I thought the point of this board was to help eachother? I think it is extremely rude and inconsiderate for some to bash venues/vendors the way I have read recently. I think it is sufficient to simply state why you don't like a particular vendor. I don't think there is a need to be rude or nasty. To state that a venue (that a lot of brides on here have booked) is 'low end' or 'a wedding mill' is rude and definitely not appreciated.
I, personally, would never bash any venue/vendor on here out of the respect for others that may have booked it. I would just SIMPLY state if I liked the venue or not. I think opinions can easily go from being helpful to being rude. JMO
I please ask for posters to be a little more considerate with their posts. Please consider how you would feel if you read nasty posts about your own venue. This site should be helpful not hurtful.Thanks for reading.
JamDancer
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People forget how many people read these posts, to give her the benefit of the doubt, she probably wrote that without really thinking about it.
When I have something to say like that I will FM the person asking for opinions, I don't want to hurt feelings!
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Posted by MichJhovi
I thought the point of this board was to help eachother? I think it is extremely rude and inconsiderate for some to bash venues/vendors the way I have read recently. I think it is sufficient to simply state why you don't like a particular vendor. I don't think there is a need to be rude or nasty. To state that a venue (that a lot of brides on here have booked) is 'low end' or 'a wedding mill' is rude and definitely not appreciated.
I, personally, would never bash any venue/vendor on here out of the respect for others that may have booked it. I would just SIMPLY state if I liked the venue or not. I think opinions can easily go from being helpful to being rude. JMO
I please ask for posters to be a little more considerate with their posts. Please consider how you would feel if you read nasty posts about your own venue. This site should be helpful not hurtful.Thanks for reading.
i totally agree with you as well. some people have been so rude that it's almost deflating when you read a comment on something you think is so exciting. :o(
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i'm glad you brought up this subject, and i'm sorry someone was so rude and inconsiderate to offend you about something so important!!
i was really hurt when i read someone bashing david's bridal dresses, that they're cheap and fall apart.. when i love my dress, i literally had tears in my eyes when i read that one. but people are dumb and don't think before they speak. i think it's ok to state your opinion in a tasteful manor, based on your own personal experience. don't let it get to you though!
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Please do not get upset by someone else's thoughtlessness. I remember when I first joined someone had written a very divaish post tearing my hall apart saying that it was 'rundown' when I think most people would agree that the rustic, country club feel of my hall is what appeals to a lot of the brides who get married there. I was upset by what the girl had said, but it doesn't make my hall any less special to me. I am sure you feel the same way about your hall. Some people are just lacking tact.
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I agree, I don't think that anyone should have anything negative to say about any other vendors or RH's. Brides are individuals and each person's wedding is going to be individual, unique and wonderful to them. Everyone has different ideas of what they want for their wedding, and I think it is quite disgusting that someone would belittle what others might like. Everyone's wedding is a reflection of who they are as a couple and that's what makes weddings so much fun, the uniqueness in everyone.
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where is this post?!?! that's terrible!!!! and i'm sorry you feel offended by this person! you are right, the purpose is to help one another constructively and positively... your day will be fabulous and amazing!!!
Deeglasser
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wow that was easy... i know EXACTLY what you are referring to, and if i were you i would be pissed off a little myself... don't feel like you have to defend yourself and the reasons why you chose your RH- it will be an amazing day for you and your FH and it is the perfect place for you!!! personally, one of the first wedding i had ever been to was the CHCC, and it was gorgeous... they got married xmas time and it was beautifully decorated and i remember having a great time!
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Posted by MichJhovi
I thought the point of this board was to help eachother? I think it is extremely rude and inconsiderate for some to bash venues/vendors the way I have read recently. I think it is sufficient to simply state why you don't like a particular vendor. I don't think there is a need to be rude or nasty. To state that a venue (that a lot of brides on here have booked) is 'low end' or 'a wedding mill' is rude and definitely not appreciated.
I, personally, would never bash any venue/vendor on here out of the respect for others that may have booked it. I would just SIMPLY state if I liked the venue or not. I think opinions can easily go from being helpful to being rude. JMO
I please ask for posters to be a little more considerate with their posts. Please consider how you would feel if you read nasty posts about your own venue. This site should be helpful not hurtful.Thanks for reading.
I just wanted to tell you that I think you are 100% right...I was shocked when I first came on about the way in which people posted such really offensive things...many times people are kind and will say 'You have FM' and send the person their TRUE feelings if asked for. I think it is in bad taste to call a place 'low end' and last time I checked EVERY catering hall is a wedding mill...hello they do weddings Dont sweat it hunnie your wedding will be beautiful
MikeandJess
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Do not stress this! I have read numerous mean comments about my hall and they all got me really upset but now that my wedding is over I realize how not worth it getting upset over this is. Some people don't have cruel intentions, they're just not very eloquent. Others need to put people down (or in this case their RH's) to make themselves feel superior. It's not worth your frustration, trust me, you're wedding will be beautiful.
Sweeteey51
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What happened? I thought Crest Hollow was nice.
MichJhovi
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Thank you to all that commented! THIS is what LIWEDDINGS is about and this is why I have been on here since Day 1 of my engagement. I hope this just gives us all a reminder of just how important posts are between each other. Thank you all for your thoughts, opinions, suggestion and for just caring enough to comment.
HUGS to ALL!!
FutureMrsC614
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I've got to say, I've never been to CHCC personally, but my dad is a DJ, and he's anal retentive/OCD, and he says that's one of the cleanest places, and has great food!! SO THERE :O)
twright5ny
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hmmm...what can I say without getting reprimended...
I am an 08 bride who ABSOLUTELY loved my wedding at Crest Hollow....I can give a rats a$$ what some women on here think....I had to learn to take peoples words with a grain of salt because some people have gotten 'Catty' or have just said really ignorant stuff without thinking about how it may hurt others. There really is a difference between giving feedback and being biased and disrespectful.
Don't ever regret the decision you have made...we were treated like royalty throughout the process and even more so on the day of our wedding...food was outstanding and service impeccable. ....I know people that had weddings at high end spots and paid LOTS of money and the service was crap and the place wasn't all that.
I don't often respond to things and tend to lay low but your post def. resignated things I have felt before so I had to repsond....best of luck and let me know if you need any other info.
