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People who are putting off TTC...
scatteredx12
Posted: Dec 15, 2010 07:53 PM+
Posted: Dec 15, 2010 07:53 PM
Re: People who are putting off TTC...
Multiple reasons... The main reason being that we're way too young. I'm 22 and DH is 24. We like going out with friends, and neither of us wants to be staying at home with a baby anytime soon. Not only that, but I'm finishing school in May, so I need to find a good job so we can get out of this apartment. There's also the fact that we want to travel before having kids. Everyone assumes that because we got married young, that we're gonna have kids soon... but that's not the case AT ALL.
SummerBride10
Posted: Dec 15, 2010 08:09 PM+
Posted: Dec 15, 2010 08:09 PM
Re: People who are putting off TTC...
I'm just not ready right now. I like living my life the way I want, being able to go out and run when I want. I also would ideally like to run a full marathon before I get pregnant.
Byrne2Be
Posted: Dec 15, 2010 08:26 PM+
Posted: Dec 15, 2010 08:26 PM
Re: People who are putting off TTC...
Posted by jilliibabii
Financial. I say I want to travel and stuff, but really all I want is a house and a baby.
this. to a t.
rdubs
Posted: Dec 15, 2010 09:27 PM+
Posted: Dec 15, 2010 09:27 PM
Re: People who are putting off TTC...
We are enjoying being a DINK family right now too! In all honestly, we just want to hang out, travel and enjoy being married with no kids for a year or two.
soonT0beMrsD
Posted: Dec 15, 2010 10:09 PM+
Posted: Dec 15, 2010 10:09 PM
Re: People who are putting off TTC...
would like a house first but at this rate I am not sure that will happen first. I would like to go away on at least one more nice vacation before I get pregnant, preferably a nice caribbean vacay for our 1 year anni in may!
Spring143
Posted: Dec 15, 2010 10:19 PM+
Posted: Dec 15, 2010 10:19 PM
Re: People who are putting off TTC...
ones enough for right now
MikesBride2B
Posted: Dec 15, 2010 11:36 PM+
Posted: Dec 15, 2010 11:36 PM
Re: People who are putting off TTC...
Financial in that we need a house before we have a baby.Other in that I'd like to get a job and get settled into it before we have one, although we'll probably start trying this time next year.
Its funny, I didn't plan on having children this young but already having SD definitely makes me want to pop 'em all out now and have them all out of the house that much sooner
ourwedding9510
Posted: Dec 16, 2010 08:40 AM+
Posted: Dec 16, 2010 08:40 AM
Re: People who are putting off TTC...
Financial! We want a house before we have kids!
Byrne2Be
Posted: Dec 16, 2010 09:19 AM+
Posted: Dec 16, 2010 09:19 AM
Re: People who are putting off TTC...
Posted by SummerBride10
I'm just not ready right now. I like living my life the way I want, being able to go out and run when I want. I also would ideally like to run a full marathon before I get pregnant.
DH's sister had the same goal and she did end up running the NYC marathon! Later that year she ended up getting prego without trying too hard!
christine2010
Posted: Dec 16, 2010 09:21 AM+
Posted: Dec 16, 2010 09:21 AM
Re: People who are putting off TTC...
We have a laundry list:DH is unemployeed & thinking about going back to school.
Ideally I would like to stay at home & financially that is not possible.
I am currently under doctors care to determine why I am suffering with frequent migraine headaches.
We live in a very small apartment & are not even sure where we want to settle down yet.
bluj786
Posted: Dec 16, 2010 09:29 AM+
Posted: Dec 16, 2010 09:29 AM
Re: People who are putting off TTC...
Posted by ourwedding9510
Financial! We want a house before we have kids!
same, we can fit a baby in the apartment but it would be way to cramed. also i want to enjoy life just me and him right now. We have the puppy and thats enough for now! he is our baby. deff a good pratice!
luckycouple05
Posted: Dec 16, 2010 09:31 AM+
Posted: Dec 16, 2010 09:31 AM
Re: People who are putting off TTC...
IMO DH and I just moved out together for the first time, whats the rush? We want to enjoy what we always wanted, which is to live together, travel, and enjoy life and enjoy each other more.. I am 25 and DH is 27, we have plenty of time. If it happens, we are financially ready but I am not ready to trade in my gucci bag for a diaper bag.
brittndave
Posted: Dec 16, 2010 10:40 AM+
Posted: Dec 16, 2010 10:40 AM
Re: People who are putting off TTC...
Posted by Lsorrent
DH and I are WAY too selfish right now. We like our free time and being able to pick up and go as we please.
this and the fact that we're too young, don't have enough money, our house is under construction (and will be for a long time), and we both want to get further into our careers before having kids!
grkbarbie
Posted: Dec 16, 2010 10:42 AM+
Posted: Dec 16, 2010 10:42 AM
Re: People who are putting off TTC...
we want a life. i want to pick up and go as i please.no need for a child now
Lovebug2016
Posted: Dec 16, 2010 01:57 PM+
Posted: Dec 16, 2010 01:57 PM
Re: People who are putting off TTC...
DH and I are to selfish. No need, nor want for kids. We like picking up and going as we please. We are very happy with bein the aunt and uncle bc at the end of the day the kids go back home and we go back to our usual routine. if we wanna leave the house at 9pm to run an errand or make last minute plans theres no worryin bout finding a babysitter or any of that nonsense lol
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