Ok My crazy MIL calls and leaves this insane message, Tell me if Im nuts for thinking it was a dig towards me

wacky Posted: Nov 21, 2003 09:08 AM

Ok My crazy MIL calls and leaves this insane message, Tell me if Im nuts for thinking it was a dig towards me

Crazy lady calls and leave message

'Hi, this is Pauls Mother, if he can please call me back, Id appreciate it. Its not an emergency, but it is important. So if my son can call me back Id appreciate it.'

Someone explain this to me

Latina511 Posted: Nov 21, 2003 09:22 AM

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Not to get you paranoid but I would also take it the wrong way.

ChristineC68 Posted: Nov 21, 2003 09:26 AM

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It's an odd message.

Normally, what is your relationship with her like?

Sage10.03 Posted: Nov 21, 2003 09:32 AM

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I would have been a tad offended by her not addressing you in the message.....

KarenK122 Posted: Nov 21, 2003 09:40 AM

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I think that would really annoy me. Just the fact that she didn't even acknowledge you is rude in itself

nrvbrd Posted: Nov 21, 2003 09:51 AM

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Ok, this is rather bizarre.

I do have a question- Did your MIL have a hard time accepting the fact that Paul was getting married.

Also, is their an unhealthy attachment on both parts and she somewhat resents you for taking him away?

Ok, that is two questions. Maybe I am overanalyzing this, but I know of situations like this.

ChristineC68 Posted: Nov 21, 2003 09:53 AM

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My FIL would do something like that - he's just a little weird himself.

But then once he called only to talk to me and told me that.

wacky Posted: Nov 21, 2003 10:05 AM

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Thanks ladies, ever since the wedding she has been real weird. I called her after the wedding and she gave me the cold shoulder. Pauls sister has also been pissed at us, and I think shes flufing his mother's ass.

Sorry Im being blunt, but they are so weird. They are only concerned about how they feel and no one else.

I thought it was strange thanks for confirming.

Nvrbrd, I dont think shes having seperation issues, but I could be wrong.

curly2003 Posted: Nov 21, 2003 10:23 AM

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i say kill her

wacky Posted: Nov 21, 2003 10:46 AM

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Haha Shes a wacko

Stacey1403 Posted: Nov 21, 2003 10:53 AM

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Posted by wacky

. Pauls sister has also been pissed at us, and I think shes flufing his mother's ass.

My MIL would leave a message like that too. We usually have to stop by once a week after work. Which I get out of now since I'm on maternity leave. She is going to freak when I put a stop to it when I go back to work and don't want the baby's schedule thrown off

wacky Posted: Nov 21, 2003 11:04 AM

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sTACEY WHAT IS THEIR PROBLEM?

shamma Posted: Nov 21, 2003 11:15 AM

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No hello Wacky?? nothing, no I hope everyone is doing well. I wonder if she thought no one would recognize who was calling. She made it seem as if he was a kid Oy vey what next

wacky Posted: Nov 21, 2003 11:18 AM

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SHAMMA NO NOTHING. SHE SAID HI THIS IS PAULS MOM. THATS IT

IM SO FREAKING ANNOYED, I DONT KNOW WHAT I DID TO THIS FAMILY BUT I HATE BEING MADE THE JACKASS AND I HOPE SHE IS MORE PLEASANT TO ME WHEN WE GO TO VISIT HER OUT OF STATE.

ChristineC68 Posted: Nov 21, 2003 11:30 AM

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Posted by shamma

I wonder if she thought no one would recognize who was calling.

My father used to do that when I was in my first apartment with a roommate. He would call and say 'Hi, it's Tom *insert last name*, blah blah blah'

I kept saying DAD we know who you are...

swags1016 Posted: Nov 21, 2003 11:31 AM

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Frankie's mother would say something like that and has.

LisaT Posted: Nov 21, 2003 11:34 AM

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that would certainly annoy me!

Latina511 Posted: Nov 21, 2003 11:35 AM

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My MIL doesn't do that...thank GOD! My SIL's use to do that a long time ago. Its like the machine says Kathy and Enzo with my voice and they use to be like 'Hi Enzo, just calling to see what you are doing? Call me back when you get the chance.'

Thank God that changed. The relationship is much better since we are married.

cooky11111 Posted: Nov 21, 2003 11:40 AM

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Yes that is plain rude!!! Did your husband ever ask you SIL and MIL if something was wrong?

wacky Posted: Nov 21, 2003 11:41 AM

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LATINA GLAD THINGS HAVE GOTTEN BETTER. IT SUCKS WHEN THERE IS ANIMOSITY BETWEEN PEOPLE.

I NEVER BELEIVED IN A MILLION YEARS I WOULD HAVE A MIL WHO DOESNT LIKE ME, OH WELL