UPDATED w/compare pic -Someone who calls you FAT

and you get soo mad that you eat more b/c of it and than you get b/c u ate more.. even though you gain alittle that you could take off!

just curious

ETA: Pic at end

um, yeah....

story of my life, particularly as a child and teenager.

fuuuuuuck THEM

I seriously just did this to that cake that was in my freezer

now I want to just purge



depression much
I WILL BLAME PMS

someone called you fat????

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Posted by SylvieB

someone called you fat????

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yes and also said I could never fit back into my wedding dress if I wanted to

but they said it behind my back. ... unfourtnatly I still found out -unbenounced to that person. Although - I am sure they wouldn't care if I knew anyway - that is how this person rolls

honestly, I think I can still fit in my dress Maybe it would be tight around my L VE belly though

i have a recent story to share.


Friday at BIL's birthday party I hear BIL talking to someone and saying 'looks like she gained weight, you have to be careful with that bc she is at the age where her metabolism is slowing down and she will just get bigger'

I turn around and see BIL talking to DH ABOUT ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

DH just walked away from his DRUNK STUPID brother at that moment - he keeps denying that it was about me that it was about someone else but he cant remember who - um yeah you would remember something like that

I have been a mess ever since i dont know what to do with myself, i gained 10-15 pounds since the wedding and I am so depressed about it and now i dont even want to be in the same room as BIL bc he thinks i am fat

sorry to highjack, i should have just given hugs but you hit a nerve

you met my mom???

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Posted by davenjess

you met my mom???

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Does she really do that to you?? i think youre beautiful Jess.

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Posted by Songstress

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Posted by davenjess

you met my mom???

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Does she really do that to you?? i think youre beautiful Jess.

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every day of my life - which is probably why i have such terrible self-esteem issues.. I know she's projecting onto me - but still...that doesn't make the 10 year old girl inside me feel any better!!!

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Posted by davenjess

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Posted by Songstress

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Posted by davenjess

you met my mom???

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Does she really do that to you?? i think youre beautiful Jess.

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every day of my life - which is probably why i have such terrible self-esteem issues.. I know she's projecting onto me - but still...that doesn't make the 10 year old girl inside me feel any better!!!

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My mother does it sometimes. She picks up her glasses and looks at my butt to see if it got any bigger. It really annoys me. Its a terrible thing to do and I wont be doing that to my own child. Did you ever try telling you mom, 'IM HOT AND DAVE THINKS IM HOT TOO!' That might shut her up!

That's all you ate??? If this were me, it would be almost half gone!!

But

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Posted by ant n tilde



i have a recent story to share.


Friday at BIL's birthday party I hear BIL talking to someone and saying 'looks like she gained weight, you have to be careful with that bc she is at the age where her metabolism is slowing down and she will just get bigger'

I turn around and see BIL talking to DH ABOUT ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

DH just walked away from his DRUNK STUPID brother at that moment - he keeps denying that it was about me that it was about someone else but he cant remember who - um yeah you would remember something like that

I have been a mess ever since i dont know what to do with myself, i gained 10-15 pounds since the wedding and I am so depressed about it and now i dont even want to be in the same room as BIL bc he thinks i am fat

sorry to highjack, i should have just given hugs but you hit a nerve

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owwwfa.... our IN law members should get together.

I was soo upset.. I was like for 2 days..
It hit a nearve b/c it is somewhat true but it was extreme what was said..funny thing is I just want to eat now or starve I am not sure which..

Thanks for the 's thou

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Posted by Songstress

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Posted by davenjess

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Posted by Songstress

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Posted by davenjess

you met my mom???

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Does she really do that to you?? i think youre beautiful Jess.

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every day of my life - which is probably why i have such terrible self-esteem issues.. I know she's projecting onto me - but still...that doesn't make the 10 year old girl inside me feel any better!!!

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My mother does it sometimes. She picks up her glasses and looks at my butt to see if it got any bigger. It really annoys me. Its a terrible thing to do and I wont be doing that to my own child. Did you ever try telling you mom, 'IM HOT AND DAVE THINKS IM HOT TOO!' That might shut her up!

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i wish i thought i was - but nopers... I did tell her that once - that Dave likes me just the way i am and to stop it. I think it has improved since then...

it's just something she has ALWAYS done - and she used to do it to my sil too...who's skinnier than ANYTHING!

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Posted by Songstress

Did someone call you fat? If so you should have taken that cake and shoved it in their face. And from the pictures I see of you, you can eat two of those cakes and still look like a hottie.

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YES

If I had the cake w/me and I herd it at the time I would have done that! I am not sure If I can afford 2 of those cakes .. but I would like to think soo.. I wish you were there to tell that person that.

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Posted by davenjess

you met my mom???

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sorry about your Mom's comments but no I am pretty sure it was not her

PS i just did some hip hop cardio and now I feel Fat, Sweaty AND Spastic I should have just eaten some cake!!!

whoever called you fat behind your back needs to get their head checked because firstly that is just such a rude thing to say and secondly because you are NOT fat at all!

My mom lets me know when ive gained weight sometimes but most of all i know myself when ive gained some weight so I can totally relate to how you feel about wanting to eat more when you feel heavier...ive been feeling that way all week and as a result eating nonstop

that just stinks sorry to hear- that has been the story of my life and I think it still sticks with me- screw them a$$holes! now who wants a brownie