Are you telling your BM which shoes to buy?

Original post by Maria31

Jun 19, 2008 11:51 AM

Or are you letting them choose their own??

My BM dresses are brown and I really like the way gold shoes look with the dress. My biggest pet peeve is black shoes with a brown dress and I could just imagine one of them wearing that! If I tell them to buy gold shoes, without specifying an exact style, is that 'Bridezilla-ish'??? lol

TIA!

SparkyandAng Posted: Jun 20, 2008 07:53 AM

Re: Are you telling your BM which shoes to buy?

Posted by ttw910

I'm just asking them to wear silver shoes... they can pick the style. They are wearing long dresses, so the shoes won't really be seen, and they need to be comfortable.

I told them they can wear whatever they wanted but that I think silver would look best. My cousin found a pair black which I originally thought I wouldn't like but realized it's more important for her to be comfortable. The dress is long, no one will see the shoes anyway.

bella1028 Posted: Jun 20, 2008 07:54 AM

Re: Are you telling your BM which shoes to buy?

i have to agree black shoes with a brown dress is not so nice in my opinion.....what about saying you dont care which shoe so long as it is gold and kinda take your chances and hope they have decent taste....i did that....our BM dresses are tea length and my only request was that they get dyed to match....didnt care which shoe though.....definitely say something

Bridey Bride Posted: Jun 20, 2008 11:01 AM

Re: Are you telling your BM which shoes to buy?

I'm paying for the shoes as part of their gift. My BM's are wearing celedon with pale pink shoes and junior BM's are wearing a really pale pink with celedon shoes. I didn't want to inconvienience anyone so I figured I'd just take care of the shoes...