Anyone else NOT having an engagement party?

I'm not. I'm afraid of adding more expenses to our already over budget wedding lol. Since most of my family lives out of town (lol for my JERSEY relatives NYC seems like another world!), and my parents live out of the country AND since we have such a SMALL group of REALLY close friends we didnt plan on doing one.
but now i kinda want to lol
maybe a small cookout at FH's Parent's house in the summer time?