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Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by Mimacat

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Posted by Mimacat

Wow 25 is a lot!


yeah i have to really think about this one lol, can we do half jk


Denise, I feel like you could probably answer this in 2 minutes flat.



i feel the opposite, i can post alot but dont find myself that interesting to think of 25 things lol. I have 10 right now so working on it. I keep looking at everyones answers to see if i can say something similar
cbcf Posted:

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1. I have 7 siblings, 4 brothers and 2 sisters who really are my world. I just wish I had longer to know my one brother who died when he was 2 months old. I cant even imagine what my parents went through and I have never told them but I admire them so much for raising us the way they did and getting through tough times with us.

2. my sisters are my bestest friends ever. I love them both and I don't even think they know how much they have made me who I am today. And I miss them they are both away at school.

3. I love my husband more than words can say. I honestly never thought he would be the one for me but sticking through 4 yrs without ever seeing him more than 2 weeks every couple months made our relationship strong and I truly know what LOVE is because of him.

4. I only had 2 big breakdowns when DH was over in Iraq and Japan. 1 I let some people know about and the other I didn't not even DH. It was a bad breakdown and I was almost depressed at how much I missed him and hope nothing would ever happen to him.

5. My family means everything to me....especially my mom. I admire her so much, I don't think she knows how much I admire her. But she besides my sisters have helped me grow into the person I am today.

6. I love that my dad and I cried on my wedding day while we did our first dance. It was an emotional yet great time for both of us.

7. I love to clean....I even want to clean as I am cooking. It is kinda an obsession with me. I can wake up at 2am and want to clean something or move around a room.

8. I LOVE to dance and have for 19 years. I miss it

10. Working out is definitely a stress reliever for me. I love to go to the gym and work out for 2 hrs straight and not think of anything

11. I am a card person. I always get people cards for things. And I always expect cards....well except from DH but he is getting better. I honestyl write a novel in cards to people i love and I love reading what they have to say.

12. Two of my best friends mean the world to me. They have helped me get through everything hard in my life. I only hope I have done the same for them. I really truly appreciate one of them for being there for me even after we weren't too close for almost a year wehn we were in high school.

13. I am religious but question my religion almost everyday. I love how my parents brought me up in a religious household, but I hardly tell them that. It is hard for me to have my whole faith in my religion but I do go on Sundays and I try my hardest.

14. I make the sign of the cross everytime I get into the car and kiss up to my brother in heaven

15. I am addicted to tea. I love it and need a cup in the morning every morning.

16. I took up smoking in college bec a guy I like did it then when we broke up after a year I still did it until I was almost done with college (4 yrs later)

17. I love my dog- Gunner more than I thought I would. He really is like a child to me...DH thinks I am nuts but I am scared to have a kid because I am nervous I wont love Gunner as much anymore and it makes me sad.

18. I love children and babies...I would probably have 10 kids but I know that wont ever happen bec I am scared of giving birth.

19. I sometimes think I should have continued with my love of Forensic Psych (BA in that). I think I shoud have became a FBI profiler.

20. I love reading books about killers, I love watching TV shows about serial killers and mass murders etc.

21. I am a total goof ball in front of my family but sometimes hold it in around friends because I for some weird reason think I will be judge (my own insecurities I know my friends wouldn't)

22. I burp ALOT and don't care who is around!

23. I feel the need to write lists for everything and anything. I could write a list for something that isn't going to take place for another 3 weeks.

24. I have a thing for letting people walk all over me. Sad but true and I don't ever say anything.

25. i love road trips and long drives, i will just get in the car sometimes and drive just because i want something to do or i want to calm myself down etc. If anyone mentions a road trip I am the first on board.
Bride908 Posted:

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aww this is so cute I have to do one
squeekietoy Posted:

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Copied from Facebook:

1. I have about 2 or 3 really good girl friends. I have never gotten along well with girls.

2. I hate school. That's why it has taken me so long to go back and I'm not even sure if what I'm studying is what I really want to do.

3. I have 7 tattoos.

4. I have a MASSIVE fear of flying. I need to take a Valium to get on a flight to Florida.

5. I have fears of being a failure. Not sure about failing in what, but, at this stage in my life I just want everything to go smoothly.

6. It takes a lot to offend me. Most people could tell that from my sense of humor.

7. I have a filthy mouth. I may not be proud of that, but I have a hard time not cursing in certain situations.

8. In some ways, I'm fiercely competetive. I can't play Board Games with people. Because if I lose, I throw mini temper tantrums. AKA, I'm a sore loser.

9. I wish I was more athletically inclined growing up.

10. I'm a little bit of a gossip hound. I'm getting better though.

11. I'm addicted to garbage TV. I love The Hills, Rock of Love Charm School, etc. Anything with dumb b!tches in it really gets me going.

12. I have an intense love for Dashboard Confessional. It almost borders on a sickness.

13. I hate to cry. I avoid it all costs. I didn't even cry at my own wedding.

14. I hate it when people aren't paying attention to me. Sometimes I want to be the center of attention all the time, other times I hate it when people are staring at me. I'm somewhat of a walking contradiction.

15. I'm a big fan of brutal honesty.

16. I'm a self starter when it comes to work. Show me once or twice and I'm usually good to go. I also prefer to work alone.

17. I think most people are idiots. You'll often hear these words come out of my mouth.

18. I also am 100% convinced that I am the only person on LI that knows how to drive.

19. I hate it when I'm at work and a patient is sitting down with me and they feel the need to tell me their life story. I'm sorry, but, I'm not your therapist.

20. You may not think it, but, I'm very affectionate.

21. I flip flop on the idea of wanting children. Sometimes I don't want to be bothered to take care of someone 24/7, and sometimes I see babies and I think 'ok, I can do that'. But, I don't feel that NEED to have children.

22. I'm a notoriously picky eater. I'm not really sure where that came from. Things I hate: Fish (all kinds but shellfish), dark meat poultry (gross), red sauce and meatballs (yes, I'm italian), weird items that NOBODY should be eating (i.e., SPAM, Vienna Sausage, Pickled Herring, Gefilte Fish, Head Cheese, Liverwurst *gag*)

23. I'm a handbag snob. You'll never see me carrying anything that isn't designer.

24. I love high heeled shoes. But, I never wear them because I'm 5'9' and I don't really need the height.

25. I love to read. Give me a good book and hours to myself and I can keep myself entertained.
Toucan311 Posted:

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1) I don’t think I could ever be more than 5 minutes away from the most important people in my life – my husband and my immediate family. My German side doesn’t allow me to express my emotions outwardly, but inwardly, its there ? If we could have a big home on the same property as my parents, I’d be a-ok with that.

2) I will do, say, or act out anything in order to make people laugh. One of my FAVORITE things to do is make charades clues, just so I can look at people open the clue and think “how am I going to act out this absurd thing?”

3) I love all animals, and if I had all of the money in the world I’d open an animal sanctuary. We have 6 animals living in our house now!

4) I have extreme attachments to my pets. When I found out my old German Shepherd, Gabby, had “MS for dogs” and that she probably had less than 6 months to live, I researched the disease, exercised her, treated her wholisically, and she lived another two years. Our vet was amazed. I still cry when I think of my Gab, and I have a photo with her on my night stand! I also spend an aburd amount of time and money healing my Mimacat, who I had only owned for a week when she had a near fatal asthma attack! I LOVE my pets.

5) I have an unnatural obsession with pocketbooks that I’ve inherited from my shopping addict mother. Once I’ve used one, I will never go back to it. Sick, I know.

6) I wish I wasn’t such a p*ssy and that I would have pursued singing, the only thing that I truly love to do.

7) I say prayers every night, not only for the people that I love, but also for the people that I dislike or who have wronged me.

8) My all time favorite movies are Grease & Lady and the Tramp.

9) I’m a gossip but always feel guilty afterwards.

10) I’m a huge ham and LOVE to have my picture taken.

11) I was overweight until I was 25, and reluctantly admit that diet and exericse do work, but still wish they’d find a miracle skinny pill.

12) I always wished I had female friendships ala Divine Secrets of the Yaya Sisterhood, but I don’t think they really exist and I’ve come to terms w/that.

13) I think Gap Long and Lean jeans just might be the cure for any fat day.

14) Sometimes when I’m driving in my car, I turn off the radio and just sing by myself. For some reason, the national anthem is one of my top car hit songs.

15) The summer before my senior year of college I ate taco bell every single day for lunch. It’s the food of the gods, IMO. Perhaps that explains why I was overweight.

16) When I was in the third grade 2 friends and I decided to go around the corner and flash cars that passed by. My parents were NOT happy with this decision when our neighbor across the street informed him that I was around the corner mooning cars…

17) My closet is organized by color.

18) I secretly gave away DH’s ugly purple dress shirt to charity a few months ago.

19) When I was 12 I stopped eating meat because I was obsessed with River Phoenix. He didn’t eat meat, so I stopped too. I ended up losing like 20 pounds that summer, so I’ve never gone back.

20) But I do eat chicken sometimes b/c I hate birds. Cows and pigs are too cute to eat, but birds are annoying.

21) I tivo every single episode of What Not To Wear, and I have some of them memorized.

22) I haven’t read a single book since I became an English Professor.

23) I’m still bothered by what other people think of me.

24) I’m never ever sarcastic.

25) I’m totally obsessed with matching. I match my underwear AND outerware to my outfit, including the tone of the metal on my handbag, etc.
GMar9508 Posted:

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OMG Im so bored at work so this rocks right now!!!!

1. My dad was at work when I was born and had a route no cell phones at the time so he wasnt there

2. I LOVE 80's rock ballads and must sing them so loud when they play

3. I will only sing so loud when I am alone :)

4. I LOVE all asian type food chinese, japanese, thai, viatnamiese you name it I love it.

5. I love snowboarding so much I want to move to where it is cold so I can go all the time.

6. I hate flying but will never let it stop me from doing things (poor DH just has to hear me whine)

7. I love beer but only if its ICE cold

8. I can eat a whole bag of cooler ranch doritos

9. I love white castles I know ewwwww

10. The number 73 is my favorite its my birthday (July 3rd) and up until i got married it was my intails in numbers (G is the 7th letter and C is the 3rd)

11. I only trust 1 person with everything

12. I love my dog so much I think there might be something wrong with me lol

13. A good book is one of my favorite thing especially James Patterson who I think is the best

14. I love water being on a boat in a pool in a friggin bath I just love it

15. I love awake tea from Starbucks its like the greatest tea ever

16. Up until our frist course at our wedding when everyone was sitting and I looked at how great everything looked and how I wouldnt change a thing I want a destinantion wedding

17. I dont miss planning my wedding at all the day was great felt long as heck I loved it but dont miss saving stressing and all that fun wedding drama

18. If you are sad it becomes my goal to cheer you up I wont stop until you are happy

19. sending people flowers chocolate or any of that fun stuff makes me so happy

20. I only like Kraft mac n cheese but it HAS to be shapes if it isnt I dont want it.

21. I love my truck and being in it why no clue I just love driving and taking road trips

22. I am gamed for almost anything I dont always want to do it but I will

23. I cant sit around if it is the weekend I want to be out doing something dont care what just need to be out

24. I love my gym it rocks and I love taking the classes I never liked working out till I joined

25. I LOVE DH more then anything and never thought I could be so happy, he is the only person who can make me happy if I am sad and deals with all my craziness, he made me the person I am today I feel like I would be lost without him and he is the one who made me believe in soul mates
futuremrsmultari Posted:

Re: 25 Random things...

1. I am a twin. My twin sister was stillborn but, nonetheless, I’m a twin.

2. I was born at home. 2 ½ months early. Surprise! This is my personality to a T.

3. I am completely, 100% repulsed by meatloaf. The whole concept makes me gag/puke in my mouth. Okay, I’m sick now…..

4. I lost 120 lbs at one point. I’ve gained a lot back since I lost my dad and I really need to work on losing it again…

5. I’m from Upstate NY and even though I’ve been on LI for 5 years, I am not comfortable here and I don’t think I ever will be.

6. I drink a Kiwi colored car. We’re talking day
glow, neon lime. I absolutely love all the looks I get….and there is nothing better than a girl in a little preppy peacoat driving a lime green car that honks like a maniac and flips people off left and right!

7. One of my dearest friends passed away suddenly when we were in 7th grade. It completely changed me….and not for the better. I don’t let many people in and I never let people get that close. I’m getting better but this really ruined me….

8. I don’t have a best friend. I have never had one. I’m far too self sufficient, critical and feisty….and I don’t like losing people.

9. I never, ever wanted a wedding. I survived it but cannot even stomach the pictures/video. I am so glad it’s over. I think it was the biggest waste of money ever….

10. I talk to my mom every single day. We’re buddies. I tell her just about everything!

11. My grandfather donated his organs…and specified that his eyes be donated as well. I never knew this was a separate request but I am fascinated by it and have registered. A young man who was legally blind his entire life can now see….through my Grandpa’s eyes. I think that’s amazing and want to give the same gift.

12. I love nature. My heart skips a beat when I see trees and mountains. Fresh, clean air in the country literally makes me want to fall asleep. It’s beautiful.

13. I love to ski. I learned when I was 2 ½ years old.

14. I grew up on 4 acres of land. I’m a country girl. About 30 deer congregate in my family’s back yard every night. We feed them. I love watching them (even though that sounds very redneck, it’s awesome!).

15. I am completely uncomfortable with religion. Church, crosses, etc. make me have panic attacks. If I came to your wedding in a church, you clearly mean a lot to me!

16. I am allergic to asparagus despite loving it. Less than 1% of the world is allergic. That is so very me….

17. I had my gallbladder removed when I was 15.

18. I broke my ankle when I was 13. I still have 50+ bone chips floating around in my ankle and the click/crack when I move it. It’s gross. Oh, and you can feel them if you push on it….

19. I am deathly afraid of birds.

20. I think avocados are the greatest thing ever. Guacamole is something I live for….

21. My husband is the only person who really understands me. I appreciate that more than he knows.

22. My mind goes 24 hours a day. I literally never stop thinking and it makes me crazy. I have never been able to truly relax.

23. I have an uncanny way of remembering every single detail. I remember everything. It’s literally insane and quite creepy.

24. I hate the color red. Like physically hate it. Please note it was my wedding color….refer to #9. LOL.

25. I LOVE music. It’s the only thing, aside from my DH and my family, that I find comfort in. I used to listen to music even while I was sleeping. I very often lose my voice from singing in the car.
SFAR89 Posted:

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Great, my boss isn't around and I don't have anything to do so this is good hah

1) I moved to Michigan for a year back in 2003 so that my single mom wouldn't have to worry about supporting a 3rd child.

2) My father was incarcerated when I was 12 years old. He sent a letter once that said that if we weren't going to write back to him he was going to stop writing, and he did. We were young, we didn't understand. I haven't seen or heard from him since, but heard he lives in Albany.

3) I am obsessed with cupcakes.

4) I love art. I used to paint and draw when I was younger, but life just got in the way.

5) I love tattoos, and cannot wait to get my cupcake tattoo soon!

6) If I ever lost enough weight, my dream is to become a pin up model.

7) If I could go back and live in the 50's I would, so would DH.

8) I like all types of music from Shania Twain/Carrie Underwood, to cradle of Filth and Metallica.

9) I want to move to California so I can grow old and die there.

10) My mom is one of my best friend. I don't tell her everything like I would a best friend, but we like alot of the same stuff, we get along great, and we have a ton of fun when we get together. I don't want to think about not having her in my life. We have 'marathon' shopping days, as her boyfriend calls it. We once shopped from 8 in the morning, until 11 oclock at night :) I love shopping with her lol We don't need to spend money, we can just go 'look' and we have a ball.

11) I lost my virginity at 19, in Kentucky. Long story.

12) I have a spiderbite on my leg. It's 2 holes in my leg that never closed up, I can stick things through it lol But don't for the fact that I don't want people to throw up hah

13) I have traveled to most of the places I have traveled to around the country, mostly b/c I was following bands around or visiting random people/friends I knew online.

14) I hate Ohio and Pennsylvania.

15) I cannot stand watching movies or having people talk about finger nails coming off. It totally makes me want to curl up into a ball.

16) The longest job I ever had was when I was 19 years old, I was working only part time nights, but I was a supervisor for an collection agency for 4 years. One of my favorite jobs ever.

17) I don't think I ever want to have children.

18) I grew up in a catholic/jewish household. We would celebrate every holiday, and it was awesome. I am currently an athiest lol

19) my first concert ever was Hanson lol

20) I am such a nerd, I love Harry Potter, I am also a HUGE gamer. but no world of warcraft for me, I hate that game.

21) I like to watch nickelodeon sometimes, drake and josh, icarly, wizards of waverly high, hannah montana lol DH makes fun of me for it, but I don't know, I just like to watch them lol

22) I want to own a bakery one day and have it next to a tattoo shop.

23) I have BAD panic attacks when something with time doesn't go right, like if I am late to something. I start to freak out. I was late to my first dress fitting, and I started to ball my eyes out in the car with my mom and MIL lol

24) I also have some bad OCD. I have a counting thing. I have to count how many letters are on signs on the highgway, on license plates. But I have to group them in 3's most of the time, if they don't go to 3 then I start to get a little anxious lol then I count over and over, until I feel it's okay to stop counting, which is never lol

25) I love fashion, I love fashion so much that I used to draw my own models, and wanted to be a designer so badly. I wish I was skinny enough to be able to wear all the clothes that are out there!!


Edited b/c I wanted to use some other things instead. :)
Toucan311 Posted:

Re: 25 Random things...

Posted by futuremrsmultari

1. I am a twin. My twin sister was stillborn but, nonetheless, I’m a twin.

2. I was born at home. 2 ½ months early. Surprise! This is my personality to a T.

3. I am completely, 100% repulsed by meatloaf. The whole concept makes me gag/puke in my mouth. Okay, I’m sick now…..

4. I lost 120 lbs at one point. I’ve gained a lot back since I lost my dad and I really need to work on losing it again…

5. I’m from Upstate NY and even though I’ve been on LI for 5 years, I am not comfortable here and I don’t think I ever will be.

6. I drink a Kiwi colored car. We’re talking day
glow, neon lime. I absolutely love all the looks I get….and there is nothing better than a girl in a little preppy peacoat driving a lime green car that honks like a maniac and flips people off left and right!

7. One of my dearest friends passed away suddenly when we were in 7th grade. It completely changed me….and not for the better. I don’t let many people in and I never let people get that close. I’m getting better but this really ruined me….

8. I don’t have a best friend. I have never had one. I’m far too self sufficient, critical and feisty….and I don’t like losing people.

9. I never, ever wanted a wedding. I survived it but cannot even stomach the pictures/video. I am so glad it’s over. I think it was the biggest waste of money ever….

10. I talk to my mom every single day. We’re buddies. I tell her just about everything!

11. My grandfather donated his organs…and specified that his eyes be donated as well. I never knew this was a separate request but I am fascinated by it and have registered. A young man who was legally blind his entire life can now see….through my Grandpa’s eyes. I think that’s amazing and want to give the same gift.

12. I love nature. My heart skips a beat when I see trees and mountains. Fresh, clean air in the country literally makes me want to fall asleep. It’s beautiful.

13. I love to ski. I learned when I was 2 ½ years old.

14. I grew up on 4 acres of land. I’m a country girl. About 30 deer congregate in my family’s back yard every night. We feed them. I love watching them (even though that sounds very redneck, it’s awesome!).

15. I am completely uncomfortable with religion. Church, crosses, etc. make me have panic attacks. If I came to your wedding in a church, you clearly mean a lot to me!

16. I am allergic to asparagus despite loving it. Less than 1% of the world is allergic. That is so very me….

17. I had my gallbladder removed when I was 15.

18. I broke my ankle when I was 13. I still have 50+ bone chips floating around in my ankle and the click/crack when I move it. It’s gross. Oh, and you can feel them if you push on it….

19. I am deathly afraid of birds.

20. I think avocados are the greatest thing ever. Guacamole is something I live for….

21. My husband is the only person who really understands me. I appreciate that more than he knows.

22. My mind goes 24 hours a day. I literally never stop thinking and it makes me crazy. I have never been able to truly relax.

23. I have an uncanny way of remembering every single detail. I remember everything. It’s literally insane and quite creepy.

24. I hate the color red. Like physically hate it. Please note it was my wedding color….refer to #9. LOL.

25. I LOVE music. It’s the only thing, aside from my DH and my family, that I find comfort in. I used to listen to music even while I was sleeping. I very often lose my voice from singing in the car.


Ooo you came to my wedding!
futuremrsmultari Posted:

Re: 25 Random things...

Posted by Mimacat

Posted by futuremrsmultari

1. I am a twin. My twin sister was stillborn but, nonetheless, I’m a twin.

2. I was born at home. 2 ½ months early. Surprise! This is my personality to a T.

3. I am completely, 100% repulsed by meatloaf. The whole concept makes me gag/puke in my mouth. Okay, I’m sick now…..

4. I lost 120 lbs at one point. I’ve gained a lot back since I lost my dad and I really need to work on losing it again…

5. I’m from Upstate NY and even though I’ve been on LI for 5 years, I am not comfortable here and I don’t think I ever will be.

6. I drink a Kiwi colored car. We’re talking day
glow, neon lime. I absolutely love all the looks I get….and there is nothing better than a girl in a little preppy peacoat driving a lime green car that honks like a maniac and flips people off left and right!

7. One of my dearest friends passed away suddenly when we were in 7th grade. It completely changed me….and not for the better. I don’t let many people in and I never let people get that close. I’m getting better but this really ruined me….

8. I don’t have a best friend. I have never had one. I’m far too self sufficient, critical and feisty….and I don’t like losing people.

9. I never, ever wanted a wedding. I survived it but cannot even stomach the pictures/video. I am so glad it’s over. I think it was the biggest waste of money ever….

10. I talk to my mom every single day. We’re buddies. I tell her just about everything!

11. My grandfather donated his organs…and specified that his eyes be donated as well. I never knew this was a separate request but I am fascinated by it and have registered. A young man who was legally blind his entire life can now see….through my Grandpa’s eyes. I think that’s amazing and want to give the same gift.

12. I love nature. My heart skips a beat when I see trees and mountains. Fresh, clean air in the country literally makes me want to fall asleep. It’s beautiful.

13. I love to ski. I learned when I was 2 ½ years old.

14. I grew up on 4 acres of land. I’m a country girl. About 30 deer congregate in my family’s back yard every night. We feed them. I love watching them (even though that sounds very redneck, it’s awesome!).

15. I am completely uncomfortable with religion. Church, crosses, etc. make me have panic attacks. If I came to your wedding in a church, you clearly mean a lot to me!

16. I am allergic to asparagus despite loving it. Less than 1% of the world is allergic. That is so very me….

17. I had my gallbladder removed when I was 15.

18. I broke my ankle when I was 13. I still have 50+ bone chips floating around in my ankle and the click/crack when I move it. It’s gross. Oh, and you can feel them if you push on it….

19. I am deathly afraid of birds.

20. I think avocados are the greatest thing ever. Guacamole is something I live for….

21. My husband is the only person who really understands me. I appreciate that more than he knows.

22. My mind goes 24 hours a day. I literally never stop thinking and it makes me crazy. I have never been able to truly relax.

23. I have an uncanny way of remembering every single detail. I remember everything. It’s literally insane and quite creepy.

24. I hate the color red. Like physically hate it. Please note it was my wedding color….refer to #9. LOL.

25. I LOVE music. It’s the only thing, aside from my DH and my family, that I find comfort in. I used to listen to music even while I was sleeping. I very often lose my voice from singing in the car.


Ooo you came to my wedding!


I did. And I went home and told Chris how scary your/his church was for me! BUT it was important and I survived!
Espo22 Posted:

Re: 25 Random things...

eh probably other things i wouldve rather said but what came to mind now

1-one of my favorite things to do is Dance. I once said i didnt need alcohol or anything like that bc once i was on that dancefloor with music blaring, i was in my own world and took me away from my problems. of course i heard jokes from that comment lol

2-I am obsessed with food, i love it and everything that is bad for you. I would try just about anything but 2 things I HATE are cherries and baklava. I also have a weird thing about meat if its frozen i cant cook it after its frozen lol

3-I had a near death experience at the age of 15, i dont talk about it often and its weird but dont think about it often either. I was in a coma and doctors told my mom they werent sure if i'd make it. I guess since i was temporarily in a coma its not like i remember much from that lol.

4-I can be stand-offish when first meeting ppl, well thats what DH says but he doesnt understand. I am not somebody who goes up to ppl and is one of those who say 'OMG so great to meet you and hug a person' i sit back and observe and see if i do get along with this person, moments i am shy. After that once i am close to the person or even just know the person a bit better, i am extremely open and out there. When im with a group of friends i like to be the silly one and make ppl laugh. Half the ppl i know if you ask them will say i am more quiet and maybe even say standoffish and others will say im extremely outgoing, i have 2 sides i guess

5-I hate shopping. I would love to have new things all the time but i have absolutely no patience for it and hate trying stuff on too.

6-I am also HORRIBLE at making phonecalls, i need to work on this.

7-I am obsessed with reality tv and not just the bad stuff. I love history channel, national geographic, TLC and all those type of shows where they show real people. Whether its learning about those with dwarfism, rare diseases, or watching even shows like lock up raw and filming ppl in prison, anything similar. Of course i watch the bad reality tv too lol.

8-I LOVE driving and prefer to always do the driving. I hate being in the passenger seat and rarely am. Only VERY FEW ppl do i get in the car with them. The way other ppl drive terrifies me. Its weird bc when i drive i am aggressive and not afraid at all but cant trust others.

9-I have great intuition and very observant. I read people easily and hate when i am right about a person but nobody else sees it at first and everyone thinks im crazy, but in the end it always comes out lol. DH jokes around and calls me a witch bc he says what i say ends up happening.

10-I am an only child but always wished i had other siblings. I also had very little family here, most of my family is overseas including grandparents. Only family I have here are my aunt, uncle and their 2 kids. Had another aunt but she moved away too. Its sad bc overseas i have a huge family but ive only been to visit a handful of times so havent seen them much throughout my life. I guess this is why i want a big family.

11-I try not to let things get me down. Always think everything happens for the reason, and with alot of bad theres bound to be alot of good coming our way. This used to be easy but DH is the opposite and stresses, worries, fixates on everything ALL the time.

12-My 2 biggest fears are things that most ppl arent afraid of. I have a TERRIBLE fear of large bodies of water, i hate being in it, but i have overcome some of it bc i went snorkeling twice, although 2nd time didnt help since i almost went into the rocks and dh had to save me since i cant swim lol. I also have a horrible fear of surgery, this is why i didnt get the 2 torn ligaments fixed in my knee and its gotten pretty bad now or a deviated septum although i have trouble breathing through left side of my nose lol. I say ill do it but then chicken out.

13-I always thank god I found DH, the moment i met him i knew he was different and felt blessed. Most times I think I dont deserve him and he could've done better but glad we worked out. I would do anything for him, the way i know we all feel about our Dh's and love him more than words can ever express. I feel lost without him, and always just thinking of how to make him happy. He truly is my best friend.

14-I really want to travel the world and like Taryn would love to move to europe for just a year. I love vacations that involve learning about a new culture and seeing first-hand how they live, embracing the lifestyle and seeing historical monuments.

15-I hate for ppl to see me cry, i have a very bad habit of laughing at moments where i should cry when im public. Its a bad natural reaction.

16-I dont feel the need to be liked or accepted by EVERYONE! i dont understand it, dh is like this. If i am close to somebody and like them then of course but otherwise i dont see why i should care what everyone else thinks, so i dont try to please everybody. I figure hey the same way ppl dont like things about me is the same way i dont like t hings about them. Or if they dont like how i look or dress i dont care, whose to say whose opinion is right.

17-I am very competitive with games, dh and i always play stuff against eachother and i hate losing even if i do lose a decent amount to dh i still try hard the whole time.

18-I strongly believe in God, but have issues with organized religion.

19-I keep alot inside and deal with issues on my own. I feel its nobody elses burden but my own, so i put on a happy face and when im alone with my thoughts i stress out about things on my own.

20-it is easier for me to help somebody else and be there for them than it is to do things for myself. I prefer to help someone else or give to them. Dealing with my own demons is too hard lol

21-I always regret that I let myself down and didnt live up to my full potential, probably something i think about everyday. If i could go back and change things i would, i know about not having regrets and everything happening for a reason but this alone would help me lol.

22-I procrastinate which is a horrible habit of mine. And then im left to go crazy getting it done or whatever it might be. I hate this about myself. I admire super organized people who get things done early.

23-I dont like to judge ppl without knowing them well or knowing the whole situation. I always figure theres more i dont know and try to find the good.

24-I listen to all types of music, hip-hop, rock, r&b, pop, dancehall reggae, reggaeton, spanish music, slow music, doo-wop and the list goes on. Well except disco not a fan

25-Some people call me UFD bc i know so many useless facts, i need to start knowing more useful facts lol

Bride908 Posted:

Re: 25 Random things...

1.I have OCD when it comes to cleaning its almost all I do with my free time.

2.I am the annoying person running around with a camera always read to snap a shot.

3.I hardly ever drink coffee it makes me shaky I drink tea

4.I cant be around mean miserable people. They make me realllly uncomfortable.

5.I love certain kinds of workouts like kickboxing. I hate the Salsa class at my gym

6.I smoke whenever I drink and would never smoke if I was sober. I cant kick that habit

7.The first time I meet my husband I had a really weird feeling and was only 18. I had no idea what it was and never thought about it or saw him again. Over 3 years later when we started to date I remembered it and figured out what the feeling was.

8.I never liked dogs at all until I got my own. Now I love my dog and get dog lovers.

9.I like that my hubby is a handy man. Guys who cant fix stuff turn me off.

10.I have a lot of friends but only consider a handful my true friends. I know that they would do anything for me and they know I would do the same for them. I can read people so easily

11.I am an extremely easy going person and people always comment on it.

12.I love to read girly books. I could never read a horror story.

13.I cant watch any type of scary movie even if it’s the type about rape. It freaks me out so bad that I think about it for days.

14.I hate where I live but cant move away because I couldn’t bare to be to far from my family.

15.My family is my whole world, We are all very clsoe and I am the person I am today because of it.

16.I was so insecure and quiet growing up as a child I couldn’t go to party’s and make friends easily. I think it had to do with going to a very rich school and my parents weren’t rich. Sometime around high school I broke out of my huge shell and buried it. I have no idea how it happened or who that person was.

17.I feel like I have my head on straighter than so many other people out there. Including friends.

18.I never ever ever lie ever.

19.I have 5 other siblings that are my entire life. There are 2 other children my father had when remarried that I am not close with.

20.I really wanted to be good at skiing but ****** so bad I had to stop trying

21.Ive never once cried watching a movie. I wish I would but it has never happened.

22.Only 1 of my girlfriends have seen my cry and it was once. DH was seen my cry countless times.

23.I hate texting. Id rather talk on the phone.

24.I love food. I can not think of any type of food that I don’t like.

25. I would be help anyone that asked me for it no matter who it is or what they wanted.
lillprincess54 Posted:

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1. My grandmother picked out my name; she worked very hard to convince my mom to name me Jillian Michelle. and she won

2. When i was about 2 my sister pushed me, bc i made her mad and i got 4 stitches in my head

3. My parents went through a very messy divorce when i was in 5th grade

4. DH and I have been TTC for the last few months.

5. I like to sing really loud in the car and when i am home alone, its helps my relieve my stress

6. I haven’t talked to my real dad in years, i wish i knew where he lived; I would love just to be able to see him one for time. But am so afraid to get hurt again. My dad has had some drug and alcohol problems, but from what I hear he has been clean for a few years, but i have no way to get in touch with him

7. I have 1 older sister. We never got along growing up, and now in the last 5 years we are each other’s best friends

8. I love the winter

9. I love hot showers, Dh refuses to get in there with me, bc he says he will get 3rd degree burns

10.When my parents got divorced my mom struggled so much, that i use to feel guilty when she had to spend money on me

11. I wont let Dh fold the bath towels, bc I have OCD, with the way I like them folded.

12. I LOVE cheese, I eat at least 1 slice every day

13.I hate wearing a bra, one of the 1st things i do when i get home in take it off.

14. I love all kinds of reality TV shows

15. I am very self-conscience and never give myself the credit I deserve

16. When my dad left, my grand pop stepped in to help raise me and my sister, he is honestly one of the greatest men I have ever meant.

17. Toilets really skeeve me, so I wash ours every night b4 I go to bed

18.Dh is the only man I have ever fell in love with. We are also HS sweethearts.

19. I rarely ever print, I almost always write in cursive

20.. I love to dance, I am not very good at it, but I don’t care.

21. I have 2 dogs, 1 is mine and 1 is DH. I truly dislike Dh dog and cant wait till Dh dad decides to finally take him, That stupid dog bite me sunday night while i was trying to leave the house and now i have a marks on my leg

22. When I was little I use to have a denim jacket with Minnie mouse on the back of it with rhinestones, and I use to think I was the coolest kid in town

23. I tend to put things off until the last minute

24. When my feelings are really hurt, I like to get in my car and drive, it helps me clear out my head

25..I got married in the same exact church my grandparents got married in over 50 yrs ago.
Espo22 Posted:

Re: 25 Random things...

Posted by lillprincess54




4. DH and I have been TTC for the last few months.



awww good luck, wish you two the best with that
teenigrrl Posted:

Re: 25 Random things...

1. I am completely obsessed with my cat. She was a Christmas gift from my best friend 7 years ago, and she will always be the greatest gift anyone has ever/will ever give me.

2. I used to have my septum and eyebrow pierced. The eyebrow piercing left me with a nice scar on my right eyebrow. I truly miss my septum piercing.

3. The hardest part of wedding planning was not having a mother/grandmother or any mother figure there for me. Reading things about brides and their mothers always made me sad.

4. I was a goth chic when I was younger. I still listen to all the old music, even though my wardrobe has found some color. Although I’ve grown to like some of their music, I still believe the goth scene became “dead” with the emergence of Marilyn Manson.

5. I’m addicted to HGTV, especially House Hunters and My House is Worth What? I’m afraid of watching the Food Network because I’m afraid I’ll become addicted to that too.

6. I am the worst at making new friends. I’m friendly, and like meeting new people, I just have a very hard time reaching out to people I’d like to be friends with because I am terrified that they really don’t want to be friends with me.

7. I have, as DH calls it, phone-itis. I hate hate hate calling people, and actually tremble with fear when I have to call people I don’t know.

8. Barbie was my favorite toy growing up. I didn’t stop playing with them (on a regular basis) until I was 13 or 14. Even when I was single and lived alone, I would pull them out every once in a while to dress them up. (I cannot believe I’m admitting this, LOL).

9. When I went to San Diego 4 years ago, I took a picture of two tigers fornicating! It last for all of 5 seconds, then the male tiger roared.

10. My husband is my favorite person in the world. We often think things at the exact same time, it’s actually scary sometimes.

11. I am not a religious person in anyway. When I pray, I pray to my mom. She’s yet to let me down.

12. I love to read. My favorite author is Jeanette Winterson. I give all my friends her book “Written on the Body” if they don’t already have it. I cannot read popular fiction like James Patterson, nor will I buy the small mass paperback books.

13. I love vampires.

14. My favorite place in the world to visit is the Tower of London.

15. I can easily spend 8-10 hours a day playing the Sims.

16. When I walk up or down a flight of stairs, I must always finish with my right foot. Sometimes this means I have to do a double-step for the bottom step, and DH thinks it’s incredibly cute.

17. So far, the worst part about being pregnant is not only being nauseous, but having foods that I normally love (like a big red steak) make me want to completely gag.

18. I love red wine. There’s nothing more I like than spending a Sunday afternoon at home, alone w/ my cat and a good bottle of Pinot Noir.

19. I cry every time that Gerber baby commercial comes on.

20. I got my driver’s license less than a year and a half ago, at the age of 31.

21. I am terrified of skiing. I’m absolutely sure that I will break my leg if I ever go. I’ve never had a broken bone before, so that really terrifies me.

22. Ever since I bought my first designer pocketbook, that’s all I will buy now. But I refuse to buy a bag that is covered in logos.

23. I was always overweight, then two years ago I was down to a size 4 and a body I actually didn’t hate. DH thought I was a bit too skinny. Now I’m back to the weight I was when I graduated HS and I’m so disappointed in myself, but it’s still more than 20 lbs less than my highest weight. DH loves my curves, and it does help a little, but I still feel like a failure. The best weight/body for me would be the weight I was when I took my b-pics.

24. I’ve had more sexual partners than my husband, and he knows it.

25. I have a terrible fear of heights, but love roller coasters and flying.
medic6809 Posted:

Re: 25 Random things...

Ok I’ll give it a try….I’ll try not to make it that boring


1) I stayed in 2 very horrible relationships because I thought I loved them/could change them…..I would not trade those experiences for anything because with out them I would never have appreciated my DH the way he deserves to be appreciated.

2) My Mom is my very best friend and an older, wiser version of who I want to be someday. Some of the best advice I have ever received is from her….when Joe and I had a fight about chores this is what she said to me”He may not clean the way you like, he may be a slob, and he may forget things but he loves you unconditionally and would rather die then hurt you, and at the end of the day being loved is more important then laundry.”

3) I wish I would have stayed in college and gotten my ADN because I would/will be a kick a** labor and delivery nurse. This is my dream job

4) I LOVE Coca-Cola…I drink so much I swear my blood is caffeinated

5) Winter is my favorite season. I love the cold and the snow. To me the perfect day is during a snow storm at home in my flannel pj’s w/some hot tea, my dh, dog, and cat all curled up on the couch watching House.

6) I have a huge part of me that is missing and it wasn’t until I realized I needed to go to church that I understood what WAS missing.

7) I feel like a part of me is broken since the miscarriage in November, and I don’t think I can ever fix it or make it better.

8) I LOVE cats and only like dogs.

9) I wasn’t ready for a dog when I moved in with my brother, but Radar became my baby, and when I left I cried all through FL because I left her. When I met Joe I didn’t want a dog, but he had Gus and I can’t imagine my life without him. It wasn’t until last week that I decided I was ready for a dog of my own and I think I will get a female chocolate lab named Chloe to be a sister to Gus and Daisy!

10) I am fiercely loyal.

11) I can see both sides of everything. Even if I disagree with the point of view or situation I will still look at the other side and make a fair decision. I believe that knowledge is what makes us better not ignorance to only our own opinions.

12) My favorite music is slow and tells a story. I’m not the best with words when I’m upset, scared, or mad and I find music conveys my feelings very well.

13) My biggest “secret” is that sometimes I feel like an imposter! Like any minute someone will say you’re not 26, married with a career and house. You’re still only 15 trying to establish yourself.

14) I don’t like the beach or warm places. I would rather be in CO on the mountains or Alaska then in the Caribbean.

15) I have never been to Alaska or CO, but would give anything to go.

16) I want to have 4 kids and would LOVE to have twin boys….not twin girls the thought scares the cr*p out of me. I saw The Shining and Red Rum will never be forgotten!

17) I am afraid of death, and the dark.

18) I have OCD and while that is a blessing it is also a curse. I can’t relax unless the laundry is done, dishes are done, and the house is picked-up. I literally will not be able to focus on anything else.

19) I am also a planner. I preplan EVERYTHING. I do not do well with change. I like things to stay the same and I find routine to be very comforting.

20) I don’t love my job, but I know that I am good at it and that I make a difference so that makes it better.

21) I have to say my prayers at night or I can’t fall asleep, and they are mostly the same every night. I also pray in the shower and when I’m scared. I feel that if I pray for protection and help I don’t have to feel scared or helpless because it’s out of my hands.

22) I have a horrible handbag obsession. I know this and limit myself to no more the $25 on a bag unless I have liked it for at least 6months and even then I won’t spend more then $100 on a bag. Joe knows this and so for my birthday last year he bought me my first Coach bag and wallet. I am now obsessed and need my fall/winter bag and then I will be done buying purses for awhile.

23) Part of my OCD controls seasonal things. At the start of EVERY new season. Fall, winter, spring, summer I change out my plug-ins, candles, bedding, and bathroom to be seasonal. I can’t burn a pumpkin candle past Thanksgiving or it throws me off, or a rose candle before May will make me feel uneasy.

24) I am a terrible speller and I also have a hard time finding the right words. I will say things wrong and create new words. I talk and type fast so I make many errors.

25) And last but not least I am addicted to LIW and LIF……I have found such comfort from these sites that I can not explain the difference it has made in my life. The women I have met have changed me and taught me more about myself then anybody or anyone I have ever met. I truly don’t know what I would have done after the m/c if it would not have been for all of you. The honesty and the friend ships I have made are genuine and truer then some I have IRL. Thank you Ladies!
cbcf Posted:

Re: 25 Random things...

I am adding more bec this is fun to confess:

26. I am a gum chewer, I always need a piece in my mouth and sometimes get yelled at to stop snapping it

27. I love desserts. I would rather eat desserts first and then my dinner.

28. I am a picky eater. I hate hamburgers, steak, fish (all kinds), pork chops ewww

29. I am the biggest procrastinator. But I def work better under pressure

30. I am a closet nerd. I had a 4.0 all throughout my Masters so far and graduated with a 3.9 in undergrad and was mad at myself. I get mad when I get an A- or B+ on papers/tests.

31. I count things and read things. Like I have to count signs or read off tele # in my head that are on signs, trucks, etc. always while driving

32. I love all reality TV shows, like Denise said even family real life shows, or about the discovery or history channel etc.

ok I am done haha
lillprincess54 Posted:

Re: 25 Random things...

Posted by Espo22

Posted by lillprincess54




4. DH and I have been TTC for the last few months.



awww good luck, wish you two the best with that



thank you, this is our 2nd month trying
SFAR89 Posted:

Re: 25 Random things...

Posted by teenigrrl

1. I am completely obsessed with my cat. She was a Christmas gift from my best friend 7 years ago, and she will always be the greatest gift anyone has ever/will ever give me.

2. I used to have my septum and eyebrow pierced. The eyebrow piercing left me with a nice scar on my right eyebrow. I truly miss my septum piercing.

3. The hardest part of wedding planning was not having a mother/grandmother or any mother figure there for me. Reading things about brides and their mothers always made me sad.

4. I was a goth chic when I was younger. I still listen to all the old music, even though my wardrobe has found some color. Although I’ve grown to like some of their music, I still believe the goth scene became “dead” with the emergence of Marilyn Manson.

5. I’m addicted to HGTV, especially House Hunters and My House is Worth What? I’m afraid of watching the Food Network because I’m afraid I’ll become addicted to that too.

6. I am the worst at making new friends. I’m friendly, and like meeting new people, I just have a very hard time reaching out to people I’d like to be friends with because I am terrified that they really don’t want to be friends with me.

7. I have, as DH calls it, phone-itis. I hate hate hate calling people, and actually tremble with fear when I have to call people I don’t know.

8. Barbie was my favorite toy growing up. I didn’t stop playing with them (on a regular basis) until I was 13 or 14. Even when I was single and lived alone, I would pull them out every once in a while to dress them up. (I cannot believe I’m admitting this, LOL).

9. When I went to San Diego 4 years ago, I took a picture of two tigers fornicating! It last for all of 5 seconds, then the male tiger roared.

10. My husband is my favorite person in the world. We often think things at the exact same time, it’s actually scary sometimes.

11. I am not a religious person in anyway. When I pray, I pray to my mom. She’s yet to let me down.

12. I love to read. My favorite author is Jeanette Winterson. I give all my friends her book “Written on the Body” if they don’t already have it. I cannot read popular fiction like James Patterson, nor will I buy the small mass paperback books.

13. I love vampires.

14. My favorite place in the world to visit is the Tower of London.

15. I can easily spend 8-10 hours a day playing the Sims.

16. When I walk up or down a flight of stairs, I must always finish with my right foot. Sometimes this means I have to do a double-step for the bottom step, and DH thinks it’s incredibly cute.

17. So far, the worst part about being pregnant is not only being nauseous, but having foods that I normally love (like a big red steak) make me want to completely gag.

18. I love red wine. There’s nothing more I like than spending a Sunday afternoon at home, alone w/ my cat and a good bottle of Pinot Noir.

19. I cry every time that Gerber baby commercial comes on.

20. I got my driver’s license less than a year and a half ago, at the age of 31.

21. I am terrified of skiing. I’m absolutely sure that I will break my leg if I ever go. I’ve never had a broken bone before, so that really terrifies me.

22. Ever since I bought my first designer pocketbook, that’s all I will buy now. But I refuse to buy a bag that is covered in logos.

23. I was always overweight, then two years ago I was down to a size 4 and a body I actually didn’t hate. DH thought I was a bit too skinny. Now I’m back to the weight I was when I graduated HS and I’m so disappointed in myself, but it’s still more than 20 lbs less than my highest weight. DH loves my curves, and it does help a little, but I still feel like a failure. The best weight/body for me would be the weight I was when I took my b-pics.

24. I’ve had more sexual partners than my husband, and he knows it.

25. I have a terrible fear of heights, but love roller coasters and flying.



The whole barbie thing, I will admit that too so that you don't feel alone! I will say I didn't stop until about 15 though. I had no friends and I just loved dressing them up.
I also had my lip and eyebrows pierced! And I agree with you on the Marilyn Manson thing. I was never a fan, but I completely see what you mean.

OH,oh and the tower of london. AWESOMEEEEE lol

Espo22 Posted:

Re: 25 Random things...

Posted by teenigrrl





16. When I walk up or down a flight of stairs, I must always finish with my right foot. Sometimes this means I have to do a double-step for the bottom step, and DH thinks it’s incredibly cute.



wow i do the same thing, i have to also end with my right foot and yes sometimes i do a double step. BUt if theres stairs i use all the time i know ahead of time which foot to start with that will end with my right foot lol. Its weird

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