Been married 68 days

and DH just told me he wants a divorce.

Thanks.

Sobbing hysterically in my office

What?

Talk to us! We are here!

I don't know what to say
I hope you can work this out to what is best for you and your family.

I'm so sorry!!!

I'm so sorry! I really hope u guys can work this out

OMG! That is terrible! I am so sorry for you.
That just gave me goosebumps all over and made me want to cry for you.
We are here for you if you need.

I am completely devastated.

I cannot even breathe

What the heck.....???????????????????
I am so so sorry sweetie, I sure hope you guys can work this out, what happened..........any idea at all that he would ever do something crazy like this. You are such a beautiful girl,
I have tears in my eyes just reading your post.............Take a deep breath and have a cold glass of water. You need to just breath girlfriend....we are all here for you..................................................

praying and hoping it will blow over

Oh God

what happened???

Leave work, go home, and talk to your husband.

Go to marriage counseling if you have to, but you cannot just throw in the towel without doing everything possible to save your marriage.

He cannot just spring this on you out of the blue, what happened in 68 days to make him feel this way??



I am so very sorry you are going through this, we are all here to support you!!

His father is in the Cardiac ICU so I know hes not himself. But it seems he hasn't been able to stand me for a while now & he's just telling me. He of course has been letting me know lately that he only married me b.c I was pregnant, which is lovely to hear. He's also been threatening that he was going to leave lately. I guess he decided to go for it. Which, ya know what, if you don't love me, then FINE - go.

Except we have a 5 month old daughter.

He's also now threatening that he is going to take her away from me. This is all because I said I didn't want to go out to dinner with his friends tonight b/c I have strep throat & the baby has an ear infection. He said if I didn't go, it was over. So I said I wasn't going. And all hell broke loose.

What........thats so sad, not for anything or to make you more upset, but he sounds like such an ungrateful person. I really dont have the proper words to make you feel any better right now, other then saying stay strong and keep the faith, but with him saying all those hurtful things to you & telling you he married you because you were pregnant, thats just out right crazy .. He is now a husband and a father, :'A Man' & he now has to grown up & step up to the plate, it sounds like he hasent done that yet. I know its a real tough time for him right but it is for you as well. Im sure its devestating but you deserve a life of love and happiness for you and your beautiful daughter, and no, he wont be able to take her away from you ever, she is yours and he can threaten you all he wants, its sounds like he is very demanding to you as well, you shouldnt take that from any man. Tell him to stop the threats and go, if that what he wants....if he dosent love you why wait any longer, My question is why did this come out today??? MWhy not before getting married. My heart is pounding so much right now and I feel for you pain. Something with him sounds very off, I hate to say this, but you may be better off without him, your such a beautiful girl, why would he put your through this during such an important time in your life......New life, Just married, New Baby, Basically you both need to talk with each other with nobody else around, do it out of your house like at a quiet restaurant or something. Wishing you all the best........Take it easy.....Its Not you, remember that, ....You and your baby will be 100 % happy in life if he decides to leave, I know its hard to picture now, but you have to worry about your child as well.
So wipe those tears off of your face and stand up to him......tell him whats in your heart, thats all that matters, maybe suggest both of you going together to therapy together......... :-
I am here for you and will be praying for you both tonight. Im hoping everything turns out perfect for you!!!!(

Just got an email that my f*cking Winkflash Thank You cards have been shipped. Talk about timing....

Jeeeeeeez. The hits just keep coming

oh my god sweetie i dont even have words that could possibly make you feel better right now. I dont understand why he would have ever gone through with the wedding if he was feeling this way.
Go home, get out of work....you need to take care of yourself and your family right now. Maybe counseling will help some?

We're here for you whenever you need to talk or cry

I am so sorry. There's nothing that I can do to make you feel better, but please know that I'm here to listen.