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Has Marriage Changed You?

Original post by TheFutureMrsM

I was hanging out with one of my single girlfriends last night and she said that i am exactly the same and i haven't changed at all since getting married.

I think she was expecting me to change or drop off the face of the earth or something

Just wondering if anyone had similar conversations with friends about changing



What Posted:

Re: Has Marriage Changed You?


Posted by MeNBobs


Posted by What

I have changed... I'm WAAAAAAAAAAAY more b*tchier to him now b/c I know HE KNOWS...I can get half if he leaves...




I'd say the same but half of nothing is still nothing .



omg that reminds me of eddie murphy talking about his father...

'What? Lillian, Eddie had a fight in a disco with Deney Terrio


and shot Jimmie Walker.

He shot him in the lips, Lil.

Eddie, why'd you shoot Jimmie Walker in his lips?

I like Good Times.

Oh, you took a shot in your lips?

And you look like Jimmie Walker?

Oh, that'd do it.

Who punched you in the lips? Italian? For what?

What you mean 'nothing'?

Nobody get
punched for nothing. What'd you do?

Don't tell me 'nothing'.

You had to do something.

What did you do?

No, don't tell me 'nothing'.

Nobody gets punched for nothing.

What...? Eddie...

No, don't say 'nothing'. Eddie.

Nothing from nothing leaves nothing
Had to do something...Motherf*cker punched you
In the mouth
JennNicole Posted:

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not really

I think we are thinking more about more of long term goals than we were before but that is about it.
I think b/c we are older and lived together for some years so I don't see the difference really - we are just legal now
Snick n Nick Posted:

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I don't think we have changed much, except getting to be together always and just relaxing together on weeknights (we could never do that b/c we lived 90 miles apart)....plus I think now we're more worried about spending money, and trying to save for a house, whereas before we were just trying to get by.....but we definitely still hang out and have fun like we always did, we still go out. I think some of DH's friends are surprised by that haha but it's true
Jenn04 Posted:

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Hmmm - I dont think my personality changed at all. However when we moved intogether a year and half ago - I learned to become a little more 'economically savy' eh-em I learned how to save $$$!! AND I am much neater around the house! I think these are all good things!

Good post by the way!
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by MeNBobs

Physically it has made me fatter. That is about it.



ugh thats one bad part. I cant believe how much ive gained in just 3 months after the wedding

Omg me too! I cant believe it. I just keep puttin on the pounds. I actually ripped my skirt today and had to go home and change!!



im a bm in a wedding on september fifth. I dont know if im going to fit in the dress lol, i am gonna have to work out to at least fit into it

i'm sure you will be fine and the dress will fit. But i know what you mean, i went to a wedding last weekend and everything in my closet was waayyyyyy too tight!!!



thank you for being nice, but as of now it wont fit just have to work out hard for 2 weeks and should be fine. And yes so many other things in my closet just dont fit well anymore. I am limited as to what i can wear
snwb08 Posted:

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i don't think so. I asked DH a similar question about my personality last night... he said I've been the same (um, mean and angry and easily irritated ) since he met me five years ago.

GinaZ Posted:

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Not that I have noticed or been told.

One friend from High school told me I am boring now- but he told me that a couple of years ago. LOL. I guess cus I dont go out partying all night anymore.
GinaZ Posted:

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Posted by apriladam9206


Posted by MeNBobs

Physically it has made me fatter. That is about it.



amen



ehhh ya me too. I just ate a bag of chips and I wasn't even hungry...
PattyK Posted:

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Yes & no, it is kind of hard to explain. I am still the same person, but I feel like I am more complete. I still like going out with friends, but at the same time I treasue quiet nights at home with DH snuggling on the couch watching a good movie. I have become more open to new experiences and I realize that I now have someone in my life that is in my corner no matter what.

drpepper318 Posted:

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No I think I'm the same as before.
Still love to go out with my friends
Still can't cook & hate house work
Personality is the same
I feel the same
No one has told me I've changed.
GettinHutched Posted:

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I think it has...hard to put my finger on how. I didn't feel this way right away - but I think with the stuff we've gone through over the last few months, it's made me see what my role is as a 'wife.' I feel stronger and more 'whole' - hard to explain. Maybe I'm speaking more of our relationship, who knows.
dante31300 Posted:

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Posted by ant n tilde

I am definitely happier
I have less anxiety
I am WAY more responsible
I am fatter.




DITTO!
bonniejd Posted:

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Posted by MeNBobs

Physically it has made me fatter. That is about it.



ditto!-
LauraD419 Posted:

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I have definitely changed. I still see my friends, but I am more mature and I have a LOT more responsibility. And I am DEFINITELY fatter!!

Butterfly123 Posted:

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Actually it made me lose weight! After the wedding, DH and I made a promise we wouldnt let ourselves go so we joined the gym! I lost 4 pounds already thank God.

And like Denise said, it has made me more responsible but DH and I have been living together for years so I feel once we started living together I changed for the better. I will say I dont go out as much but thats not cause of marriage thats cause of me. I just cant hang anymore!
Mich0621 Posted:

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Marriage has definitely changed me for the better-like becoming slightly more fiscally responsible!

TheFutureMrsM Posted:

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The only thing I can say is that I am more of a saver now than I used to be.
Paying for the wedding really helped me not splurge on things i dont need
soon2BMrsMcD Posted:

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Posted by dante31300


Posted by ant n tilde

I am definitely happier
I have less anxiety
I am WAY more responsible
I am fatter.




DITTO!




DITTO again!!!

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