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Anyone not going back to work after the wedding?

EJSD2006 Posted:

Anyone not going back to work after the wedding?

My friend got engaged a few months ago and she hasn't told her fiance but she doesn't plan on working after they are married. I keep telling her that it's something she should definitely mention to him prior. Nonetheless, anyone else staying home after your married? Just taking a poll...

CrescentBride606 Posted:

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no im not allowed, my father said hes not my provider anymore....ahhhhh finannly out of the family buisness.....i can't wait to sit home and go shopping...
ssdbk Posted:

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Posted by alnem

My friend got engaged a few months ago and she hasn't told her fiance but she doesn't plan on working after they are married. I keep telling her that it's something she should definitely mention to him prior. Nonetheless, anyone else staying home after your married? Just taking a poll...



Well, on the one hand there is the discussion about whether to stay home and on the other hand there is the issue about telling your spouse!

I had friends who had the same issue. The wife also didn;t find it necessary to tell him when SHE decided to go off the pill because SHE decided it was time to get preggo!
CrescentBride606 Posted:

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. The wife also didn;t find it necessary to tell him when SHE decided to go off the pill because SHE decided it was time to get preggo!


thats not good...
Goldi1021 Posted:

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Posted by alnem

My friend got engaged a few months ago and she hasn't told her fiance but she doesn't plan on working after they are married. I keep telling her that it's something she should definitely mention to him prior. Nonetheless, anyone else staying home after your married? Just taking a poll...



Well, on the one hand there is the discussion about whether to stay home and on the other hand there is the issue about telling your spouse!

I had friends who had the same issue. The wife also didn;t find it necessary to tell him when SHE decided to go off the pill because SHE decided it was time to get preggo!



Yes I hope she has a good lawyer. I mean as much as I want kids soon, I'd never go off the pill without discussing it. If we have a child before we are mentally ready for it, guess who gets to be a single mom. No thanks - dont wanna be a statistic. People NEED to talk to their spouses.
SIBride06 Posted:

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Oh no.. She needs to have a serious talk with her FH
BlueTulip Posted:

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Posted by CrescentBride606

no im not allowed, my father said hes not my provider anymore....ahhhhh finannly out of the family buisness.....i can't wait to sit home and go shopping...


You're not allowed to go back to work? Just curious; what does this mean?
BKtoLI Posted:

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I have to work. I will even work when I have kids. I can't even take it when I'm at work with nothing to do, let alone sit at home with nothing to do!!!

I could stay at home for maybe a week tops before I would go bonkers and need to work.
Jen2999 Posted:

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I dont have the financial freedom to ever stay home ....

If I did I would in a second. Id get a little side job or volunteer to keep me busy...but ID like ot not have the responsibility and take care of my future family.
lacey&mark Posted:

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i will continue working fulltime and going to school fulltime. i should start my masters in aug and finish it in 2 years, then hopefullt get job as a school counselor in NC and eventually have kids AND work. it may work out that my fi can work from home, so i will have summers off and he can work from the time i get home from work if its early enough during the school year. ~lacey

ssdbk Posted:

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Posted by Goldi1021


Posted by ssdbk


Posted by alnem

My friend got engaged a few months ago and she hasn't told her fiance but she doesn't plan on working after they are married. I keep telling her that it's something she should definitely mention to him prior. Nonetheless, anyone else staying home after your married? Just taking a poll...



Well, on the one hand there is the discussion about whether to stay home and on the other hand there is the issue about telling your spouse!

I had friends who had the same issue. The wife also didn;t find it necessary to tell him when SHE decided to go off the pill because SHE decided it was time to get preggo!



Yes I hope she has a good lawyer. I mean as much as I want kids soon, I'd never go off the pill without discussing it. If we have a child before we are mentally ready for it, guess who gets to be a single mom. No thanks - dont wanna be a statistic. People NEED to talk to their spouses.




That couple is now divorced--with kids caught in the middle!
ssdbk Posted:

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Posted by Goldi1021


Posted by ssdbk


Posted by alnem

My friend got engaged a few months ago and she hasn't told her fiance but she doesn't plan on working after they are married. I keep telling her that it's something she should definitely mention to him prior. Nonetheless, anyone else staying home after your married? Just taking a poll...



Well, on the one hand there is the discussion about whether to stay home and on the other hand there is the issue about telling your spouse!

I had friends who had the same issue. The wife also didn;t find it necessary to tell him when SHE decided to go off the pill because SHE decided it was time to get preggo!



Yes I hope she has a good lawyer. I mean as much as I want kids soon, I'd never go off the pill without discussing it. If we have a child before we are mentally ready for it, guess who gets to be a single mom. No thanks - dont wanna be a statistic. People NEED to talk to their spouses.




That couple is now divorced--with kids caught in the middle!



I would love to work part time. I am self employed but in order to cut back hours I would have to cut back on some of the business expenses. It could work!
MrsStefan Posted:

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I think that its nice to have a few day off, or maybe even a few weeks but I am the type of person that needs to do things and I think I would go crazy if I stayed home all the time.

lipglossjunky73 Posted:

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Ummm - in this day and age - can anyone afford a single-income household????

I don't forsee a day I will ever not work - just never gonna be a reality...

Good thing I like my job...

CrescentBride606 Posted:

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Posted by CrescentBride606

no im not allowed, my father said hes not my provider anymore....ahhhhh finannly out of the family buisness.....i can't wait to sit home and go shopping...


You're not allowed to go back to work? Just curious; what does this mean?


my father is not my provider anymore..my husband is...thats what my father says...so i guess im out of a job..time to work out and shop!!
EmberLynn Posted:

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Posted by alnem

My friend got engaged a few months ago and she hasn't told her fiance but she doesn't plan on working after they are married. I keep telling her that it's something she should definitely mention to him prior. Nonetheless, anyone else staying home after your married? Just taking a poll...



Well, on the one hand there is the discussion about whether to stay home and on the other hand there is the issue about telling your spouse!

I had friends who had the same issue. The wife also didn;t find it necessary to tell him when SHE decided to go off the pill because SHE decided it was time to get preggo!


I knew this guy who was with this girl who started flushing the pill down the toliet and got preggo. Two yrs later, he comes to me and tells me 'kim is getting fat!' and I told him she was most likely knocked up. It turns out she was. Because she was so big they thought she was having twins, it turns out she was five months!
EmberLynn Posted:

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I think my FH is going to be stay at home dad. Which is what I wanted. I'm running my own business and he is helping, but I see him being the one raising the kids, which is fine.

scocaj Posted:

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For now I am going back to work.. if we have the money I like to stay home maybe the first year of my baby's life.. but that is still a bit down the road..

jada2destiny Posted:

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I have to go back. I love my job and I love my shoes even more...
BlueTulip Posted:

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Posted by scocaj

For now I am going back to work.. if we have the money I like to stay home maybe the first year of my baby's life.. but that is still a bit down the road..



Me too.

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