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Are you telling your BM which shoes to buy?

Maria31 Posted:

Are you telling your BM which shoes to buy?

Or are you letting them choose their own??

My BM dresses are brown and I really like the way gold shoes look with the dress. My biggest pet peeve is black shoes with a brown dress and I could just imagine one of them wearing that! If I tell them to buy gold shoes, without specifying an exact style, is that 'Bridezilla-ish'??? lol

TIA!
Browneyesncute Posted:

Re: Are you telling your BM which shoes to buy?

I asked them to wear silver shoes, but any pair they want

HTH
ItalianMcBride09 Posted:

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Not bridezilla at all, Im making mine all wear the same exact shoes!!

ttw910 Posted:

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I'm just asking them to wear silver shoes... they can pick the style. They are wearing long dresses, so the shoes won't really be seen, and they need to be comfortable.

bluekat16 Posted:

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I'm not telling them which shoes in terms of style, but I told them i'd like it to be silver.

I don't think requesting they be a certain color is bridzilla at all.

Now if you wnted them to all get the same exact shoe then that might be a bit birdzillaish becuase everyone's feet are different. JMO
Lacey08 Posted:

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I told them to wear any black shoe they want. Strappy, open-toe, closed-toe, peep toe, I don't care.

kslmbuggie Posted:

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they can wear whatever shoes they want...i'm not very particular about that.

i think u can ask them to wear gold shoes, that isnt being bridezilla-ish at all, but if you say this style only then that may be.
soon2bmrsconnolly Posted:

Re: Are you telling your BM which shoes to buy?

Posted by Lacey08

I told them to wear any black shoe they want. Strappy, open-toe, closed-toe, peep toe, I don't care.


Same here.
ksandjj Posted:

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Posted by ttw910

I'm just asking them to wear silver shoes... they can pick the style. They are wearing long dresses, so the shoes won't really be seen, and they need to be comfortable.


me too!
KK Holiday Posted:

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i asked just for gold shoes but any style they want

one of my BMs is 6 feet tall so i knew she would want flats

jessnstu08 Posted:

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as long as they are silver, i don't care what kind of shoes they are

ant090608 Posted:

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I told them the color they pick the style. Not bridezilla at all!

AllyDrew1108 Posted:

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I told them to all try to agree on a shoe. My dresses are brown and tea-length. I'm not sure what we're going to do. I wonder if silver would work that way they can just pick out something they like. I was thinking dyables.

FinallyEngaged Posted:

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I felt bad making them all wear the same shoe, so i requested they get whatever shoe they want, as long as it is dyeable (I am having them dyed to match the dresses)

ETA: I can't spell
agraydc Posted:

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Posted by Browneyesncute

I asked them to wear silver shoes, but any pair they want

HTH


thats what i did too
ItalianMcBride09 Posted:

Re: Are you telling your BM which shoes to buy?

Posted by bluekat16

I'm not telling them which shoes in terms of style, but I told them i'd like it to be silver.

I don't think requesting they be a certain color is bridzilla at all.

Now if you wnted them to all get the same exact shoe then that might be a bit birdzillaish becuase everyone's feet are different. JMO


sorry I didnt specify, my dresses at t-length
JodyLC Posted:

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I told mine metallic silver whatever style they want... My BM all have different dress too.

Augustbride08 Posted:

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I don't think so. I told my BM to get any shoe they want but it has to be dyed to match the dress.

lillprincess54 Posted:

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nope i let them get whatever they wanted as long as they where black

Luvbsb4eva Posted:

Re: Are you telling your BM which shoes to buy?

Posted by Browneyesncute

I asked them to wear silver shoes, but any pair they want

HTH


Me too, they all thought this was reasonable.

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