Well he was relaying to me a conversation he had with a friend of his. Apparently the guy was working out at the gym with some friends and they were talking about that they should watch a game that night. So the guys says -why don't we watch it at my place? So he calls his wife to see if she minds? Well she gets pi**ssy and says why did you not let me know ahead of time. He totally did not understand why. She proceeded to tell him that he has to let her know in advance if he is having company.
So the guy asks DH if I am like this. My hubby said no, not really.
My hubby asked if I would have a huge problem with him doing something like this and I said no, I would just want the place to be neat and there be food in the fridge to serve people. Not like you would do it all the time.
What are your thoughts????
nrvbrd
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Posted by yabbobay
When we lived in NY...this happened more often...so I always had chips and stuff around...and I came to realize...his friends don't really care what I or the house looked like...
I am beginning to realize this as well
shamma
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I like advance notice, Roger will call first to check that I am dressed properly but he will not bring anyone over for an extended period before checking with me, b/c he would like to have me have something ready to serve the guest
shamma
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Kysha why are you so harsh on the ladies
The Original 2nd-time-around
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Posted by Tammy5/03
I like to have people over but I would need advance notice. I never have food in the house and I'm not the neatest person there is. I admit that only to you all, my LIW friends. I would need more time to get ready. Unless they want to drink water and move the piles of laundry out of their way to walk around. But shhh, don't tell anyone.
same here!!!
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I want to know in advance, but it doesn't have to be DAYS in advance. A few hours would be enough time for me to prepare for the visit (straighten up, get dressed or whatever).
Sometimes you just aren't feeling well and would rather not have company in the house. So I definitely want to be consulted before my DH brings friends over.
