152 poeple haven't rsvp

Original post by Smde39

May 20, 2008 10:42 PM

Ok so today was my rsvp due date and I still need to hear from 152 poeple. This is so frustrating. why dont people send them back...
When should I start calling peopel.

out of 285 invited we got 102 yes 31 no

has this happened to anyone else

debismom Posted: May 21, 2008 11:45 AM

Re: 152 poeple haven't rsvp

Posted by jonsgirl04

Hi Date twin!! Iam in the same boat as you. My due date was the 15th. ANd Iam missing so many people. Everyone is telling me its because we picked the 4th! Iam so ticked off at everyone. As it looks right now we need to come up with 40 more people since we guaranteed 150. This has been the most frustrating thing yet.

Stephanie, Deb and Fred are responsible for 100, and only have 60+ because of missing RSVP's. Mary MOB

BarbieGrl10 Posted: May 21, 2008 11:47 AM

Re: 152 poeple haven't rsvp

I would wait a week and then start calling.

flairforfashion Posted: May 21, 2008 12:19 PM

Re: 152 poeple haven't rsvp

Posted by nycgirl79

For some reason the concept of an rsvp date is beyond most people. We had the same thing happen to us - though definitely not as bad as you. We actually got a few rsvps after we were already married!

OMG, people wait that LONG??????

Wedding999 Posted: May 21, 2008 12:33 PM

Re: 152 poeple haven't rsvp

Just to let you know - a couple of people werent sending mine back because they were waiting to get 1 cent stamps

But i put forever stamps on the responses

And they said 'whats a forever stamp?'

dante31300 Posted: May 21, 2008 05:01 PM

Re: 152 poeple haven't rsvp

Unfortunately date twin I am in the same predicament. We invited 224 and have received 79 yes and 8 no's so far.Our RSVP date was May 19th I am going to give them until after Memorial Day and then I will be making calls. I would give it a week before I started calling but you will defintiely have to call people some people put it away and don't think about it until the week of the wedding.

SummerBride10 Posted: May 21, 2008 05:16 PM

Re: 152 poeple haven't rsvp

Maybe (so you don't seem pushy) you can have mutual friends, family members close to them, etc., ask casually (even if its by email) if they are attending/have they RSVP'd yet?

Smde39 Posted: May 21, 2008 07:22 PM

Re: 152 poeple haven't rsvp

Posted by jonsgirl04

Hi Date twin!! Iam in the same boat as you. My due date was the 15th. ANd Iam missing so many people. Everyone is telling me its because we picked the 4th! Iam so ticked off at everyone. As it looks right now we need to come up with 40 more people since we guaranteed 150. This has been the most frustrating thing yet.

yay Date twin.....
I know. I think its the 4th is a bad excuse. Eather you know by now if you are going away or you should come to my wedding. What else do they have to do besides go to a bbq

Smde39 Posted: May 21, 2008 07:25 PM

Re: 152 poeple haven't rsvp

Posted by dante31300

Unfortunately date twin I am in the same predicament. We invited 224 and have received 79 yes and 8 no's so far.Our RSVP date was May 19th I am going to give them until after Memorial Day and then I will be making calls. I would give it a week before I started calling but you will defintiely have to call people some people put it away and don't think about it until the week of the wedding.

So 4th of july girls are all having the same problem. I hope we all get some rsvp's soon

irishgrl1017 Posted: May 21, 2008 07:49 PM

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I have one week left and 75 still out there somewhere in the mail...or on someones desk!

debismom Posted: May 22, 2008 03:00 AM

Re: 152 poeple haven't rsvp

Posted by Cindyrella

Just to let you know - a couple of people werent sending mine back because they were waiting to get 1 cent stamps

But i put forever stamps on the responses

And they said 'whats a forever stamp?'

Oh, my!!!!!!! Deb used Forever Stamps too!!!!! Mary MOB