Okay.... and here begins my review.... this is going to be long and detailed but I have so much to share that I think will be helpful to future brides so I hope you enjoy it and I don’t bore you! I REALLY wanted to wait until I got my proofs... or at least some good pics, but some people (ahem ) kept pressuring me to post it anyway – so here it is, finally!!
First, let me explain my rating system. It’s a scale of 1 - 10 with partial points available. A vendor only gets a ten from me if they go above and beyond and that usually means getting a little something for free, or a really nice deal/discount of some sort. When a vendor does that, it really shows that they are willing to go the extra mile to make a client happy and that’s what matters. And in the end, a lot of it is really about the money (when it comes to vendors, that is) because we all know how expensive weddings are. We pay them a lot of money to make our wedding days awesome, not just adequate, so they really have to earn that 10 from me. I will be a tough critic. But I will try my best to give an “LIW safe”, yet honest & fair review.
My wedding day was amazing and everything went extremely well with only one minor hitch which you will read about. It was the most beautiful day of my life and definitely the happiest so far. I was very happy with the way everything turned out but I must warn you that I am the type of person that can find something to complain about with everything... my “buts” in this case are just the little things that you have to be honest about, they aren’t really complaints. It’s hard to explain, but you’ll understand once your day comes if you are a bride to be and if you are already married, you probably know exactly what I mean. I don’t really have any regrets about my wedding day and I would live the day over again in a heartbeat. All the stress of planning is REALLY all worth it in the end because you’ll never have a day like this again... and it is such a momentous occasion, such a beautiful life event – that it truly deserves all the fuss we make about it.
So that said, lets begin at the beginning. The last 30 days leading up to my wedding day were the most fun, memorable, exciting, and not really as stressful as I would have thought. ENJOY that time girls, because it goes really fast. Try not to fight with your FH during this time and take the little bumps in stride so that you remember what a special and fun time this is. I did and I ended up being amazingly calm the two days before the wedding and didn’t really have any freak outs.... (well, maybe one tiny one). But it’s really an amazing time because everyone finally starts getting excited with you, and you get to see all your hard work slowly falling into place. So enjoy!!
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Excellent review, it felt like we were right there with you!! Very insightful!!
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Wow, what a review!!! Your fingers must be killing you!!
Sounds like you had the wedding of your dreams! Much happiness for you both, always.
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What an amazing review! Thank you for the advice and tips and most of all, congrats on your wonderful day!
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What a great review! That must've taken forever! Congrats! Show us some pics!!!!!!
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BY FAR, THE BEST DAMN REVIEW I HAVE EVER READ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! At one point, you brought tears to my eyes. What captured me the most was, it was told as a story and not a review. Thank you so much for taking the time out and congratulations on what I think was a perfect day!!!!
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Great Review!!! So glad that you enjoyed your day! Looking forward to seeing your pictures !!!!
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GREAT GREAT review! it sounds like you had a wonderful day, congratulations! I was very lucky too with my vendors. I'm very glad to hear you found a great DJ for this occasion, belive me, I understand you completely, I'm latino too.
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JimmysWIFE .. you have my nomination for best wedding review ever posted on LIWs!!!!
What an amazing, fantastic, THOROUGH and touching review!! Thank you so much for sharing all the little details and emotions of your pre-wedding and wedding day. I'm sure everyone of the past bride (such as myself) can relate to everything you said, and all of the future brides appreciate all of your words of wisdom and helpful advice
I just cannot wait until you post your proofs and we all get to see you in that magnificent gown, looking the part of a truly stunning bride
Congratulations and best wishes for a marriage just as magical as your wedding day was
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... And the doors slowly opened... and there it was... my wedding... staring back at me... people smiling, crying, whispering, gasping, cameras flashing, bright, really bright lights and me walking, crawling ever so slowly... taking in every moment...and scanning... scanning looking for....my GROOM!!! Once my eyes met his at the other end of the aisle... the rest of the world fell away completely... there was nothing else. No one else but me and him. My Groom... waiting for his bride at the end of aisle.... and I smiled.... I smiled all the way down the aisle.
I am absolutely loving your review. This particular part almost brought tears to my eyes. What a great description of your whole experience....congratulations on such a wonderful day and wonderful marriage!!!
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OMG i am getting misty eyed
WONDERFUL review girlie. Other than the little annoyances (which let's face it, we all had) i am soooo happy that your day was everything you wanted it to be!
CONGRATS AND NOW POST THOSE PICSS!!!!
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... And the doors slowly opened... and there it was... my wedding... staring back at me... people smiling, crying, whispering, gasping, cameras flashing, bright, really bright lights and me walking, crawling ever so slowly... taking in every moment...and scanning... scanning looking for....my GROOM!!! Once my eyes met his at the other end of the aisle... the rest of the world fell away completely... there was nothing else. No one else but me and him. My Groom... waiting for his bride at the end of aisle.... and I smiled.... I smiled all the way down the aisle.
I am absolutely loving your review. This particular part almost brought tears to my eyes. What a great description of your whole experience....congratulations on such a wonderful day and wonderful marriage!!!
Okay, I'm not the only one who was crying at this point!
What a fantastic review, thank you so much for taking the time and I truly felt like I was there and a part of everything you experienced on your wedding day
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BY FAR, THE BEST DAMN REVIEW I HAVE EVER READ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! At one point, you brought tears to my eyes. What captured me the most was, it was told as a story and not a review. Thank you so much for taking the time out and congratulations on what I think was a perfect day!!!!
THANK YOU!
And thanks everyone! If anyone has any questions about any of my vendors or needs more info -- just FM me.
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I loved reading your review!!! It sounds like an amazing day!!! Congratulations and best wishes!! I can't wait to see pics.
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Wow, what a great review!!! Congratulations!!!
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Great review! Thanks for sharing!
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Posted by divabride
BY FAR, THE BEST DAMN REVIEW I HAVE EVER READ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! At one point, you brought tears to my eyes. What captured me the most was, it was told as a story and not a review. Thank you so much for taking the time out and congratulations on what I think was a perfect day!!!!
THANK YOU!
And thanks everyone! If anyone has any questions about any of my vendors or needs more info -- just FM me.
I couldn't have said it better myself!!!! That review was just amazing!!!!! I cant wait to see the pics that go along with it!!!! Thanks for being so honest about all your vendors!! It was very refreshing I knew you would have an amazing day!!!! I am so happy for you!!!
PS. Now how in the world am I going to top that review?!?!?!?!?
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Yay! Your wedding sounded lovely! We had to say our vows in their entirety at the rehearsal too. She warned us of that though. I am glad we did, b/c at the rehearsal I was so nervous, but it made it easier for the real thing.
Now. . .your review was great and all, but but how bout some pictures? Nope, we're never going to leave you be. . .
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'... And the doors slowly opened... and there it was... my wedding... staring back at me... people smiling, crying, whispering, gasping, cameras flashing, bright, really bright lights and me walking, crawling ever so slowly... taking in every moment...and scanning... scanning looking for....my GROOM!!! Once my eyes met his at the other end of the aisle... the rest of the world fell away completely... there was nothing else. No one else but me and him. My Groom... waiting for his bride at the end of aisle.... and I smiled.... I smiled all the way down the aisle.'
This part literally brought tears to my eyes! WOW...GREAT JOB capturing the moment! WONDERFUL review! HOWEVER.....I am sitting here agonozingly waiting so impatiently for pics! PLEASE....just ONE....for now??? To hold us over? Pretty PLEEEEEEEEASE????
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Wow...Thank you so much for such a detailed review. I got so choked up and even teary eyed reading some parts! I'm so happy you took the time to enjoy the little things.
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Congratluations! And thank you for one of/if not the best review on LIW. All reviews should be this complete. You've set an example we should all follow, because instead of just getting the news about the vendors, we actually got to step into your day from moment to moment. Later on, if someone justs wants to read about one vendor, they can.
Thank you! Thank you! I can't wait to see your pictures!