Anyone else not having a ring bearer?

nicopico13 Posted: Feb 17, 2008 11:57 PM

Anyone else not having a ring bearer?

We don't really have any little boys in the fam to be a ring bearer, but we are having two flower girls. People probably won't even notice, right?

lizzzie35 Posted: Feb 18, 2008 12:02 AM

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Posted by nicopico13

We don't really have any little boys in the fam to be a ring bearer, but we are having two flower girls. People probably won't even notice, right?

I think it's fine... they don't carry the real rings anyway. If FH didn't have 2 nephews or a niece, I'd have no FG or RBs.

panjay Posted: Feb 18, 2008 12:04 AM

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We're not having a ring bearer or a flower girl. We don't have any kids in the family who are young enough.

kimiequa Posted: Feb 18, 2008 01:14 AM

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i have actually never seen a ring bearer at any of the 10+ weddings i have been to! you'll be fine!!

bluegreen08 Posted: Feb 18, 2008 01:15 AM

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Posted by panjay

We're not having a ring bearer or a flower girl. We don't have any kids in the family who are young enough.

same with us. i'm a little sad but theres nothing we can do unless we rent a kid

yngcpl92203 Posted: Feb 18, 2008 01:49 AM

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We only have a flowergirl...no ring bearer here either.

Dreemer107 Posted: Feb 18, 2008 07:37 AM

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yup...only 1 FG for us..no boys young enough in either of our families..

fiore76 Posted: Feb 18, 2008 07:51 AM

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I think that is fine. My nephew/godson will be two when we get married, so I want him to be the ring bearer. We don't have any little girls in our families, so we will not be having a flower girl.

dazies1011 Posted: Feb 18, 2008 08:20 AM

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I'm not having one but, I will be having a flower girl.

MrsDtoBe09 Posted: Feb 18, 2008 08:23 AM

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I'm not having a ring bearer or a flower girl...the ring bearer doesnt carry the real ring so it shouldn't matter not having one.

Mrs B to Be Posted: Feb 18, 2008 08:59 AM

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most weddings i've gone to havnt had ring bearers only flowergirls.....i'm having 2 FGs and that it!

MaureenM618 Posted: Feb 18, 2008 09:26 AM

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I don't think I'll have a ring bearer. I do have 2 young nephews that can do it but we don't have any little girls that we are close to for a flowergirl. I also don't think I want any kids at my wedding. We'll see

mdawg Posted: Feb 18, 2008 09:35 AM

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2 things...

1. when i was engaged and planning, we werent having a ringbearer either. or at least, the traditional one. we were going to ask my best friends daughter to be the ring bearer.

and

2. that best friend that i speak of is getting married this Saturday, and shes not having a traditional ring bearer either. her FH has 2 little girl cousins, and my bff has her daughter, so her daughter is the flower girl, and one of his cousins is the ring bearer.

i think as long as you have the people you love there, nothing else should matter.

lookitscassie Posted: Feb 18, 2008 09:35 AM

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we're having a ringbearer - but not a Flower girl.

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted: Feb 18, 2008 10:54 AM

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we're not having a flower girl or ring bearer.... our nieces and nephews are gettin too old for that so we're making em jr bm's and jr gm instead!

no1 will notice nor care... its your wedding, do what you want

fallbride09 Posted: Feb 18, 2008 11:26 AM

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I'm not having a ring bearer or a flower girl. There are no kids in mine or FH family.

FutureMrsLehmann Posted: Feb 18, 2008 11:29 AM

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no one's going to care.

we're not having a FG or RB

meli722 Posted: Feb 18, 2008 11:31 AM

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im not having one

little34 Posted: Feb 18, 2008 11:40 AM

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We are not having any children in our wedding party...we didn't want any kids under 16 at the wedding but FMIL was against that.... but we are only having 2 BMs, 2 GM. 1 best man, and 1 MOH.

InezandBrody Posted: Feb 18, 2008 12:04 PM

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I'm not having one because we don't really have any little boys either. Though i'm thinking, and i know everyone is going to laugh, but having my little puppy go down with them on her back. She's a girl but i don't care. Though FH isn't really feeling it but we'll see!!!