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aww your husband sounds like a real sweetie & very genuine- it sounds like he was done with her years ago- try not to worry

Your husband is a great Catch!!! She probably is alone for the holidays and was checking on him. Don't worry about it.. he handled it nicely, it is nice to know that you have him!!

She called, he told her all about YOU-safe to say she wont be calling again

she is probably just lonely and doesnt have anybody in her life so like alot of single people they think about those in their past since they have nothing going on. Its pathetic bc they broke up 5 years ago, give it up already and move on with your life. To her since there is nothing else real in her life, the past is what is real and she cant let go and holds onto it. People who call after such a long time out of nowhere are doing it for that reason, trying to reconnect with something they had.

I think sometimes its hard for them to grasp the idea of somebody they were with actually getting married and starting a new life and family with somebody else. Its like even when they are told they still cant believe it and to her 'HIS WIFE' seems like just this concept and not realizing that hey you are his freaking wife and more real than what he had with her. If she heard he was married then she should've left it alone and realize that when she is calling that guess what he lives with you and maybe its not the right thing to do. SOmetimes these single girls just dont get it, dont let it get to you.

Wow...what a sneaky biatch.
It sounds like your hubby took care of it though, so don't lose your trust to him or your confidence to her.

some girls are really sad thank god your hubby said the right things and she's probably sulking somewhere now. She sounds like a headcase

WTH is she calling for after she knows hes married...does she want to be his girl on the side ..stupid B*tch...ugh

ur DH seems very sweet... dont let it get two you!! just make sure he never calls her though!!...

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Posted by luvabul

WTH is she calling for after she knows hes married...does she want to be his girl on the side ..stupid B*tch...ugh

ur DH seems very sweet... dont let it get two you!! just make sure he never calls her though!!...

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she probably has nobody in her life that cares about her at the moment. I think sometimes these girls call just to talk to somebody they actually had something with and had feelings for them in the past, just to hear it. You know maybe talk about what they did have in the past, and how he used to feel about her. I think they are just desperate for some type of attention and just somebody that cares for them and when they dont currently have it, all they can do is look to the past when they did have it. She probably has no guy to call, or probably just a guy that doesnt take her seriously, and is sick of not having that real connection with anybody. SHe might not even still have strong feelings about him anymore, but just out of desperation is calling bc she is sad and lonely and wants some sort of connection at any cost.

Why do you think single people who go out and get drunk and emotional so MANY times end up calling their ex's lol.

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by luvabul

WTH is she calling for after she knows hes married...does she want to be his girl on the side ..stupid B*tch...ugh

ur DH seems very sweet... dont let it get two you!! just make sure he never calls her though!!...

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she probably has nobody in her life that cares about her at the moment. I think sometimes these girls call just to talk to somebody they actually had something with and had feelings for them in the past, just to hear it. You know maybe talk about what they did have in the past, and how he used to feel about her. I think they are just desperate for some type of attention and just somebody that cares for them and when they dont currently have it, all they can do is look to the past when they did have it. She probably has no guy to call, or probably just a guy that doesnt take her seriously, and is sick of not having that real connection with anybody. SHe might not even still have strong feelings about him anymore, but just out of desperation is calling bc she is sad and lonely and wants some sort of connection at any cost.

Why do you think single people who go out and get drunk and emotional so MANY times end up calling their ex's lol.

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i couldnt agree more... desperate times call for desperate measures

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Posted by GtBride

She went to an Ivy League school and now is a hairdresser in Virginia When DH asked how are you and whats going on? she never mentioned a significant other. I truly believe she called to see how he was doing and to see if he was still available. When DH told her no, he is married she said 'oh i hope your wife realized what a wonderful man your are' I am glad though when she found out he was married to ended the conversation right there. DH is a wonderful person and i am happy he handled it.

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yeah and after she hung up with your DH, she probably went on to call another ex

Closure - thats weird. If she was just calling to chat...also weird.

A few months ago one of my DH's ex called to chit chat. (She is married) and heard he got married. Totally weird right. He stayed in front of me the whole time they talked and it was pretty normal conversation. I think she talked to him again recently to tell him she was moving to Boston. Okkkkkk. But we are open with eachother and if I hear from an ex - I tell DH. I have an ex who always IM's me, he still likes me. I am like hellooo, I am married!

Dont worry tho, but let him know you are upset.

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Posted by Espo22

she is probably just lonely and doesnt have anybody in her life so like alot of single people they think about those in their past since they have nothing going on. Its pathetic bc they broke up 5 years ago, give it up already and move on with your life. To her since there is nothing else real in her life, the past is what is real and she cant let go and holds onto it. People who call after such a long time out of nowhere are doing it for that reason, trying to reconnect with something they had.

I think sometimes its hard for them to grasp the idea of somebody they were with actually getting married and starting a new life and family with somebody else. Its like even when they are told they still cant believe it and to her 'HIS WIFE' seems like just this concept and not realizing that hey you are his freaking wife and more real than what he had with her. If she heard he was married then she should've left it alone and realize that when she is calling that guess what he lives with you and maybe its not the right thing to do. SOmetimes these single girls just dont get it, dont let it get to you.

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ITA

oy VEY..i freakin' HATE girls (except u ladies of course )...seriously though..i can't wait for THOSE kind of girls to get married one day & realize how much stuff like that hurts & is just straight up uncalled for.

GOOD FOR UR HUBBY THOUGH! give him some extra lovin' tonight

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Posted by GtBride

I bet she did. She is probably really lonely for the holidays. I wish she had a salon in the area. i would go in and have her do my hair and talk about DH and then at the end show her wedding photos

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OMG YES!!!! you brought up the greatest point. The holidays are the one time singles really feel all alone and sad. Even dh used to say when he was single, he loved his life but the holidays he always felt down and lonely. SO you got your answer right there.