2 days to go, I promise not to stress out

AmyKay Posted: Mar 20, 2003 06:38 AM

2 days to go, I promise not to stress out

Can't sleep, dad is mad at best man (who is FH uncle) and FH cause he was not invited to the BP, bestfriend from AZ called to tell me they are sick and can't fly (Bull****), we are at war, need to find two people to attend the wedding last minute, I have a full day of work today, it better not rain this weekend..... I just feel like crying and don't want to go to work

Slept well last night Have a 1/2 day of work today getting a facial this afternoon Going to get my summer clothes out of the closet, having a mini BP tonight - going out to dinner with SIL, MOH, and a few cousins
Still need to find two fill in guests, that is a hard thing to ask someone
Thanks again for all the support!!!

wacky Posted: Mar 20, 2003 06:54 AM

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christy Posted: Mar 20, 2003 06:55 AM

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amy,
can you stay home from work, and just take some time to relax? It will all work out. You have planned so much, dont let other peoples issues affect your joy. You will be marrying the man of your dreams soon. Focus on that and smile. Let other people worry for you right now.

-Christy

IrishTracy Posted: Mar 20, 2003 07:17 AM

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Your day will be perfect!!!! REALX!!!

jennbaby Posted: Mar 20, 2003 07:17 AM

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I feel for you, can you stay home?

allure Posted: Mar 20, 2003 07:24 AM

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Try to focus on you and what you need to do your day will be wonderful

karenJ Posted: Mar 20, 2003 07:29 AM

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Just think about all the months of planning. You deserve to enjoy the time now. Everything will be great. Can't wait to hear your review!!!

Karen

starhead Posted: Mar 20, 2003 08:40 AM

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I feel your pain, I'm 9 days away and feel like I woke up to reality - that I have no idea whether or not I've done everything I need to do!!
And now we're at war to top it all off.

Fran M Posted: Mar 20, 2003 09:32 AM

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Amy
I remember the feeling well. I was married Sept 14, 2001. We didnt know what to do, some people could not make it, everyone was in shock etc.

Everything worked out better than I could have imagined. Our reception was at Watermill. You have nothing to worry about as far as they are concerned. They are true professionals. Your dress is beautiful, you picked a great photographer now all you have to do is get there. Try to relax and enjoy the next few days. Dont dwell on the negative try to focus on all of the positive. Like the wonderful future you and you FI will have together.
Fran

Misty Posted: Mar 20, 2003 10:53 AM

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Amy...I have to agree with everything Fran said. I attended a wedding on September 15, 2001, and it was by far the best wedding I had ever been to because of the complete stress release it was. Everyone had a fabulous time, and it was a great great day for everyone.

Please try not to stress to much...take a bubble bath tonight, light some candles....get to sleep early, and try to remember how special this day will be for you!

jillybean66 Posted: Mar 20, 2003 11:04 AM

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Try and relax - everything is going to be PERFECT on your day! Also, it is supposed to be BEAUTIFUL weather this weekend!!!!!! All the rain will be gone by tomorrow night!

kmcwed Posted: Mar 20, 2003 11:55 AM

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Definitely try to take it easy today. Maybe you can work half a day???

Everything will go as planned, I'm sure. I also think the rain is supposed to end Friday morning, so try not to worry about it. I know its hard!! Remember that you're not aiming for a PERFECT day, because no one ever has a perfect anything! It only makes you feel stressed. Just aim for a wonderful day of happiness, love and celebration. Think of your FHs face when he sees you for the first time that day. Think of WHY you are getting married in the first place. And remember, in 5-10 years, will it really matter if it rained or if the limo was late, or if the flowers drooped? NOPE! What will matter is that you married your FH and started a life together.

Breathe.......

Have a great wedding!

KarenM

112903 Posted: Mar 20, 2003 09:49 PM

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AMy You have a lovely day!!! Enjoy it , don't let anyone or anything get you down!!!

allure Posted: Mar 20, 2003 09:56 PM

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Looks like you will have beautiful weather have a wonderful day

AmyKay Posted: Mar 20, 2003 10:03 PM

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thank you everyone!!!!! I worked a full day But everyone at work let me get some of my stress out.
Best friend from AZ called, she spoke to my FH - the real reason they are not coming out is because of the fear of flying because of the war.

I picked my dress up tonight, it took me 2 1/2 hours because of the rain, it should of taken 1 1/2 hours. But the dress is great!!! I can't wait to wear it!!!!!

Thanks again, I knew you would ALL understand