A little upset with posts.

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Posted by MichJhovi

I thought the point of this board was to help eachother? I think it is extremely rude and inconsiderate for some to bash venues/vendors the way I have read recently. I think it is sufficient to simply state why you don't like a particular vendor. I don't think there is a need to be rude or nasty. To state that a venue (that a lot of brides on here have booked) is 'low end' or 'a wedding mill' is rude and definitely not appreciated.

I, personally, would never bash any venue/vendor on here out of the respect for others that may have booked it. I would just SIMPLY state if I liked the venue or not. I think opinions can easily go from being helpful to being rude. JMO

I please ask for posters to be a little more considerate with their posts. Please consider how you would feel if you read nasty posts about your own venue. This site should be helpful not hurtful.Thanks for reading.

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by MichJhovi

I thought the point of this board was to help eachother? I think it is extremely rude and inconsiderate for some to bash venues/vendors the way I have read recently. I think it is sufficient to simply state why you don't like a particular vendor. I don't think there is a need to be rude or nasty. To state that a venue (that a lot of brides on here have booked) is 'low end' or 'a wedding mill' is rude and definitely not appreciated.

I, personally, would never bash any venue/vendor on here out of the respect for others that may have booked it. I would just SIMPLY state if I liked the venue or not. I think opinions can easily go from being helpful to being rude. JMO

I please ask for posters to be a little more considerate with their posts. Please consider how you would feel if you read nasty posts about your own venue. This site should be helpful not hurtful.Thanks for reading.

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ahhhh i know what youre talking about and i saw it and wanted to say something but i kept my mouth shut this time bc sometims i say it too often. I remember reading that post and thinking 'ugh i hope no CHCC brides read this, they will be so hurt'

dont listen, and sorry you had to hear that when it comes down to it, somebody can have something negative to say about any RH there is. NO RH is without faults, or not somebodies taste, we all are different.

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by MichJhovi

I thought the point of this board was to help eachother? I think it is extremely rude and inconsiderate for some to bash venues/vendors the way I have read recently. I think it is sufficient to simply state why you don't like a particular vendor. I don't think there is a need to be rude or nasty. To state that a venue (that a lot of brides on here have booked) is 'low end' or 'a wedding mill' is rude and definitely not appreciated.

I, personally, would never bash any venue/vendor on here out of the respect for others that may have booked it. I would just SIMPLY state if I liked the venue or not. I think opinions can easily go from being helpful to being rude. JMO

I please ask for posters to be a little more considerate with their posts. Please consider how you would feel if you read nasty posts about your own venue. This site should be helpful not hurtful.Thanks for reading.

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ahhhh i know what youre talking about and i saw it and wanted to say something but i kept my mouth shut this time bc sometims i say it too often. I remember reading that post and thinking 'ugh i hope no CHCC brides read this, they will be so hurt'

dont listen, and sorry you had to hear that when it comes down to it, somebody can have something negative to say about any RH there is. NO RH is without faults, or not somebodies taste, we all are different.

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Posted by MitziandAndrew

I appreciate your input. Thank you. As far as venting...I have to say Most of the time brides only understand other brides. Perhaps we can all put a mad emote-con on our thread subjects if we are going to say something that might not be pleasurable to some. From there it's a choice if you want to open the thread and read it. I have no problems with brides posting their experiences whether it be bad or good. But I agree that is might be hurtful to call some vendors 'low-end'. Everyone has a wedding they can afford. Big or small, a wedding is beautiful when love is involved! JMO

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Posted by lori7570

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by MichJhovi

I thought the point of this board was to help eachother? I think it is extremely rude and inconsiderate for some to bash venues/vendors the way I have read recently. I think it is sufficient to simply state why you don't like a particular vendor. I don't think there is a need to be rude or nasty. To state that a venue (that a lot of brides on here have booked) is 'low end' or 'a wedding mill' is rude and definitely not appreciated.

I, personally, would never bash any venue/vendor on here out of the respect for others that may have booked it. I would just SIMPLY state if I liked the venue or not. I think opinions can easily go from being helpful to being rude. JMO

I please ask for posters to be a little more considerate with their posts. Please consider how you would feel if you read nasty posts about your own venue. This site should be helpful not hurtful.Thanks for reading.

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ahhhh i know what youre talking about and i saw it and wanted to say something but i kept my mouth shut this time bc sometims i say it too often. I remember reading that post and thinking 'ugh i hope no CHCC brides read this, they will be so hurt'

dont listen, and sorry you had to hear that when it comes down to it, somebody can have something negative to say about any RH there is. NO RH is without faults, or not somebodies taste, we all are different.

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I was very hurt to be honest with you....

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by MitziandAndrew

I appreciate your input. Thank you. As far as venting...I have to say Most of the time brides only understand other brides. Perhaps we can all put a mad emote-con on our thread subjects if we are going to say something that might not be pleasurable to some. From there it's a choice if you want to open the thread and read it. I have no problems with brides posting their experiences whether it be bad or good. But I agree that is might be hurtful to call some vendors 'low-end'. Everyone has a wedding they can afford. Big or small, a wedding is beautiful when love is involved! JMO

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yeah, its the way things are worded. Its one thing to say 'oh it wasnt what we were looking for' or maybe just not for us. But then to say its low end is bad. I dont think ppl have to pretend to like something but just common courtesy maybe. I mean hey we all have our opinions, and i def am opinionated lol but just have to watch how things areworded.

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by MitziandAndrew

I appreciate your input. Thank you. As far as venting...I have to say Most of the time brides only understand other brides. Perhaps we can all put a mad emote-con on our thread subjects if we are going to say something that might not be pleasurable to some. From there it's a choice if you want to open the thread and read it. I have no problems with brides posting their experiences whether it be bad or good. But I agree that is might be hurtful to call some vendors 'low-end'. Everyone has a wedding they can afford. Big or small, a wedding is beautiful when love is involved! JMO

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yeah, its the way things are worded. Its one thing to say 'oh it wasnt what we were looking for' or maybe just not for us. But then to say its low end is bad. I dont think ppl have to pretend to like something but just common courtesy maybe. I mean hey we all have our opinions, and i def am opinionated lol but just have to watch how things areworded.

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Posted by lori7570

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by MichJhovi

I thought the point of this board was to help eachother? I think it is extremely rude and inconsiderate for some to bash venues/vendors the way I have read recently. I think it is sufficient to simply state why you don't like a particular vendor. I don't think there is a need to be rude or nasty. To state that a venue (that a lot of brides on here have booked) is 'low end' or 'a wedding mill' is rude and definitely not appreciated.

I, personally, would never bash any venue/vendor on here out of the respect for others that may have booked it. I would just SIMPLY state if I liked the venue or not. I think opinions can easily go from being helpful to being rude. JMO

I please ask for posters to be a little more considerate with their posts. Please consider how you would feel if you read nasty posts about your own venue. This site should be helpful not hurtful.Thanks for reading.

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ahhhh i know what youre talking about and i saw it and wanted to say something but i kept my mouth shut this time bc sometims i say it too often. I remember reading that post and thinking 'ugh i hope no CHCC brides read this, they will be so hurt'

dont listen, and sorry you had to hear that when it comes down to it, somebody can have something negative to say about any RH there is. NO RH is without faults, or not somebodies taste, we all are different.

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I was very hurt to be honest with you....

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by MitziandAndrew

I appreciate your input. Thank you. As far as venting...I have to say Most of the time brides only understand other brides. Perhaps we can all put a mad emote-con on our thread subjects if we are going to say something that might not be pleasurable to some. From there it's a choice if you want to open the thread and read it. I have no problems with brides posting their experiences whether it be bad or good. But I agree that is might be hurtful to call some vendors 'low-end'. Everyone has a wedding they can afford. Big or small, a wedding is beautiful when love is involved! JMO

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yeah, its the way things are worded. Its one thing to say 'oh it wasnt what we were looking for' or maybe just not for us. But then to say its low end is bad. I dont think ppl have to pretend to like something but just common courtesy maybe. I mean hey we all have our opinions, and i def am opinionated lol but just have to watch how things areworded.

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Posted by MichJhovi

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Posted by lori7570

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by MichJhovi

I thought the point of this board was to help eachother? I think it is extremely rude and inconsiderate for some to bash venues/vendors the way I have read recently. I think it is sufficient to simply state why you don't like a particular vendor. I don't think there is a need to be rude or nasty. To state that a venue (that a lot of brides on here have booked) is 'low end' or 'a wedding mill' is rude and definitely not appreciated.

I, personally, would never bash any venue/vendor on here out of the respect for others that may have booked it. I would just SIMPLY state if I liked the venue or not. I think opinions can easily go from being helpful to being rude. JMO

I please ask for posters to be a little more considerate with their posts. Please consider how you would feel if you read nasty posts about your own venue. This site should be helpful not hurtful.Thanks for reading.

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ahhhh i know what youre talking about and i saw it and wanted to say something but i kept my mouth shut this time bc sometims i say it too often. I remember reading that post and thinking 'ugh i hope no CHCC brides read this, they will be so hurt'

dont listen, and sorry you had to hear that when it comes down to it, somebody can have something negative to say about any RH there is. NO RH is without faults, or not somebodies taste, we all are different.

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I was very hurt to be honest with you....

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To make you feel better... search it through Brides Review and read from actual brides that have had there wedding there. I've never heard a bad review before today... so try not to let it bother you.

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Posted by lori7570

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Posted by MichJhovi

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Posted by lori7570

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by MichJhovi

I thought the point of this board was to help eachother? I think it is extremely rude and inconsiderate for some to bash venues/vendors the way I have read recently. I think it is sufficient to simply state why you don't like a particular vendor. I don't think there is a need to be rude or nasty. To state that a venue (that a lot of brides on here have booked) is 'low end' or 'a wedding mill' is rude and definitely not appreciated.

I, personally, would never bash any venue/vendor on here out of the respect for others that may have booked it. I would just SIMPLY state if I liked the venue or not. I think opinions can easily go from being helpful to being rude. JMO

I please ask for posters to be a little more considerate with their posts. Please consider how you would feel if you read nasty posts about your own venue. This site should be helpful not hurtful.Thanks for reading.

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ahhhh i know what youre talking about and i saw it and wanted to say something but i kept my mouth shut this time bc sometims i say it too often. I remember reading that post and thinking 'ugh i hope no CHCC brides read this, they will be so hurt'

dont listen, and sorry you had to hear that when it comes down to it, somebody can have something negative to say about any RH there is. NO RH is without faults, or not somebodies taste, we all are different.

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I was very hurt to be honest with you....

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To make you feel better... search it through Brides Review and read from actual brides that have had there wedding there. I've never heard a bad review before today... so try not to let it bother you.

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I agree...I've never heard anything bad either...and the condescending and nasty way it came out was what hurt me...I love this site and I'm very supportive...I would just like the same respect back....thankfully 99.9999999% of the people on this site are awesome!!!

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by MitziandAndrew

I appreciate your input. Thank you. As far as venting...I have to say Most of the time brides only understand other brides. Perhaps we can all put a mad emote-con on our thread subjects if we are going to say something that might not be pleasurable to some. From there it's a choice if you want to open the thread and read it. I have no problems with brides posting their experiences whether it be bad or good. But I agree that is might be hurtful to call some vendors 'low-end'. Everyone has a wedding they can afford. Big or small, a wedding is beautiful when love is involved! JMO

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i think this would be the best idea--because as hurt as i could be if someone started saying bad things about my rh, i also looked here to see if there were bad things before i booked--because i wanted to know not just the good things, but the problems as well--i even called someone i knew before i put my deposit down and specifically asked what problems they had when they had their reception