Been married 68 days

Oh my God I don't knwo what to say..hopefully this is all coming out because of his frustrations and fears about his sick dad..Please keep talking to us..you are not alone

I hope he realizes that he is being a real jerk and comes to his senses.
Either way he should never treat his wife the way he has been treating you. Of course he is stressed, but it's no excuse to be pushing away those who are closest to him.
I am so sorry again!

Caroline I really dont have any words for you.
Truthfully his excuse is a complete cop out to me. If that was the case why wait until now? Why today?
I would talk to him-and tell him-if he wants to go and he doesnt love you then to go...but not to threaten you. Its not fair and its not fair to the child you have together.
Regardless of what ELSE is going on his life, unfortunate as it sounds you come first now....so he needs to stop playing games with you and get down to the nitty gritty.

I am sooooooo sorry to hear this I hope this is something that you can talk to each other about. Like you said, it may be because of his emotions about his father.....and not that he should be talking to you that way, maybe he's just not thinking clearly.......

My heart is just breaking for you right now.........

OMG------I don't know what to say. I'm just going to pray for you both.

We are hear for you for whatever you need. I wish there something I could say or do to make this all go away for you.

I hope that everything is ok and he is just misdirecting his anger from his father's illness. However, even if it is misdirected anger, he should NOT be treating you like this! I am so sorry you are going through this right now. You have us here to talk to whenever you need to.

OMG... i am so sorry to hear this... i don't even know what to say...

maybe he is just overwhelmed that his father is sick.... i hope you can work through this.

we are here for you

i am so sorry.... i don't think that any of us have the right words to say ...

but we're here for you if you need us.

i don't know what to say. i just have lots of for you

im so very sorry to hear this and im not sure what to say....i hope that everything works out and is best for u and ur daughter....whatever that is.....counseling can be a huge help if he is willling to do so.....im sending all my prayers and good thoughts

I am so very sorry!!

You always seemed like such an upbeat and happy person! I am sorry this is happening to you...

he shouldn't threaten you with your marriage because you won't go out with him...
I am sorry he waited until after the wedding less than two months ago to say this and act this way BUT if he isn't acting like himself because of his dad, you should ask him to step away and wait until things change with his dad...

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Posted by carolinebr

His father is in the Cardiac ICU so I know hes not himself. But it seems he hasn't been able to stand me for a while now & he's just telling me. He of course has been letting me know lately that he only married me b.c I was pregnant, which is lovely to hear. He's also been threatening that he was going to leave lately. I guess he decided to go for it. Which, ya know what, if you don't love me, then FINE - go.

Except we have a 5 month old daughter.

He's also now threatening that he is going to take her away from me. This is all because I said I didn't want to go out to dinner with his friends tonight b/c I have strep throat & the baby has an ear infection. He said if I didn't go, it was over. So I said I wasn't going. And all hell broke loose.

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Stress can make people act differently. It doesn't give him the right to say those mean things to you.
He can't take your daughter away from you rest assure, If you're a good mom a judge won't let that happen. Mom's are in a better position than dad's. I would suugest packing your things and going to your parents house. See what happens from there. So sorry you are going through this!
XOXOXOXO
Kitty

OMG, I am so sorry.

I can't say 'I'm sorry' enough to you.
I can't imagine how this must feel emotionally and physically. I'm truly sorry.

But you deserve to be happy. Not to be with a man who says that he only married you because you were pregnant. Your daugher deserves to live in a home with a happy mother, with a dad who wants to be there for both of them.

If you feel like this marriage is worth saving, please go to counseling together first. If he's not willing - either way, you're right - if he doesn't love you, then you don't need him.

He can't take your daughter from you. He's talking out of his a s s. It does sound like something's up - outside of the stress.

I wish you luck. Again, I'm truly sorry that this is happening to you.

I'm sooooooooooo sorry!!!

Im really sorry! We are here for you!! Your in my thoughts!