and so they are dropping like flies (bridesmaids)

Original post by InLuvWithMyBF

Jul 20, 2011 01:12 PM

my brother breaks up with his gf (pretty bad even her mother told him not to speak to her until they figure things out. shes not talking to me so yea its safe to say shes out)

My co-worker/ good friend just advised me she is unable to afford it and has been meaning to drop out but didnt know how to (which i completely understand. what kind of friend would i be if i got mad or upset)

my cousin in vegas is having a difficult time making decisions in general. her parents called me to tell me shes gained like 30 lbs and probably wont fit in the dress and doesnnt know if she will be able to make it

and finally

FH's brothers gf also a good friend of mine decided it be smart to book a conference with work the week of my wedding missing the rehearsal and not to sure if shes coming in sat the 29th or sunday morning of the wedding meaning shes not sure if she will be a bridesmaid (did i mention she and fh brother ae on the rocks too which im pretty sure tthats what this whole debacle is about)

oh boy! i might cry after this rant

macetona1 Posted: Jul 20, 2011 08:55 PM

Re: and so they are dropping like flies (bridesmaids)

That totally sucks. But it's better to know now that you still have some time to ask some other girls, than maybe them dropping like a month before. So, I think you will be fine. I know it's just extremely rude and hard after someone commits to then say no. But just breathe and you will be okay. I will pray that things will work out.