Ok I want some serious responses, I need to know your feelings on this.
You are friends with someone and have known them for years. You used to be BFFs but grew apart. Now in your adult lives when you see e/o it is either just you and her or you, your DH, her and her DH. You become very close with her again but still its only a her/you relationship.
So on to it, you are invited to one of your friends houses after something that you all GTG for. You are hanging out with a group, YOUR group of friends who have never met this girl before. So you are just all hanging out chit chatting so on and so on, you begin to tell a story about something and you lightly ( I mean lightly) tap this girl and she throws a hissy fit about how she cant believe you just 'HIT' her and hits you back-not with the same touch as you but actually smacks you in the arm full force. All of your friends turn around and look at her like she is NUTS and would tell her to leave except they kind of cant and they are awaiting for your response to see what they should do......in utter shock you tell her you cant believe that she just hit you especialy since you practically touched her and she was out of line, from this point on you are completely annoyed by this.
What are your feelings on this person as far as your relationship with them?
ETA: b/c it was confusing
Future Mrs.
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My opinion is....that this was a drunken reaction and you don't have time in yoru life for annoying people.
If I were in your shoes....there is NO WAY I would have a conversation about it with her....unless she brought it up.
I would just move on and realize that she's probably not as close of a friend as you thought she was.......people change. Oh well
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NOW, I probably would have let it go and ignored it, but at my reception she came over to the head table, i hadnt had a drink b/c for some reason everytime I got one it disappeared. SHe came over and picked up my drink and I told her to go get her own...blah blah hadnt had a drink, etc. (YES being a brat) she then picked up my knife off the table, held it to my thought (AT MY WEDDING) and said I will cut you biitch.
At this point I didnt talk to her until about 1 month ago, she says she doesnt remember, she says she is sorry but I still have this thing that doesnt want to be ok with it. Idont know if its me overreacting or what.
W T F! You DO NOT deserve that, and to m e it's an attention thing. To theaten to CUT the brides throat on her WEDDING day??? That is 1 friendship that is over. Well it would be over after I kicked her a** from here to New Hampshire.
