DH and I are still not doing well...

Original post by JennyAPH

Dec 01, 2009 09:25 AM

Things got a little better for a few days then went right back to being terrible.

He said some really hurtful stuff recently and I asked him to move out.

Really not sure what to do or think at the moment.

ELluvsMB Posted: Dec 02, 2009 12:18 PM

Re: DH and I are still not doing well...

I think every couple has their moments. DH and I have been together for 8 years and soon after we got married we were having a tough time and we' have been living together a few years now before the wedding. I really don't know what it was but things were pretty bad at one point. We would talk but it would end in a fight every time. Finally we got to a place where we could talk things through and everything worked out and they are better then ever now. I can't pin point why it happened or how we fixed it but they say the first year of marriage is the most stressful, I have to say I agree.

jeanettelovesjason Posted: Dec 02, 2009 12:31 PM

Re: DH and I are still not doing well...

I hope everything works out for you both!!! I know it can be so hard sometimes and sooo often we do and say things we dont mean just because we're hurt. We dont always express it in the right way, like your DH did about buying the new shirt. Im sure thats so not the issue but its easier to say that then to deal with the real problems. I know this will work out because you love him so much and Im sure with some time, patience and communication (which i know is hard) everything will get better!!!