and you get soo mad that you eat more b/c of it and than you get b/c u ate more.. even though you gain alittle that you could take off!
just curious
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ChristineAaron08
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People are just jerks!! Dont listen to them and dont let it get to you!
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someone called you fat????
yes and also said I could never fit back into my wedding dress if I wanted to
but they said it behind my back. ... unfourtnatly I still found out -unbenounced to that person. Although - I am sure they wouldn't care if I knew anyway - that is how this person rolls
honestly, I think I can still fit in my dress Maybe it would be tight around my L VE belly though
What an @ss!! Seriously, don't let it get to you. People get jealous and hate- your beautiful- you know that!!
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Wow...that is so wrong! You are gorgeous and NOT fat! Whoever said that must be an ugly jealous fat biotch!
PS - I would have done the same and ate every piece of chocolate in site!
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someone called you fat????
yes and also said I could never fit back into my wedding dress if I wanted to
but they said it behind my back. ... unfourtnatly I still found out -unbenounced to that person. Although - I am sure they wouldn't care if I knew anyway - that is how this person rolls
honestly, I think I can still fit in my dress Maybe it would be tight around my L VE belly though
What an @ss!! Seriously, don't let it get to you. People get jealous and hate- your beautiful- you know that!!
Honestly - I don't think I am beautiful I think it is more important to be shinning from within.. I don't feel i am this untouchable thing that is soo beaute' worthy that others should be that jealous to attack me I don't think i am that great. so than to me why pick on me
I guess I am most most worst enemy..and if someone has it out for u for whatever the reason the minute you fall out of the 'expectations' you will be talked about.
I can't even belive i am venting about this.. soo dorky. I just got hurt and I was wondering if everyone does the worst thing to themselves and starts eating b/c who cares you FAT now anyway.. right
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I too have a fat story to share that I will chalk up to PMS... I've been trying to tone up lately to prepare for some B-pics I'm *hopefully* taking in August. However, I am pms-ing and felt the need to have something a lil sweet. So I announce to DH, 'Hey, I think I'll have that Flying Saucer in the freezer.' He replies with, 'Well, don't complain to me when you don't lose the weight you want'. With that comment, I proceeded to open up the sliding screen door and throw the effin Flying Saucer as hard as I could at the shed in the yard. After, I turned to DH and said, 'You're lucky I didn't chuck the damn thing at your head!!' Ahh, PMS... I heart you so....
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I seriously just did this to that cake that was in my freezer
now I want to just purge
depression much I WILL BLAME PMS
Girl, this is my favorite cake ever!!!!
who ever this person is, they are insane .... and definitely jealous!!!!!!!!!!!! how dare they!!
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ahhh....my Dad's nickname for me when i was in 4th grade was 'Chunky'......then i started dieting in 9th grade & he told me I was anorexic (which i was very close to)....oh the years of therapy i probably should've had... Now i value my self worth on me...not my pants size...don't let it get to you!!!!
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ok I just had to do this to show.. granted the wedding pic is blurry and all my pix are low res. due b/c the photographer has not given high yet.
This is from a random at the wedding.. the current pic of me is just last week at Jones Beach John Mayer Concert. I put them back to back to compare and circled the fat on me
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It sounds like you were talking to my sister!!! She dropped little hints before my wedding, like 'your going to eat that, it has sugar in it'. Who ever said that has got to be jealous and insecure about themselves.
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Where is the fat ???? Your one hot Momma !!
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Where is the fat ???? Your one hot Momma !!
seriously right? I tried to explain this to her!!!!!
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I too have a fat story to share that I will chalk up to PMS... I've been trying to tone up lately to prepare for some B-pics I'm *hopefully* taking in August. However, I am pms-ing and felt the need to have something a lil sweet. So I announce to DH, 'Hey, I think I'll have that Flying Saucer in the freezer.' He replies with, 'Well, don't complain to me when you don't lose the weight you want'. With that comment, I proceeded to open up the sliding screen door and throw the effin Flying Saucer as hard as I could at the shed in the yard. After, I turned to DH and said, 'You're lucky I didn't chuck the damn thing at your head!!' Ahh, PMS... I heart you so....
that is a great F in Story
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I too have a fat story to share that I will chalk up to PMS... I've been trying to tone up lately to prepare for some B-pics I'm *hopefully* taking in August. However, I am pms-ing and felt the need to have something a lil sweet. So I announce to DH, 'Hey, I think I'll have that Flying Saucer in the freezer.' He replies with, 'Well, don't complain to me when you don't lose the weight you want'. With that comment, I proceeded to open up the sliding screen door and throw the effin Flying Saucer as hard as I could at the shed in the yard. After, I turned to DH and said, 'You're lucky I didn't chuck the damn thing at your head!!' Ahh, PMS... I heart you so....
that is a great F in Story
I agree...hysterical story! My DH does that to me.....I will complain that my stomach feels large and bloated and then I will chow down on chocolate or beg for Dairy Queen or Baskin Robbins and he'll be like 'thought you were cutting back' LOL! I am but I just have to divulge like at least once a week!
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You are toooo funny with your before and after pics! Hmmm I definitely find myself doing this sometimes!!!! My before and after honeymoon pics are scarrry! LOL
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Okay you are a crazy person. In the second picture your arm is against your body - that is a photo no-no, always hold it out a little bit like in the wedding photo bc even if you weigh 80 lbs that will flatten your arm against your body and make it look wider.
And as for the 'belly' looks like it was the shirt - it isnt flat against your body. . .
you aren't fat even a little bit!!!! I dont care what you say - i think you look FABULOUS!
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you met my mom???
Maybe your mom and mine are related.
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Fat story that I think will make everyone feel better:
There is a Dunkin Donuts across the street from my job where I would go with some co-workers to grab a cup of coffee in the afternoon.
We go in, we're having some random conversation (might have mentioned someone being pregnat) and the woman who I THINK is the manager there and would make my coffee everyday turns to me IN FRONT OF EVERYONE and says:
'you're getting fat!'
I said EXCUSE ME?????
'yea you know fat (makes motions with her arms out to the sides to indicate my horizontal growth and then repeats) fat!'
My co-workers and I kinda laughed it off at the time because it was so unbelieveably ridiculous but it hurt. Especially in front of them and the rest of the crowd in there at the time. I still have not returned to that Dunkin Donuts and probably never will. Yea okay so I put on a few since the wedding - i didn't need the random Dunkin Donuts lady to call me fat.
My esteem is STILL hurting from that.
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Posted by irishsweetheart
Fat story that I think will make everyone feel better:
There is a Dunkin Donuts across the street from my job where I would go with some co-workers to grab a cup of coffee in the afternoon.
We go in, we're having some random conversation (might have mentioned someone being pregnat) and the woman who I THINK is the manager there and would make my coffee everyday turns to me IN FRONT OF EVERYONE and says:
'you're getting fat!'
I said EXCUSE ME?????
'yea you know fat (makes motions with her arms out to the sides to indicate my horizontal growth and then repeats) fat!'
My co-workers and I kinda laughed it off at the time because it was so unbelieveably ridiculous but it hurt. Especially in front of them and the rest of the crowd in there at the time. I still have not returned to that Dunkin Donuts and probably never will. Yea okay so I put on a few since the wedding - i didn't need the random Dunkin Donuts lady to call me fat.
My esteem is STILL hurting from that.
omg huge ba11s! sorry
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Jenn you're on crack. if you're fat my @ss is the Grand canyon. You look the same. maybe you lost muscle tone-I did too since the wedding cause I got injured but its nto FAT-you'll get it back if you go to the gym. I was reading through the whole thread to see if Iwas missing something but nope..definetly on crack. You're gorgeous. Go eat cake.
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Jenn you're on crack. if you're fat my @ss is the Grand canyon. You look the same. maybe you lost muscle tone-I did too since the wedding cause I got injured but its nto FAT-you'll get it back if you go to the gym. I was reading through the whole thread to see if Iwas missing something but nope..definetly on crack. You're gorgeous. Go eat cake.
i agree!! lol. i went through this thread TWICE....honestly jenn, i think u look fabulous..i wouldn't say anything if i didn't think so. I know we're our own worst critics, but realize how gorgous u are and don't give a sh*T about what other people say. YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL..and this thread makes me sad