a bridesmaid or anything? If she wasn't she just looks ridiculous and she should be embarassed.
But on a side note...I don't really see what the big deal is if someone wears a white dress to a wedding. The OP in on the 2010 board even admitted she didn't even notice her guest in white, so it really didn't affect her day at all. NO ONE is going to overshadow the bride...everyone knows who she is. That being said...I wouldn't do it myself.
No, she wasn't in the bridal party. The bride was annoyed but then let it roll off her shoulders. Everyone told this girl to change and she changed into shorts and a t-shirt someone had. Really weird.
WOW...what a weirdo.![]()
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ETA: In this particular case...I do see a problem. This girl clearly knew what she was doing when she wore that dress to the wedding. I would NOT be okay with that. I mean she matches right down to that red sash!
There were lots of things i let slide off my shoulders the day of the wedding... im not sure i could have done it with this one! Lol
julesrbf
Posted: Aug 19, 2010 10:47 AM+

Posted: Aug 19, 2010 10:47 AM
Re: What would you do!? Spinoff from a 2010 thread
Posted by jilliibabii
Posted by AngnShaun
Posted by miamimerger
colleen, i just posted this on the 2010 board, but i figured i would share it on here too!
i think i've shown this pic on the 2010 boards, but one of my former students got married last year, and look what her COUSIN wore. BTW, they bride's cousin was with her when she picked out her wedding dress!![]()
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That's awful!!!!
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