Re: Radom Poll regarding friends

I love you new pic!
nope, I did not loose any

Re: Radom Poll regarding friends

My great aunt is the kind of person who will start arguments with my grandmother (her sister) over trivial things and not speak to her for months.

She wore white to my parents wedding back in the day and people gossiped about it. After that she refused to go to anyone else's wedding in the family.

She skipped my aunt's whom she was very close to, about 20 years ago. My aunt said it hurt her feelings but she was too happy to really think or worry about it.

This year she RSVPed No to my wedding. My dad called and pretty much said 'What the **** is wrong with you, why aren't you coming?' She said that she had her reasons and would send me a letter explaining them. She sent me a card that said 'Dear Lisa and DH, Congratulations! Sorry I can't be at your wedding. Love, Aunt.' and a gift from the registry.

My dad is still mad about it, and never wants to speak with her again. But I don't really care. She's a ridiculous person. I had a great wedding and had plenty or family and friends to love and support me. I didn't think of her at all that day, to be honest. I sincerely hope I'm not crazy when I get old. I told my dad that she doesn't have much time left so he should be nice to her so he doesn't feel guilty when she's gone - it's not his fault that she does hurtful things and it's fairly obvious she will never change. I really do think that she doesn't go to weddings because she doesn't like not being the center of attention. And that's too pathetic for me to get angry about. If anything I feel pity and find it morbidly funny.

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I lost one and I couldn't be happier. Only sad thing is that she was a bridesmaid but seriously her 'my life is perfect' and b*tchyness when she didn't like something but she's allowed to do it, I could go on and on about it was enough and I'm over it! She insisted on telling me how terrible a person my SIL is and then gave her dirty looks and an attitude at my wedding. BTW SIL and I are REALLY close and I told my friend to stop but she just kept on going and going with it. If she can't fake it when I faked it in her BP then she's not a true friend anyway!

I don't talk to her, blocked her 'my husband is better then anyone else's' fb status', and I haven't seen her since the wedding BUT she's still part of my group so I can't tell her to go F herself and that DH HATES her and her husband!

Another friend got mad at me because she wasn't a bridesmaid and then didn't come to my bridal shower because she went to Belmont Stakes for some drinking and drunkingness! I called her out on it and she told me 'I don't have time for this'. Haven't really spoken to her since either.

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I just dont talk to ppl that didnt come to the wedding.
one 'friend' from college didnt come eventho I came to hers - dont talk to her, really couldnt care less.

I dont really talk to one of my bff's - she didnt make any effort to come, or do anything due to reasons I wont go into here, but still it hurt cause we were like sisters. I am really sad but feel that this growing apart thing was happening before the actual wedding planning or getting engaged.

DH lost his bf - the guy said he will come for over a yr then as the invites went out he wrote an email saying due to work scheduling he cant come. oh and get this! DH invited the guy's ex wife AFTER the guy said he cant come (he asked DH from the beginning not to invite her due to his current wife coming w/him) he found out about her invite and wrote a VERY rude email to DH saying how dare he invite her I was shocked
also DH's friend from when they were 5-6 yrs old just sent a no RSVP no explanation no nothing

Re: Radom Poll regarding friends

I wouldn't say I lost any friends but it'll make me think twice before going out of my way for certain people.

Although in the end I probably would.