Anyone feel like a GRIPE thread?!?!

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Posted by Goldi1021

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Posted by Jen2999

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Posted by Goldi1021

My gripe? I want bigger boobs. Simple, but valid.

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get pregnant lol

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As soon as Fred does, I will. OK???

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Unfortunately there will be no little fred's around...

I could do this too!!!!

Gripe 1:

One of my BMs hasn't even come to see me after my accident, which was in November. And I hadn't seen her since my E-Party Oct. 1st.... 6 Months!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And when she makes plans for us to get together, She Breaks them!!!!!!!!

Gripe 2:

FMIL thinks she can invite whoever she wants, and not even offer to contribute, when it's HER FRIENDS from work!!!!!!

Gripe 3:

Another BM has nothing nice to say about anything I do about my wedding... I show her everything I make, and she says 'it's okay....'


It's amazing how before you pick these people to be in your wedding, they are your friends.... But as soon as you need a little Support, Understanding, Help or just a PHONE CALL BACK, they are NO Where to Be found!!!!!!!!!!!


Do you think I'm Mad yet!!!!!

Gripe #1
I hate being sick.

Gripe #2
I hate my job.

Gripe #3
I don't want to print out my invite envelopes. Does someone want to do it for me?

We have 24 people unaccounted for as of today

My friend sent me pics of his son by e-mail and asked about the wedding planning. When I told him that we are still missing RSVP's and it was irritating since we need a final count for the hall payment (and I reminded him that HIS RSVP is missing) he still said that if he comes, he will be solo since his wife took off so much time with the baby that she has no more vacation time left.

Did I mentioned that he lives in TEXAS. And I found out this weekend at my shower that he showed up for a friends wedding in NYC last year and had NEVER sent in the RSVP

Who does that

#2
FH's aunt has started to invite her friends to the wedding. FH has not even attempted to tell her no but instead just tells me we need to add +1 for his aunt.....and now it's aunt +2 since she does not drive at night and this 3rd friend will drive her and friend 2 into Long Island.

My gripe today LOL
One of my FSIL is being difficult. When i first got engaged, she had just had two kids in row so i brought her first to try on and help me choose the BM dress so i knew she wold be comfotable in it (she had gained weight). Do you think she would be grateful for it? NOOOO So this weekend i bring her and my other FSIL to try on the dresses as they came in, and she wouldnt get out of the car, and she was bitchin the whole time and wouldn't even look at the dress after i brought it to the car for her. AND she called my other FSIL the night before to tell her she thought the dresses were going to be ugly and horrible (thank god they came out beautiful)!!! How dare she?? SHE PICKED THEM OUT! AUGHHH Thank god my other FSIL is a SAINT, she has been soo helpful and wonderful!!! :)

Here is my gripe for the day:

In middle of planning my cousins bridal shower and her FSIL is driving me up the wall! I didnt send invites to the bridal party, but i sent her one b/c she is a pain in the butt, since i had an extra, i just sent it to her at the last minute before i mailed all the invites. Her 16 year old daughter is in the bridal party as well, but since i was doing this at the last minute, i just threw the address label on with her FSIL name on it and not her daughter as well. I get a call from my cousins FH that his mother called him freaking out b/c 16 year old didnt get invited to the shower! She KNOWS her daughter is invited and has to cause trouble. Instead of calling me to question this, she has to cause drama, she isnt even returning my emails. Ask me if i really care.....

How's this for a gripe:

As a result of the long republican administration the not-for-profit agency I work for has suffered over $600,000 in budget cuts, which has resulted in working without a contract since 12/31/04, no raise since 7/1/04, 10 layoffs (plus an additional 5 spots through attrition) which cost me my secretary, and my paralegal (which means now I do both their jobs in addition to my own). If doing the work of three people wasn't enough, an attorney in my unit left 12/31/05 and I got all his child neglect cases, as well as all his major litigation cases, and TODAY yet another attorney in my unit gave notice. GUESS WHO IS GETTING HER CASES

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Posted by VadersBride2006

Yeah I have a BM gripe too. Only 2 of my BM's live on the island, so I don't have much of a support system right now. I was really counting on the 2 here to be there for me. Well, one of them is literaaly NEVER around. She doesn't return phone calls and if I happen to get her at home, she never has time to talk. I've talked to her twice in the past three months: the day after my son was born and she told me she was coming to the hospital to see us, and again to invite her daughter to my oldest son's birthday party. Both times I got the 'I'll be right over to see you' speech and both times she never showed up and didn't call.
So here we are the middle of March and not only is she no longer a BM, she's off the guest list as well.

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If you didn't say that she was off your list that was about to be a gripe for me!!!!

My gripe is
My fiance is driving me nuts and is acting like a woman!!!!!!! Why can't men multitask like we can???????

Tonight's gripe:

My MOH basically called me a bridezilla because I told her I was disappointed in that she dropped the ball with the shower which just got booked LAST WEEK!! And my father is telling me they better get a move on with invites to the shower because they have to give a head count on the 27th of this month. (I already know the shower is in early April)

Then learn today same MOH sent an unfriendly email to my sick mother about who is going to do what, even though I had sent 2 emails to her telling her which people to contact for help. She refuses to ask these people for help.

I am so tired of her crap. She refuses to just say that she screwed up, and instead has gotten defensive against me and my mother. My whole family knows that I'm right and that she phucked up. It will take all of my strength not to curse her out at my own shower, if there even is one considering they're waiting so long to do everything!!

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Posted by Goldi1021

My gripe? I want bigger boobs. Simple, but valid.

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HERE HERE!!!! LOL!!!

I'm in...

Gripe 1:
When FSIL and FMIL have some kind of a comment about everything we are doing with the wedding. From WHEN I ordered my dress, to what type of CPs, to STDs. GEEZ!

Gripe 2:
When my boss tells me that it is okay to do something one day and then the next day she completely negates everything she said I could do the day before. Then I have to start all over!! SO ANNOYING!!

yet another:

When my kids parents (my kids from work) call me and talk and talk and talk and talk and talk....ITS NEVER ENDING!!!! Say what you want to say and then SHUT UP!!! I GET YOUR POINT!!!!

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Posted by Goldi1021

My gripe? I want bigger boobs. Simple, but valid.

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I'll trade you I want smaller ones.

No gripes today but I'll post when ther eare some

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Posted by gina674

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Gripe 1:

One of my BMs hasn't even come to see me after my accident, which was in November. And I hadn't seen her since my E-Party Oct. 1st.... 6 Months!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And when she makes plans for us to get together, She Breaks them!!!!!!!!

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I made a rule: If I don't speak to someone within 6 months of the wedding, they are off the guest list! Of course this only applies to my friends, not family or guests of my parents or FIL's.

Oh i definately have a gripe!!!

Three months ago i ordered my BM dresses...i call the dress place to see what time this months they would be coming in...She tells me that they haven't been ordered yet b/c my MOH has not sent in a deposit....OK TOTALLY FREAKING OUT!...so i call her and ask her what is going on...she leaves me a text message saying she has no money and can't be in the wedding!!!!OK NOW I'M BRIDEZILLA!
So i asked on of my other BM's to be my MOH, she gladly accepted...and then my old MOH has the gall to sent me an IM last night and tell me she has had a hard time with her bills, b/c now she has to pay for her car! (her parents paid for it)...I'm like i pay for all my bills including my car and now a mortgage, don't complain to me about having no money! Told her she was no longer the MOH! what the hell is wrong with people...she couldn't tell me months ago that she had no money...now my BM dresses are not coming in till june...instead of this month! ::ARGH::

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Posted by SoontobeMrsR72806

Oh i definately have a gripe!!!

Three months ago i ordered my BM dresses...i call the dress place to see what time this months they would be coming in...She tells me that they haven't been ordered yet b/c my MOH has not sent in a deposit....OK TOTALLY FREAKING OUT!...so i call her and ask her what is going on...she leaves me a text message saying she has no money and can't be in the wedding!!!!OK NOW I'M BRIDEZILLA!
So i asked on of my other BM's to be my MOH, she gladly accepted...and then my old MOH has the gall to sent me an IM last night and tell me she has had a hard time with her bills, b/c now she has to pay for her car! (her parents paid for it)...I'm like i pay for all my bills including my car and now a mortgage, don't complain to me about having no money! Told her she was no longer the MOH! what the hell is wrong with people...she couldn't tell me months ago that she had no money...now my BM dresses are not coming in till june...instead of this month! ::ARGH::

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OMG that is CRAZY!!!

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Posted by SoontobeMrsR72806

Oh i definately have a gripe!!!

Three months ago i ordered my BM dresses...i call the dress place to see what time this months they would be coming in...She tells me that they haven't been ordered yet b/c my MOH has not sent in a deposit....OK TOTALLY FREAKING OUT!...so i call her and ask her what is going on...she leaves me a text message saying she has no money and can't be in the wedding!!!!OK NOW I'M BRIDEZILLA!
So i asked on of my other BM's to be my MOH, she gladly accepted...and then my old MOH has the gall to sent me an IM last night and tell me she has had a hard time with her bills, b/c now she has to pay for her car! (her parents paid for it)...I'm like i pay for all my bills including my car and now a mortgage, don't complain to me about having no money! Told her she was no longer the MOH! what the hell is wrong with people...she couldn't tell me months ago that she had no money...now my BM dresses are not coming in till june...instead of this month! ::ARGH::

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THATS IS MESSED UP!!!! IM SO SORRY!!