Annoyed with DH!

This morning I tell him that I was going to see a show tonight (I work at a theatre and need to be around for some performances) and he made a face and said can't you go on Thursday night (he does indoor wall climbing on Thursday's with a friend of his). So, I said no the show's only Tuesday and Wednesday nights, so I figured I would go tonight so that we wouldn't be apart two nights in a row. And he's on his way out the door, I'm getting out of the shower and he yells Three! I'm going out with Dominic on Friday night, I told you! And then he's gone before I even had a chance to say that no, he didn't tell me. What I'm annoyed about actually is that Dominic just got married in July (wedding we went to in Wales) and since then he has called DH to go out no less than 4 times. I do firmly believe in a night out with the boys/girls...but, this is getting a little out of hand! This guy just got married!!! Doesn't he want to be home with his wife?? And he didn't call DH this much before his wedding.

I know I sound like I'm overreacting, but I think you all know that I don't have many friends here and it's a bit depressing sitting home alone on a Friday night. Plus, we just moved into our new place last week. My parents had been visiting all week and so thisi weekend is our first finally ALONE in our new place. I was really looking forward to a quiet night in Just had to vent, thanks for listening. I'm thinking we're going to have an interesting discussion when I get home.

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i understand how you feel i think that you being so far away from your family and friends he should make an extra effort to spend time with you at least untill you settled in more and made some of your own friends. i dont think your over reacting at all. lets us know hpw it turns out. maybe you can bribe him a nice romatic dinner to be home friday night showing his wife is better company then his friend

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I had a similar situation but DH and me were engaged at the time. One of his friends was calling him non stop to hang out and I got very very mad and jealous, he had just gotten married. It turned out that he was having problems with his new wife, and ended up divorcing after a year.
You know you can't stop him from having friends and he can't stop you from going out, compromise! I learned to compromise, my husband is still working on it but trying really hard I have to say.

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You're not overreacting at all!
He should be more considerate of your feelings & spend as much time at home with you, especially since you're in a foreign country in which you don't know too many people.
Try to explain to him exactly how you feel, don't hold anything in. Let us know how it goes.