Again, to my knowledge, 'and' between
Mr. and Mrs. should not be abbreviated --
when addressing the envelopes --
in fact, no abbreviations should be used --
Although there are several sources to refer to for proper etiquette--You can easily check the Crane's Blue Book Website--they cite samples under 'envelope addressing' -- 'married couples' -- Although, this is not the only source that I continue to refer to--
All of their Samples for addressing envelopes to married couples that I saw have 'and'
spelled out --
Whenever they refer to
Calligraphy on the envelopes they are
referring to hand-done in lieu of computer -
Not sure which you are doing --
At any rate, of course, clearly, the great majority of your guests will be excited
just to receive your wedding invitation
rather than focusing in on whether or not you have, in fact, adhered to the guidelines of proper etiquette when it came to addressing your outer envelopes--
Again, I am assuming that you are asking this question on this Board because you are seeking the correct answer--In my opinion,
based on my experience, and extensive research 'and' should be spelled out
on any formal social invitation ---
However, if in fact, you do not re-do
or have the envelopes re-done, many of your
guests will probably not even be aware of
the breach of etiquette --
Please don't stress over any of this -- but
if you ask for a professional opinion on this board based on the experience and knowledge of vendors -- In my opinion, you
are entitled to an accurate response --
Again, Best of Luck with all!!
Linda
1-866-BRIDEOO/Linda's Lovelies
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