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~* NWQOTD*~ Mon 11/8
AdriandSteve Posted: Nov 08, 2010 11:20 AM+
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~* NWQOTD*~ Mon 11/8

Thanks again for making me Newlywed of the week!

So, I must get asked this question at least once a day. I'm sure you have all been asked too.

How's married life? Is it all that you expected it to be? Do you feel different?

It's hard to answer if it's what I expected cuz I've never been married before and didn't really know what to expect. It's more of an adjustment living with someone. I actually do feel slightly different, it's strange but it's more of an obligation and protection over DH lol. WErid.
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Lsorrent Posted: Nov 08, 2010 11:24 AM+
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Re: ~* NWQOTD*~ Mon 11/8

Not really much different for us..........but we've been together for almost 11 years and have lived together for 4.
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halfbaked Posted: Nov 08, 2010 11:25 AM+
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Re: ~* NWQOTD*~ Mon 11/8

Same as it ever was- it has it's ups and downs.
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SummerBride10 Posted: Nov 08, 2010 11:26 AM+
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Re: ~* NWQOTD*~ Mon 11/8

Married life has been very enjoyable. No more stress of wedding planning, just enjoying each other and enjoying life. I'm very happy with my life right now!
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AngnShaun Posted: Nov 08, 2010 11:30 AM+
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Re: ~* NWQOTD*~ Mon 11/8

we lived together for a long time... so its no different than it was before...

the only thing thats different is that we say husband and wife now... still not totally used to that yet
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NanandEric08 Posted: Nov 08, 2010 11:31 AM+
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Re: ~* NWQOTD*~ Mon 11/8

I have been asked this so much lately and honestly, I feel like not much has changed except the wedding stress is gone and everthing just seems much more solid. It still weirds me out to say 'my husband'...:
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AwaitingAugust Posted: Nov 08, 2010 11:32 AM+
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Re: ~* NWQOTD*~ Mon 11/8

first let me say that i HATE when people ask 'how's married life' .... mostly because it's exactly the same as single & engaged life!
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miamimerger Posted: Nov 08, 2010 11:33 AM+
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Re: ~* NWQOTD*~ Mon 11/8

love love love it. we actually gave each other high fives last night to how awesome of a married couple we are .
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soontobecruz Posted: Nov 08, 2010 12:16 PM+
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Re: ~* NWQOTD*~ Mon 11/8

I agree., it's more of an adjustment than feeling totally different. I still have to conciously think of mynew last name when I sign something. When I say 'my husband' it still freaks me out a little but not in a bad way.

I am fairly used toliving with him since we have been living together for years at my Mom's. Now I have to adjust to chores and laundry and stuff like that though because my Mom spoiled us! lol
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GR2010 Posted: Nov 08, 2010 12:21 PM+
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Re: ~* NWQOTD*~ Mon 11/8

Eh, not really different... but I guess that is because we lived together for over a year before hand. It is funny to hear my siblings refer to DH as their 'brother in law' though!!!
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AugustBridein09 Posted: Nov 08, 2010 12:22 PM+
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Re: ~* NWQOTD*~ Mon 11/8

I hate this question and the oh so original follow up of 'so when are you having kids?'




It exactly the same, we are the same people and to be honest since we aren't planning the wedding anymore....we go out more and are having the best time with each other.
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jackieee Posted: Nov 08, 2010 12:29 PM+
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Re: ~* NWQOTD*~ Mon 11/8

I love married life. Not much has really changed since we lived together for a year already, but even moving in last year was a smooth transition. I just feel like things keep getting better when we first got back from our honeymoon, we felt like it was all new again and had a crush on each other hehehe. I hope we always get those moments. I like that its official and we are a family and calling him my husband, but I feel like we felt married before. I feel more grown up hahah
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lisagail55 Posted: Nov 08, 2010 02:20 PM+
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Re: ~* NWQOTD*~ Mon 11/8

I love it. It's exactly as I expected it to be... Just the same as it has been! I love calling DH my husband and do so all the time :)
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MoochsWifey Posted: Nov 08, 2010 03:05 PM+
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Re: ~* NWQOTD*~ Mon 11/8

I love it but the only thing that has changed is we're TTC now. Before we were married we had already lived together for over 7 years and been together over 8.
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lori7570 Posted: Nov 08, 2010 04:37 PM+
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Re: ~* NWQOTD*~ Mon 11/8

DH and I have been together over 11 years and lived together for 6. I didn't think it would be different - but it is!!

The stress of the wedding made us a different couple, I almost forgot what we were like 2 years ago!!

I also feel more of a closeness with him. He and I work completely different hours and I had my own life because of this. Now it bothers me more and more, and I'm missing him more than ever
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MrsC2010 Posted: Nov 08, 2010 06:01 PM+
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Re: ~* NWQOTD*~ Mon 11/8

ppl always ask this and it annoys me lol. i really feel like not much has changed so i dont know what to say. if i say 'nothing has really changed', ppl look at me funny. I usually just say its goood and drop it.
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bride2be1012 Posted: Nov 08, 2010 06:05 PM+
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Re: ~* NWQOTD*~ Mon 11/8

I do feel like it has changed us. I feel like is an even deeper/ bond and level of commitment now that we are married. It is nice to be a real family. Also, we got our place together for the first time which definitely brought us closer.
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