UPDATED w/compare pic -Someone who calls you FAT

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Posted by GinaZ

Why are there like 3 posts every week from someone being called fat? What the heck is going on? When did it become okay to tell someone they are fat or to talk to other people about someone else's weight???? I just dont get it.


You are not fat. Please try to not let it get to you. be happy with who you are and how you look cus you are awesome!

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i completely agree with this! i've been noticing that lately people really seem to enjoy putting other people down. when people ask me 'how's married life (i HATE this question)?' and i reply 'it's great', it's always met with 'well, that's because it hasn't been that long' or ' wait till you're married a few more years' i mean, why do people feel the need to say these things?

i honestly cannot for the life of me believe that someone called YOU fat. that person obviously needs a reality check or a sandwich

u look fantastic and shouldnt let anyone else tell otherwise

I guess this is why people think its okay. Because magazines are always picking on extremely thin celebrities who gained 1/2 a pound. Ummm hello- who cares if Eva Longoria gained a pound. Does it really need to be pointed out to the public? Its RUDE and not okay. Im so angry.

ETA: according to the artical she did gain weight on purpose, but i feel like they are implying she has gotten fat- which she obviously hasn't. And its like the whole Jennifer Love Hewitt and Tyra Banks things that happened where they were called fat. I think all this celebrity obsession has made people think differently about their manners.

Eva

I don't know who to comment to first or quote they were all just great words of advise and really funny too

Ok - well for the record the person that said I got soooo FAT and that I could never fit back in my gown even if I tried did not say it to my face. Infact I don't think that individual would ever say it to my face but they also would not care that I learned about it as I said in a previous post.

All the things said about this person are probably true from previous posters..insecure , low self esteem blah blah.
that is all very apparent to me. I know why it was done - it just doesn't hurt any less esp b/c it is true I did put on the weight I am not proud of thatI guess it hit a nerve.

This individual was about my weight now and in the last 3 months 20 or 15lbs was lost - so I guess now it is clearly o.k to attack others weight issues I know better to not let stuff like this get to me.. b/c it was also said that they cannot wait for my marriage to fail or end up in divorce but yet you see that does not bother me b/c I know my life w/my husband and am confidant in that area.

I was thinking girls..
to get back in my dress on my 1 year anniversary get my hub to take pix of me eating cake with it all over me and send a blanket email - like I just can't get enuf of me in my dress 1 yr later!

That *&%*% can SUK it
or do I take the ladder and do NOTHING. just move on....

She can gain back the weight she lost very easily. You know the saying 'don't spit in the wind because it will hit you in the face'. I have another saying...misery loves company! You shouldn't even give her the satisfaction of knowing it upset you. And you fit in your dress just recently when you did that photo shoot! She's just jealous!

I could just slap you right now LOL..kidding of course Believe me you are NOT FAT! If you were I wouldnt have even responded to this thread...but since your not..I am. Girl..you are hot! Trust me

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Posted by gemmifer

ok I just had to do this to show.. granted the wedding pic is blurry and all my pix are low res. due b/c the photographer has not given high yet.

This is from a random at the wedding.. the current pic of me is just last week at Jones Beach John Mayer Concert.
I put them back to back to compare and circled the fat on me

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Hold on...let me go get my magnifying glass so I could see your fat. Come over to my house....I'll make you fat! Just ask my DH...you should see how much weight I've packed on him in 3 months!

Yep. My whole life.

Just ignore that person. They aren't worth getting aggravated over.

Yeah I agree to ignore her...but what a real wennch she is! People have some nerve.

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Posted by bettybcafe82

I could just slap you right now

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OOH I needed that! now

I have been soo bad.. eating more.. since the post.. more cake and oreo ice cream ( what a head trip I went on)

I have to get back to a healthy lifestyle and just indulge once in awhile..
Celery diet .. here we come again


Thanks to all again for your kind words..
btw -the person that said it is just in thier own 'HELL' and I need to focus power on that..

Just some insite laides - My life is leave it to beaver next to their BS on a day to day basis . - I feel better tonight and I only had a little bit of ice cream

Girlllllllllllllllllll you are NOT FATTTTTT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That person is a jealous biotch and is leading a miserable life if they need to bring someone down like that! I saw your 'before/after' pics and you are nutso! If you are going to draw attention to anything- please circle your skinny legs that any girl would kill for! You truly have a knockout body and I will tell you that every day until it sticks in your head. I'm sorry that sad person had to try and knock you down like that- they just sound miserable and wanted to bring someone else to the place that they are at- pure misery.



BTW~~ I just ate half a funfetti cake- and it was great! So go eat your cake and oreo ice cream- and enjoy it!!!!