I personally don't mind. MY FH is just going out in the city to watch the final four b-ball tournament with his friends and brothers.
Maybe if I was younger, I would've cared more, but we are both turning 40 this year and it doesn't bother me. Plus my BIL and Brother will be there, so they will beat him if he does anything 'stupid'
I'm sure everything will work out fine. Don't worry or stress about it!
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I was fine with him havin one BUT NOT STRIPPERS... That is disgusting.. We dont like them... at the end of the day, we didnt even get one B-party...
If u dont want/like something tlak to HIM.. We both knew this since the beginning and even thought we have like literally the whole world telling us 'Oh u guys are boring u suk u dont want strippers, how the f can we have a party like da.. wow u dont trust each other. i cant believe it' We did NOT give a FKC what people think... this is OUR relationship and this is wat we wanted... NO STRIPPERS...
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my FBIL is planning his and they are going to Nashville TN.. which im a little jealous about.
out of ALL of the bach parties FH has ever gone to they NEVER go to strip clubs. its just not their thing. They guys would rather be at a fun place where they can make fun of everyone
we both agreed no vegas its just too much tempation and neither one of us wanted to worry.
I trust him and all ofthe people he is with. and my FBIL knows ill rip his nutss off if he does anything stupid
Bride2012
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Thanks girls you are making me feel better. I don't have any brothers unfortunately. But his best man I am close with and he said he will be watching him. My fiance isn't into strippers as far as I know. The plan before we set a date was atlantic city with guys and girls. Do one night apart and one night together. I thought that would of been fun. I just feel like its setting us up for failure or a fight. Why would anyone want to do that? Temptation...
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He is going to vegas and I gave him a few rules:
1. Don't get arrested. 2. Don't gamble all of our money away. 3. Don't have sex with another woman. 4. Don't have sex with another man.
:) :)
I trust him completely and he deserves to have fun with his friends!
My thing is if you don't trust your future husband at a strip club, you should probably think twice about marrying him.
Bride2012
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Thats a thought. Guys will be guys.
kitt6katt
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I am glad you all liked my 4 rules. :)
mattandjess2013
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The only thing I to FH's BM is that there's no strippers in a hotel room - that's a hooker not a stripper. Otherwise I don't care. I feel that if I were to get that upset than I obviously don't trust him. This isn't the case at all, so I honestly don't even think about it. I personally don't like the idea of a joint party (thats just my opinion), but I can understand going to AC or Vegas together but doing separate things. I've already told my girls I want a wine tasting tour at east (I'm easy lol) and told FH to have fun. I think his BM and GM know I'll kill them if anything bad happens
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FH and I are doing a joint bachelor/bachelorette party in AC. He already told his BM and GMs that if there are any strippers he will be leaving and going to gamble by himself. He told them that it will be his night, so not to ruin it. Hes not into that so why would he want it on his bachelor party. Im soo happy about that!!! The boys are gonna probably gamble and get trashed and possibly hit a club, while me and my girls are going to do a spa day and then go out clubbing and drinking. It will still be crazy for each of us, but in the way we want it to be - not what anyone else's expectations of it are.
Bride2012
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That sounds like fun! I trust him or I wouldn't be with him. But he is a guy. I think some of his friends are scared of me. I think he knows if anything were to happen we wouldn't stay together. He is my best friend and we tell each other just about everything. But I don't know why its such a big deal. I feel like its asking for trouble.
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I am fine with it! I am having a bachelorette party so it's only fair. I trust him completely! Not so much his grooms men and friends but I do trust him so I am totally fine with it
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I doubt FH will want a bachelor party - he's totally skeeved out by strippers and (this goes back to that post about saving lol!) doesn't get paying for nothing haha. I wouldn't mind, though, because Kevin is 100% trustable. We'll probably do a joint party or something silly - maybe I'll take him to Comic Con haha
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FH and I are having our bachelor/bachelorette parties the same weekend but at different places. This way no one has to be home while the other is having a great time. I trust FH completely and am fine with him having a weekend with the guys. Everyone has their own feelings about this issue tho.
Bride2012
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Its hard because we are putting a new relationship under a test I guess you could say. I mean we have been together for a while but we are stepping into a new chapter and role together as wife and husband.
Bride in 2012
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I'm fine with him having one. He's going to Vegas with his friends & I trust him completely.
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Posted by kitt6katt
He is going to vegas and I gave him a few rules:
1. Don't get arrested. 2. Don't gamble all of our money away. 3. Don't have sex with another woman. 4. Don't have sex with another man.
:) :)
I trust him completely and he deserves to have fun with his friends!
My thing is if you don't trust your future husband at a strip club, you should probably think twice about marrying him.
QUOTE OF THE DAY!
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I told FH he can do whatever he wants to do for his party...I'm not giving him any rules and he is not giving me any. I think you should trust your FH to not do anything stupid, at the end of the day he probably wont do anything bad!!
This times ten. You should be able to trust your FH 110 percent with everything.
Bride2Be78
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I'm OK with it. I trust him. His friends are not crazy over the top so I'm not worried.
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I am fine with it. We have gone to strip clubs together so I doubt that is what they will do for his party and if they do I trust him.
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FH and I will be having a bachelor/bachelorette party wknd in Vegas! It is where we got engaged so we thought it would be cute to have it there. Plus we love Vegas! We'll celebrate through out the weekend together and with everyone else. 1 night my girls and I will party on our own and the boys will go do there thing. I told FH if they take him to a strip joint no boobs and a$$ ALL UP in his face!
